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jessica061506
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blisters inside the cheeks of my vagina - symptom of herpes ?
Posted: 11-11-07 23:25pm
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okk soo like 5 days ago i had unprotected
sex
i guess i wasnt thinking :/
andd like 2 days after I got really nasty
blister looking things all inside the
cheeks of my vagina.
and I felt really sick like I have the flu
with a fever and my legs and lower
abdominal area are really sore.
I read online and those are symptoms of
herpes but I am underage and there is no
way I can tell my parents.
Its gotten to the point to where I can
barely wear underwear and I can BARELY
close my legs and walk.
Then they pop and get stuck to my pants or
underwear and bleed and come back
I have lots of clusters of them and I'm
basically in tears 24/7 because of them
helpp? 
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-11-07 23:29pm
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wow
you really need to see a doctor asap
so what if your parents would get mad
if you DONT go get tested you could have a
serious disease or infection and DIE
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jessica061506
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Posted: 11-11-07 23:35pm
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no they will get more than mad
like really mad
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Posted: 11-12-07 16:44pm
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This sounds just like a herpes
outbreak....But you will not know for sure
until you get a blood test. You have to
see a doctor for a blood test and you need
to see doctor so they can prescribe
medication to ease your pain and
suffering. You need to tell your parents.
IF it is herpes the sores will clear on
their own in 5-7 days and then virtually
disappear. But more will come and it will
be just as bad. Also once they go away
and you are clear you can still pass it on
to others. You really should get tested.
If you are positive then you can give
people herpes and not even mean too.
I understand that your parents will be
angry but its time to fess up. They are
the only ones that can help you right now.
I have herpes and I understand how hard
it is going to be to tell your parents, I
had to do it. But no matter how much you
dont want to do it, it still has to be
done.
There are some ways to ease the pain from
home.
1. Take a warm bath with 1 cup of baking
soda. Only fill the tube to about 12
inches. Soak as long as you need to. This
will clean the sores along with soothe
them.
2. You can buy abreva at your local
grocery store. This is for cold sores on
your mouth but they work really good on
your sores down there.
3. Wear lose cloths and no undies if you
can. Wear skirts if you can.
Other than that there isnt a whole lot you
can do, you just got to wait until they
pass. But if you have herpes there is
medication out there that will help you
not have any outbreaks.....Best Wishes
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Posted: 11-12-07 16:46pm
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| jessica061506
wrote: | no they will get more than
mad
like really mad |
ok well then you can just get sick and
possibly die
is that better?
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Posted: 11-12-07 16:49pm
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If its herpes you wont die. But if its
something really bad, say an allergic
reaction. Then get your but to a
hospital.....That can kill you
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Posted: 11-12-07 16:49pm
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I wonder where she is????? I hope she
comes back........
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jessica061506
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Posted: 11-14-07 02:22am
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Thanks guys I appreciate it but my parents
are kinda of abusive so they will get mad
and hit me. Is there any way to see my
doctor without my parents or do I have to
go through my parents?
I've been taking lots of baths because
that is the only thing that will help them
feel better.
Now they are starting to scab up a little
and they don't hurt nearly as bad but it's
so grosse and I feel like I won't ever
have another love life because who would
want someone with herpes you know?
And it sucks because I was always soo
careful about using protection but it was
just in the moment and happened.
Ughhh :[
I'm having so many life issues right now
and this doesn't help. But thank you guys
for all the advice.
:[
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It's Gonna Get Better
Posted: 11-14-07 02:49am
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Did you make it to the Doctors if you do
not want your Parents to know go to the
Clinic nearest to you or better still if
you trust a friend's parent that will not
blab and knows your back ground go to
them.You need someone you can trust and
you are sick so you need to get help
soon,Try to find one person in your smart
brain that you trust and go to
them...sounds like a rough one and you do
not need to isolate .This is ongoing now
and you need treatment I am sorry your
parents hit it makes it worse...you can
even seek out some Health products that
might ease the sores at a Health food
Store but it is a virus and will come up
again.take care
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Posted: 11-14-07 03:08am
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Just remember, your health is the most
important thing. At the end of the day,
it's all you have after all. Just somehow
find your way to a planned parenthood and
they should take care of everything. You
can find one close to you by looking up
planned parenthoods on google.
It's not necessarily herpes! After all,
if you only had unprotected sex a few days
ago (and not like... 10 months ago or
longer) than it's too soon for an outbreak
to show. It could simply be an allergic
reaction to something. But it doesn't
matter... let them call it whatever they
want. It doesn't change the person that
you are! Whatever the case is, whether it
is herpes or an STD or you're just seeing
things, it doesn't matter. It happens!
