16 And Probably Pregnant but 2 HPTs are neg. Posted: 11-16-07 20:59pm
I'm probably pregnant, because I've had
all the symptoms. However, I took 2 HPTs
and both were neg. I'v missed my period 2
months in a row. I get little not normal
sensations in my abdomen, and Ive been
getting really irritable lately. I havnt
vomited, but I don't vomit easily in the
first place. I get nauseated when I wake
up, and sometimes during the day. I've
been urinating more frequently, and I have
had appetite changes in the past two
months. I want to go to the doctors by
myself first, but It will be 2 weeks till
I get my license, and I dont have any
money to pay for a doctors visit. I dont
want to tell my mom yet, b/c she hates the
father, and I don't want her mad at me if
I'm not pregnant. I could tell my dad, but
he lives over 1000 miles away. He really
can't help me much. My ex is going out
with another girl and wants nothing to do
with me or the baby, if I am pregnant, and
I don't want him in my life or the babies
anyway, because he's a drug addict and a
alcoholic. I told him, and he laughed at
me and walked off. He's the only one I've
told. I've thought about talking to my
school counselor, but I'm afraid she'll
tell my mom. What should I do??
Thanks,
Mearhwine
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 11-16-07 21:05pm
Test again. If it's negative, you're not
pregnant. Your body is still changing, and
it's not unusual to have irregular
periods.
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Mearhwine
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Posted: 11-16-07 21:06pm
Should I talk to a friend who can drive
and see if they'll take me to a free
clinic??
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Ingi
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Posted: 11-16-07 21:07pm
Can you go to planned parenthood? They
give free pregnancy testing.
Sounds to me as if you aren't pregnant if
you've tested twice with no positive
result. Stressful living arrangements (and
stressing over being pregnant) can cause
this. So can ending a relationship, etc,
etc.
Take another test with FIRST morning
urine. Or go to planned parenthood.
Good luck!
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 11-16-07 21:08pm
That sounds like a good idea.
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Mearhwine
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Posted: 11-16-07 21:09pm
Alright, I'll talk to one of my friends
tommorrow. Thanks.
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Mearhwine
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Posted: 11-16-07 21:10pm
Also, one reason I ask even w/ two neg
results is that my aunt had 4 neg results
with HPTs and then went to the doctor and
it was pos, so I wasn't sure....
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Ingi
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Posted: 11-16-07 21:12pm
Missing your period for 2 months would
make you 3 months pregnant... that is a
pretty long time to get a negative test.
Unlikely to happen.
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Mearhwine
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Posted: 11-16-07 21:15pm
I took the tests after the first missed
period, about four or five days apart. I
havn't taken one since, but in the last
month I've been having symptoms......
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Ingi
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Posted: 11-16-07 21:19pm
Take another test. Then worry about
the rest when you know for sure.
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Mearhwine
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Posted: 11-16-07 21:20pm
KK, thanks so much!!
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Posted: 11-16-07 22:47pm
Your school counselor can't tell your mom
anything unless s/he believes you are
going to cause harm to yourself or others-
legally. I don't know if he or she would
actually follow the law.
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Mearhwine
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Posted: 11-17-07 12:34pm
IDK-I'm just afraid. I'm going to call my
dad today. He "might" be able to do
something, But I don't know. At the very
least he could send me some money to go to
the doctors.....I just don't know. I've
missed to occasional period before, but it
was normally just late or I'd have two the
next month. I've NEVER missed two in a
row...I'm supposed to start my period
around the 27th of each month, and I'm
pretty much certain that if I am pregnant
I concieved on the 21st of september, cuz
that was the last time I had sex. (I
remember because there was an away fb game
that night that our school played in and
my ex went to it). I can't get ahold of
any of my friends, beside the fact that
most of them are loud mouths and would
tell the entire school.....Should I make
my ex take me to Planned Parenthood?
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 11-17-07 12:43pm
Have somebody bring you there,
yes. They'll give you a free pregnancy
test and probably some birth control too.
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Mearhwine
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Posted: 11-17-07 12:51pm
K, thanks
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Then worry about
the rest when you know for sure.