I want you little girls to take a
realistic look at how much money it takes
to raise a child. Do any of you make this
much money in two years?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-13-07 12:32pm
The annual amount for food seems a little
low considering I spent about 400$ a MONTH
when I lived off campus a year ago.
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Jude-Love
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jun 2007 Posts: 727 Location: Williamstown, Kentucky USA
Posted: 11-13-07 12:38pm
Eiri
wrote:
The annual amount for food
seems a little low considering I spent
about 400$ a MONTH when I lived off campus
a year ago.
I thought the clothing bill was a little
low as well. Clothing is expensive.
What's sad is I think this is defined as
providing the bare minimum...I honestly
think most of the teens here make a
quarter of that or less because they have
no career (just a job).
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 11-14-07 00:01am
Most of these teen mom wannabees don't
even think that far into it. They just
want a baby. Their friends have babies.
Their own mothers often times were teen
mothers.
Also, they think:
Isn't every family in America on welfare?
Isn't that how everyone lives?
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futureclaudio07
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Dec 2007 Posts: 10
Posted: 12-01-07 00:58am
I agree with both of you... I dont know
when this board changed into the teenage
trying to concieve board..I was a member a
while ago...under the screen name
futureclaudio. I had my son and posted for
a few months but then we all moved
forward. I came back to see if i could
find old friends... and all i see is..
trying to have a baby and.. i want a
baby... what is going on in here?
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Idony
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Posted: 12-01-07 08:34am
futershock, this could be wrong but i
think a lot of it has to do with these
girls wanting somone to love and carefor
and someone who will do that for them too,
also its a way to keep a boyfriend around
in many minds
they want their own little dolls but they
are too old for the plastic kind so they
decide to go with the flesh and bone kind
~alicia~
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Mommy35
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Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 3165 Location: Vacationland, USA,
Posted: 12-01-07 21:24pm
IMO all of the totals are very low. If I
only spent $127 on groceries a month I
would have it made!
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-02-07 23:00pm
wow
those totals are way off lol
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 12-02-07 23:45pm
Idony
wrote:
futershock, this could be
wrong but i think a lot of it has to do
with these girls wanting somone to love
and carefor and someone who will do that
for them too, also its a way to keep a
boyfriend around in many minds
they want their own little dolls but they
are too old for the plastic kind so they
decide to go with the flesh and bone kind
~alicia~
You might be on to something there. My
husband recently said the exact same thing
about the dolls.
As for having someone to love them
unconditionally, I wonder if they ever ask
themselves if they love their own parents
unconditionally? Where do they get the
idea that children will love them
unconditionally in the first place?
Babies need their parents, and demand
their parents' attention, etc., I
wouldn't call that unconditional love.
The babyhood ends very quickly, and then
they are toddlers getting into everything,
and trying to get away from their parents,
so they can get into even more mischief,
as well as danger.