People will love you! Just go to a
planned parenthood and have them
(confidentially) help you... and it'll be
free in your situation. That's what
they're there for after all. Remember,
it's a medical condition. It's not
something to ignore. People died from the
common cold before they were able to seek
a doctor's help and get antibiotics. It's
unnecessary pain and problems that you
don't have to deal with.
Also, they may be able to provide free
birth control that your parents do NOT
have to know about. Unprotected sex is a
no-no (you should know that though), and a
pack of condoms will do you wonders.
Good luck and get some medicine!
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jessica061506
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Posted: 11-14-07 03:53am
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Thanks. ANd yea I know its a no-no I guess
we just got caught up in the moment. It
happens.
Thanks So Much
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Posted: 11-14-07 09:34am
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Your best bet would be to find an aunt or
a friends mother. When you go to the
doctor just tell them that your parents
are out of town or something. I had to do
that when I was 16. Plant Parenthood is a
good way to go also....
I thought no one would want me either. I
was convinced that my life was over and
that I had a stamp on my forehead that
said "I have herpes do not touch" I was
so depressed for so long. I dated some
and there were some guys that did not care
and there were others that never spoke to
me (after I told them) Rejection hurts and
you will probably face something like that
in the future.
But at least its not AIDS. YOu will also
know right off the bat who wants to get in
your pants and who really cares about you.
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jessica061506
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Posted: 11-14-07 13:19pm
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Yea thats kind of how I am right now. I am
REALLLY depressed and I just feel like
crap. It really sucks especially at my
age. Ugh :[ Yea I think I'm going to
Planned Parenthood tomorrow so hopefully
its not what I think it is. :[
Thanks Girls
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Posted: 11-14-07 14:26pm
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Best of luck! Please let us know how it
goes and what it is so you can be help to
other girls who may find themselves in the
same situation.
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Posted: 11-15-07 13:46pm
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| jessica061506
wrote: | Yea thats kind of how I am
right now. I am REALLLY depressed and I
just feel like crap. It really sucks
especially at my age. Ugh :[ Yea I think
I'm going to Planned Parenthood tomorrow
so hopefully its not what I think it is.
:[
Thanks Girls |
I got it at 15 years old. My sex life I
have had herpes. I hope you went to
planned parenthood. Please let us know
how everything went....
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jessica061506
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Posted: 11-19-07 22:54pm
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hi guys
i went to planned parenthood and i have
herpes :[[
it sucked so bad to hear that :[
ughhh
and i just turned 16 so i still have a
whole life ahead of me and now i have to
live with herpes
um i told the guy i did it with to and he
didnt believe it at first and then i
talked to my friend whos his new gf or
fling or whatever and she told me that
they had unprotected sex to and she just
broke out so we both confronted him and
made him feel stupid :]
but im still really depressed and my
outbreak is basically gone thank the lord
:[
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Posted: 11-20-07 09:51am
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It is going to be ok, I promise you it is.
My entire sex life and relationships have
involved herpes. I know its devastating,
but please try not to let it overwhelm
you. You can have a life. This does not
change the person you are on the inside
and it does not make you less than or
unworthy. I know you feel dirty and
shameful but this will pass. You will
start to see that there is more to life
than just sex anyway. The next man you
meet you will have to tell them you have
it. Its scary, but you may face
rejection. Some men only want sex. At
least by telling them you will know who
really cares about who you are then what
your body can give them.
keep close to family and friends, they are
going to be your key people in all this.
Look online for information about herpes.
There are chat rooms and hotlines. There
are even dating sites for people with
herpes. Learn as much as you can and you
will start to see that its not as horrible
as it seems. Please hang in there, you
can get through this.
Please pm me anytime you want to talk. I
am here and I know how bad this feels.
Also try to get on suppresive medication.
They can lesson the outreaks. You will
keep getting these sores. They say that
the 1st year is the worst and it gets
better overtime. But the only thing that
can help the outbreaks is medication from
a doctor.
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Posted: 11-26-07 02:14am
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i feel so depressed
im hurting myself i feel so grosse
i just wanna die
i hate life so bad right now
i cant take it nemore :{
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Posted: 11-26-07 09:50am
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Ok breath, you need to call the herpes
hotline and talk to someone. ASAP.
Please reach out to a professional. They
can help you more than I can. There are
also local crisis lines you can call. If
you are alone then go to a friends house
or a family's house. This is not a good
time to be by yourself.
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jessica061506
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Posted: 12-11-07 04:32am
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yea i ended up going crazy
i eneded up at St. Marys mental hospital
for 8 days because i was so depressed
about it
it sucks so bad but i am trying to be okay
because i dont want to go back there :[
thanks for all your support Rosie H
it means a lot to me :]
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