I am a guy actually, but kinda posting on
behalf of my gf.
Just to give you a lil background on our
situation:
1- She's got a IUD, we're both tested
against STD's so we I don't use any condom
during intercourse
2- I am pretty big down there while she is
very tight... AND we have a very active
sex life. As in we don't do it less than
twice a day during the week and no less
than 5 times during weekends... I know,
these 2 things mean: use lubricants. LOTS
of it.
Our problem here is that when I don't use
lubricants, and in this case we both go
down on each others before actual
intercourse, what we feel is actually
multiplied by 2. Seriously. We've tried
different types of lubricants and it's
always the same deal. Anyway, what
happened, and it's the 2nd time it occurs,
is that one night my gf just woke me up in
the middle of the night, we both were
extremely turned on and she just got on it
(she was on top which usually we never do
right away, even with lubricants because
of how tight she is). I could feel lots of
friction... The day after she started
feeling some pain and I could hardly touch
her with my fingers. I could see some
clear bruises on the outer lips and the
bottom side of her vagina very red,
showing some irritation.
You don't have to tell me to ALWAYS use
lubricants from now on, we both learned
our lesson and we've been going crazy for
a week now as I just can't penetrate her.
But I'd like to get some advice on what
she could use to help her vagina heal.
She's been using some silicone-based
lubricants and that helped with the
irritation and the constant itching
feeling that she had. The bruises on the
outer lips have fully healed actually but
last night we tried to have sex and she
felt some pain as soon as I was in by
about 2 inches or so. So I guess there is
still some inner bruises. Any suggestion
on anything else she could do aside from
applying the lubricant?
Sorry for being a little "graphic" in my
post but I wanted to show exactly the
situation she's in. I am pretty sure many
posters here have been through this and
the reason I posted this in the Women
section is to get some direct advice from
women who might have experienced this
before... I know it WILL heal with time
but I hate seeing her like this and well,
we're both going CRAZY not being able to
have sex
Thanks in advance!
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 11-15-07 11:18am
Are you sure she is bruised and its not
something else like a yeast infection?
Yeast infections can make sex REALLY
painful, and it would also make her vagina
red and itchy. If it is one, it can
easily be treated by over the counter
medication.
