Joined: 19 Apr 2007 Posts: 14 Location: new jersey
Looking to talk about problems Posted: 11-13-07 22:10pm
im so upset i need someone to talk to
about my boyfriend and my problems.. no
one will sit and listen to me..
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 11-13-07 22:15pm
ill talk to you
whats going on
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asaverino
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Apr 2007 Posts: 14 Location: new jersey
Posted: 11-13-07 22:21pm
i have this boyfriend. and we have been
going out for 9 months. and now all we do
is fight. EVERYDAY. i love him to death
and i wouldnt trade him for the world. but
it just makes me so upset when we fight,
like i just dont care about anything
anymore, and just want to give up on
everything, and i sit here and say im not
when i really am so it dosen't make him
mad anymore. some nights i even go to bed
crying he makes me so upset. or even when
im at my house he makes me cry, and then
sits there and tells me dont cry im making
him upset. idn i just dont get it anymore.
we use to be so happy. and now he has
these old friends who he use to hang out
with and now he started to talk to him
again and they try to break us up.. like
idn anymore.i love him so much.. just wish
he would care a little bit more. and he
wont get a job.. i have to beg him to get
one.. he still dosent have one. its just
something about him i love. but i cant
take this fighting anymore. and no that he
hangs out with these kids now they just
take over. and he dosent care if i am mad
that he hangs out with them. and he was
like oh well all i do is sit home and do
nothing its not fair. bc i go to work and
he is home bored. but he wont get a job.
just wants to go out. these kids are bad..
idn help me. im upset. but i love him...
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 11-13-07 22:27pm
he sounds like a lo life nobody
yeah you love him
but he doesnt give a crap about your
feeling ok?
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jo_1982
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jun 2007 Posts: 33 Location: surrey
Posted: 11-14-07 20:29pm
Hi i no u say you love him but ask
yourself this does he really love you?
think about it as it sounds like he
couldnt careless you should think about
weather you wanna put up with his crap
forever are you scared of him?
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Fairy*Godmother
Supporter
Joined: 11 Oct 2003 Posts: 1340 Location: , Georgia USA
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I Totallly Agree Posted: 11-14-07 20:48pm
Jo and Suzy are right.........you are way
too good for his guy. Love is sometimes
blind. I believe now would be a good time
to cut the cord.....You are the
responsible one with the job. He could
care less, lazy ass sitting at hoe with
his so called low life friends. You
deserve so much better and you are wasting
valuable time you could be out having a
wonderful life with a man that respects
you and will give you the same love you
offer. You have to love yourself more.
Listen to me I've got 50 years on you! Not
all men are like this. You may feel an
attraction to him or a feel sorry for him
type thing, or even a motherly thing, but
to really love someone, takes feeling
something in return........Please, get out
of this crap ass relationship before he
drags you down any further. We belive in
you, You just need to believe
inyourself....you may just be afraid of
letting go and afraid you will be
alone.............NOT FOR LONG. You sound
like a great catch for the right guy!
HUGS!!!!!!!!!!!!
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FoolsParadise
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Nov 2007 Posts: 14 Location: Connecticut, US
Posted: 11-15-07 18:26pm
I was in a relationship like that myself,
and breaking it off was the hardest thing
I ever did...a big part of it was cause I
felt bad hurting her even though she had
wronged me, what really helped me out
during that time was like, constantly
keeping myself busy, with friends, playin
games, work, school, and any free time I
had, there was music blasting (harmfully)
loud in my ears
maybe you should give that a try
support is out there, it's a messy
situation, but sometimes just taking
action and doing something for yourself
makes you feel a lot better
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Mike East Texas
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Nov 2007 Posts: 116 Location: Conroe, TX Montgomery
Learn It Now, It Doesn't Change. Posted: 11-18-07 20:37pm
My last marriage, I married a control
freek. I love her soo much. The last
four years was nothing but fighting. I
still loved her. I would never say
anything to her that was demeaning, or
hatefull. She was very abusive.
Everytime I came home she would tell me
how ugly I was, how stuped I was. I lost
alot of weight. I was too thin. I gained
alot of weight, I was too fat. I could
never comb my hair right. I had to shower
three times a day. She was done with me
four years ago. I now wish I would have
left her them, and there, a waste of four
years of my life, and it hurt so bad when
she dumped me, it almost killed me.
Don't invest in another second. It is
what I call deminishing returns.
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