Any lubricants to help bring pleasure to anal sex? Posted: 11-13-07 14:32pm
I am gay and want to experience anal sex.
Is there any over the counter item(s) that
will help with numbing the rectum in order
to be able to enjoy the sex. My boyfriend
is large (penis) and I want to do this,
but I need a little assistance so it does
not hurt so much.
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sillysallie1990
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Posted: 11-13-07 14:42pm
there is a cream that you can buy called
anal ease that is suppsed to numb the
rectum but i have never tried it... you
can get it at some adult shops... but you
really shouldnt need it all you need to do
is relax use alot alot alot of lube and
ease into it... start with one or two
fingers... anal sex feels great to me but
should feel even better for you
considering that that is where your
prostate gland is located... as good as
anal sex is it is not something you jump
straight into so just be prepared...
good luck
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Rosie H
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Posted: 11-13-07 14:53pm
Hello, I just pm'd you,,,,,
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marvel
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Posted: 11-13-07 15:55pm
Hi.
As long as you take it slowly and allow
the anal muscles to naturally stretch, you
should be ok. Make sure you use a lot of
lube!!
If it feels uncomfortable, don't do it.
The anus is very easy to damage. Also, you
shouldn't have to do something that you
don't enjoy to please your boyfriend. I
don't personally enjoy recieving anal, and
me and my boyfriend are ok with it. Any
more questions you may have, feel free to
private message me.
I rarely receive, but have found that a
large penis is easier tham a small one. ok
to private message if you have any
questions.
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slimbil1
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Lubricant Posted: 11-28-07 04:54am
KY gel is the perfect lubricant for any
kind of sexual activity-available any
pharmacy.It won't numb you-but numbness
will take away most of the pleasure-but it
will make it easier for both of you.
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marvel
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Posted: 11-29-07 03:12am
I hate KY. I find it goopy and you have to
keep re-applying. I use Platinum glide...
it works well and lasts longer. It's a bit
pricey but it definitely works better.
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abbott
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Posted: 12-31-07 02:02am
Swiss navy lubricant. Water based to use
with condoms and there is also silicone
based. Silicone based is great for anal
when no condoms are used. But the water
based one is GRRREEAAATTTT!!! Here in
Puerto Rico a bottle of water based one is
about $15.99 but it lasts quite for some
time.....
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unnamedny
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