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Flurries in the air

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Scared of getting married and being bored with husband ?
Posted: 11-12-07 22:05pm

So i noticed like every married woman feels like she has her hands tied and always wishes that she could be free and independent...
I am like scared to get married because im scared ill get bored of my husband...does anyone else feels that way? i just cant imagine being with some for like 50 years lol
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young Girl

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Posted: 11-12-07 22:09pm

have you ever been in love?
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Maddie34

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Posted: 11-12-07 22:11pm

I'd like to think that when I decide to get married it will be with a man who I will feel like 50 years isn't nearly enough.

I think I know what you mean though. Smile
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Flurries in the air

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Posted: 11-12-07 22:15pm

ugh i guess so but idk
But i still feel like living with one person for the rest of ur life is scaryyyyyy
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young Girl

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Posted: 11-12-07 22:17pm

winter_child wrote:
ugh i guess so but idk
But i still feel like living with one person for the rest of ur life is scaryyyyyy


no its not lol
as you get more mature and grow up you will feel differently
its scary now because your a teenager
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Flurries in the air

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Posted: 11-12-07 22:19pm

the_girlfriend wrote:
winter_child wrote:
ugh i guess so but idk
But i still feel like living with one person for the rest of ur life is scaryyyyyy


no its not lol
as you get more mature and grow up you will feel differently
its scary now because your a teenager


you are one too lol
arent you like kinda scared that you will never ever kiss anyone or do anything with anyone but travis?
You will never have like crushes and wait for their call and when they do call get butterflies and feel like your gonna faint when they tell you that your cute
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Maddie34

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Posted: 11-12-07 22:26pm

I understand. You and I are very young though; let's just hope this sort of thing doesn't seem so scary when we are closer to the time to marry!

But when you find a guy that you love, the idea doesn't seem so imposing.

I don't know about girlfriend, but I know I still get that feeling with my boyfriend. Sometimes when he looks at me I feel like I'm 17 again and we've only been together for a few days. Very
Happy
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young Girl

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Posted: 11-12-07 22:32pm

winter_child wrote:
the_girlfriend wrote:
winter_child wrote:
ugh i guess so but idk
But i still feel like living with one person for the rest of ur life is scaryyyyyy


no its not lol
as you get more mature and grow up you will feel differently
its scary now because your a teenager


you are one too lol
arent you like kinda scared that you will never ever kiss anyone or do anything with anyone but travis?
You will never have like crushes and wait for their call and when they do call get butterflies and feel like your gonna faint when they tell you that your cute


no because i get that feeling with him
Very
Happy id rather it be just him then a million other boys whos opinions would never matter
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Flurries in the air

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Posted: 11-12-07 22:40pm

the_girlfriend wrote:
winter_child wrote:
the_girlfriend wrote:
winter_child wrote:
ugh i guess so but idk
But i still feel like living with one person for the rest of ur life is scaryyyyyy


no its not lol
as you get more mature and grow up you will feel differently
its scary now because your a teenager


you are one too lol
arent you like kinda scared that you will never ever kiss anyone or do anything with anyone but travis?
You will never have like crushes and wait for their call and when they do call get butterflies and feel like your gonna faint when they tell you that your cute


no because i get that feeling with him
Very
Happy id rather it be just him then a million other boys whos opinions would never matter


o well i guess ur lucky that you found him!
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Flurries in the air

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Posted: 11-12-07 22:40pm

Maddie34 wrote:
I understand. You and I are very young though; let's just hope this sort of thing doesn't seem so scary when we are closer to the time to marry!

But when you find a guy that you love, the idea doesn't seem so imposing.

I don't know about girlfriend, but I know I still get that feeling with my boyfriend. Sometimes when he looks at me I feel like I'm 17 again and we've only been together for a few days. Very
Happy


lets hope so! I am 17 lol and marriage sounds very scary right about now
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young Girl

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Posted: 11-12-07 22:43pm

im so glad im at this point in my life right now
i could never ask for anything more

i tthink about it everyday
about how much it all means to me
and how worth it tat it is
to give up everything i have
for him
and our daughter and my life

the way it is now
i wouldnt change a thing

Smile
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Flurries in the air

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Posted: 11-12-07 22:50pm

the_girlfriend wrote:
im so glad im at this point in my life right now
i could never ask for anything more

i tthink about it everyday
about how much it all means to me
and how worth it tat it is
to give up everything i have
for him
and our daughter and my life

the way it is now
i wouldnt change a thing

Smile




awww that is sooo cute!
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anniek

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Posted: 11-13-07 09:59am

I got married at 17 just about 18 but I love him more than anything! I see guys that are cute or something and that's all it is a cute guy. If you truly love a guy looking at him and hearing his voice everyday is enough. You'll know and it will be great! Just don't rush anything make sure that man is who can imagine being with everyday before getting married it makes life alot easier Smile
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PenguinsRus

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Posted: 11-13-07 11:16am

It is completely worth it when you are with a guy you love. I can't imagine being with anyone other than Mike. I wake up next to him every single day, and seeing his sleepy smile with a good morning kiss is the best start to a day ever. We've been living together for almost half a year now, and when he walks in the door after work I still jump up and fly into his arms grinning. Nothing ever feels old with him, and he is better than a million crushes or guys or anything. I have all I want/need with him. Marriage seems a lot less scary than it did years ago.
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Jude-Love

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Posted: 11-13-07 12:24pm

I have only been married for six months, but I don't feel that way at all! I love my husband and we argue sometimes, but that's part of living. I love him to death and I'm so glad everyday that I married him. Seriously, marriage is tough, it's not a party, it's an adjustment. But we have grown together in such a special way since we got married, even though the first few months were hell.
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young Girl

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Posted: 11-13-07 12:36pm

Jude-Love wrote:
I have only been married for six months, but I don't feel that way at all! I love my husband and we argue sometimes, but that's part of living. I love him to death and I'm so glad everyday that I married him. Seriously, marriage is tough, it's not a party, it's an adjustment. But we have grown together in such a special way since we got married, even though the first few months were hell.


oh jude i LOVE your new avatar picture
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