I May Have Caught An Std Pls Help Me Posted: 11-16-07 17:07pm
heres the deal: i have been having sex
with a girl for about 2months now. we have
unprotected vaginal, anal and oral sex
often. we typically have sex 3-5 times per
day, 6 days a week. recently, some parts
of her past have came up and its very
frightening.
i learned she has had almost 30 sex
partners and have seen her diary which
read of her catching crabs about 3 years
ago. since ive been with her, she
contracted a yeast infection as well.
sadly, considering her past, i have reason
to believe she may have more diseases of
which i am not aware.
since i have learned all this, i fear i
may have caught something. I have no pain,
blisters, bumps or anything abnormal on
any area of my gentitals. no discharge,
burning, nor tingling, nothing abormal at
all, and no symptoms of anything. but i do
have an odd, almost soft pain in the area
below my belly button and it feels like
its behind my stomach, meaning its
internal, nothing topical. and its nothing
related to having to go to the bathroom,
its more like a sore muscle feel.
i have also been feeling a bit fatigued
recently. but i accredit this to the fact
that i have learned of all this in the
past 24 hours.
i am very nervous that i may have been
exposed to something and was tested clean
of everything at my last test immediatley
before meeting her. she told me she was
tested clean this past june, but again i
am positiive she has had at least 2 sex
partners between then and myself.
im not sure if i have a legitamate
infection of anything or if my body is
just reacting to both the immense volume
of rough sex im having paired with
discovering these horrible secrets.
i hope i gave enough information, i can
give more details of any aspect, but i
feel its well explained.
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lightweight
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Posted: 11-21-07 13:31pm
I would be scared too! If you are really
paranoid, go see the doctor ASAP so that
you know for sure. If you do care for this
girl and wish to continue the
relationship, then always use condoms
because it will be worth it. If she says
she tested clean, hopefully you can trust
her. Remember, crabs don't stay forever,
and yeast infections can happen to any
girl, regardless of sexual activity, and
cannot be passed to a male.
If you have a good relationship with her,
then she shouldn't mind your request for
her to get tested again.
Also, since this is causing much anxiety,
perhaps you need to find a way to talk
about this and ask for her honesty. If she
refuses to get tested or mention her
sexual medical history then she is being
selfish because your health is at risk. In
that case you might want to look for a new
girlfriend...
And I'm sorry about the situation you're
going thru.
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Lilly Ivy
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Posted: 11-28-07 21:06pm
Don't make yourself sick from worrying.
That's why your abdomen hurts. It sounds
like a muscle cramp, no STD has symptoms
of just abdominal pain. Crabs are easy to
get rid of and if she got them 3 years
ago, I'm sure she has rid herself of them.
If you are seriously worried, you can see
your doctor or simply go get tested at a
health department.
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greenboy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Dec 2007 Posts: 53 Location: Hazelton, pa USA
Well If You. Posted: 12-03-07 20:00pm
If you have annal intercourse with this
girl (I don't care if you were using a
condom or not) you may get a urinary tract
infection, E-coli is usually the culprit,
you need to be tested also for other
infections, she may not know if she is
infected or not. Hepatitis b and C very
important, HIV. Syphilis ( you may go thru
life with a positive RPR-test for syphilis
and not know it) and a Urinary check up.
Also a rectal exam to check your prostate.
She also need all these testes and
Pap-smear to evaluate if she is having any
infection like chlamydia if you had rectal
sex with her and then vaginal sex without
bathing first she may have a vaginitis and
an infection
Good Luck to you for now I think your
prostate and your urine should be check
soon as possible. talk to your doctor, you
sound young so try to go to public clinics
they are free
