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Flurries in the air
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2007 Posts: 388 Location: Chicago
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Scared of getting married and being bored with husband ?
Posted: 11-12-07 22:05pm
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So i noticed like every married woman
feels like she has her hands tied and
always wishes that she could be free and
independent...
I am like scared to get married because
im scared ill get bored of my
husband...does anyone else feels that way?
i just cant imagine being with some for
like 50 years lol
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
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Posted: 11-12-07 22:09pm
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have you ever been in love?
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Maddie34
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Posted: 11-12-07 22:11pm
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I'd like to think that when I decide to
get married it will be with a man who I
will feel like 50 years isn't nearly
enough.
I think I know what you mean though.
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Flurries in the air
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 11-12-07 22:15pm
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ugh i guess so but idk
But i still feel like living with one
person for the rest of ur life is
scaryyyyyy
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
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Posted: 11-12-07 22:17pm
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| winter_child
wrote: | ugh i guess so but idk
But i still feel like living with one
person for the rest of ur life is
scaryyyyyy |
no its not lol
as you get more mature and grow up you
will feel differently
its scary now because your a teenager
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Flurries in the air
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2007 Posts: 388 Location: Chicago
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Posted: 11-12-07 22:19pm
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| the_girlfriend
wrote: | | winter_child
wrote: | ugh i guess so but idk
But i still feel like living with one
person for the rest of ur life is
scaryyyyyy |
no its not lol
as you get more mature and grow up you
will feel differently
its scary now because your a
teenager |
you are one too lol
arent you like kinda scared that you will
never ever kiss anyone or do anything with
anyone but travis?
You will never have like crushes and wait
for their call and when they do call get
butterflies and feel like your gonna faint
when they tell you that your cute
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Maddie34
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Posted: 11-12-07 22:26pm
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I understand. You and I are very young
though; let's just hope this sort of thing
doesn't seem so scary when we are closer
to the time to marry!
But when you find a guy that you love, the
idea doesn't seem so imposing.
I don't know about girlfriend, but I know
I still get that feeling with my
boyfriend. Sometimes when he looks at me I
feel like I'm 17 again and we've only been
together for a few days.
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
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Posted: 11-12-07 22:32pm
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| winter_child
wrote: | | the_girlfriend
wrote: | | winter_child
wrote: | ugh i guess so but idk
But i still feel like living with one
person for the rest of ur life is
scaryyyyyy |
no its not lol
as you get more mature and grow up you
will feel differently
its scary now because your a
teenager |
you are one too lol
arent you like kinda scared that you will
never ever kiss anyone or do anything with
anyone but travis?
You will never have like crushes and wait
for their call and when they do call get
butterflies and feel like your gonna faint
when they tell you that your
cute |
no because i get that feeling with him
id rather it
be just him then a million other boys whos
opinions would never matter
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Flurries in the air
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2007 Posts: 388 Location: Chicago
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Posted: 11-12-07 22:40pm
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| the_girlfriend
wrote: | | winter_child
wrote: | | the_girlfriend
wrote: | | winter_child
wrote: | ugh i guess so but idk
But i still feel like living with one
person for the rest of ur life is
scaryyyyyy |
no its not lol
as you get more mature and grow up you
will feel differently
its scary now because your a
teenager |
you are one too lol
arent you like kinda scared that you will
never ever kiss anyone or do anything with
anyone but travis?
You will never have like crushes and wait
for their call and when they do call get
butterflies and feel like your gonna faint
when they tell you that your
cute |
no because i get that feeling with him
id rather it
be just him then a million other boys whos
opinions would never
matter |
o well i guess ur lucky that you found
him!
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Flurries in the air
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 11-12-07 22:40pm
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| Maddie34
wrote: | I understand. You and I are
very young though; let's just hope this
sort of thing doesn't seem so scary when
we are closer to the time to marry!
But when you find a guy that you love, the
idea doesn't seem so imposing.
I don't know about girlfriend, but I know
I still get that feeling with my
boyfriend. Sometimes when he looks at me I
feel like I'm 17 again and we've only been
together for a few days.  |
lets hope so! I am 17 lol and marriage
sounds very scary right about now
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
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Posted: 11-12-07 22:43pm
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im so glad im at this point in my life
right now
i could never ask for anything more
i tthink about it everyday
about how much it all means to me
and how worth it tat it is
to give up everything i have
for him
and our daughter and my life
the way it is now
i wouldnt change a thing
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Flurries in the air
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2007 Posts: 388 Location: Chicago
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Posted: 11-12-07 22:50pm
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| the_girlfriend
wrote: | im so glad im at this point
in my life right now
i could never ask for anything more
i tthink about it everyday
about how much it all means to me
and how worth it tat it is
to give up everything i have
for him
and our daughter and my life
the way it is now
i wouldnt change a thing
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awww that is sooo cute!
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anniek
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Posted: 11-13-07 09:59am
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I got married at 17 just about 18 but I
love him more than anything! I see guys
that are cute or something and that's all
it is a cute guy. If you truly love a guy
looking at him and hearing his voice
everyday is enough. You'll know and it
will be great! Just don't rush anything
make sure that man is who can imagine
being with everyday before getting married
it makes life alot easier
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 11-13-07 11:16am
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It is completely worth it when you are
with a guy you love. I can't imagine
being with anyone other than Mike. I wake
up next to him every single day, and
seeing his sleepy smile with a good
morning kiss is the best start to a day
ever. We've been living together for
almost half a year now, and when he walks
in the door after work I still jump up and
fly into his arms grinning. Nothing ever
feels old with him, and he is better than
a million crushes or guys or anything. I
have all I want/need with him. Marriage
seems a lot less scary than it did years
ago.
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Jude-Love
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jun 2007 Posts: 727 Location: Williamstown, Kentucky USA
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Posted: 11-13-07 12:24pm
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I have only been married for six months,
but I don't feel that way at all! I love
my husband and we argue sometimes, but
that's part of living. I love him to
death and I'm so glad everyday that I
married him. Seriously, marriage is
tough, it's not a party, it's an
adjustment. But we have grown together in
such a special way since we got married,
even though the first few months were
hell.
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
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Posted: 11-13-07 12:36pm
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| Jude-Love
wrote: | | I have only been married for
six months, but I don't feel that way at
all! I love my husband and we argue
sometimes, but that's part of living. I
love him to death and I'm so glad everyday
that I married him. Seriously, marriage
is tough, it's not a party, it's an
adjustment. But we have grown together in
such a special way since we got married,
even though the first few months were
hell. |
oh jude i LOVE your new avatar picture
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