Trouble Getting Hard, Help Needed Posted: 11-11-07 14:25pm
I'm 20, I have been with my girlfriend
(really hot) for almost a year now, we
haven't had sex yet but we have enjoyed a
lot of foreplay (use to be every night).
But recently I have had a problem getting
hard when we start the foreplay, we have
tried lots of moves/techniques/fantasizing
to try to get it hard but its not working.
I don't have this problem when watching
porn. Sometimes I get hard for a few
minutes but then it just goes limp again,
its really frustrating and embarrassing
I don't seem to get random erections
anymore and don't have the temptation to
want to masturbate
Can anyone give me some helpful advice to
get me up and running?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-11-07 14:30pm
Well you're almost a full adult
biologically now; random erections just
aren't going to happen anymore. You could
try a bit of abstinence from foreplay for
a week or so and see if that helps.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 11-11-07 21:06pm
Yeah-it could be just from getting older.
You're getting to the age where you will
need actual stimulation to get erect.