im 33 weeks pregnant and ive never enjoyed
sex since i first tryed it and now that im
pregnant i really hate it. my bf tries all
the time to have sex with me... what do i
do? just have sex with him anyways? i
usually just go down on him to shut him
up. if i actually ever got off i might
feel diff. about wanting to have sex. i
think maybe im broken or something. altho
i can get an orgasm from a vibrating toy
on my clit but thats all ill use and i
cant do that in front of the old man
because he gets jealous of it.
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anniek
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Joined: 02 Sep 2007 Posts: 422 Location: , Iowa Usa
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Posted: 11-17-07 17:46pm
Ha ha!! I know I have the same problem.
But I know it's because of bc because when
I was off for a little while my libido was
back! And being pregnant sometimes that
just comes with it I had that too. So yeah
most of our married life I have had no
desire! Just think maybe someday! I don't
know try different postions and see if
that helps! Good luck!
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 11-17-07 18:17pm
im 36 weeks 1 day and im the complete
opposite
im like a horny toad lol
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PenguinsRus
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Joined: 05 Nov 2007 Posts: 1205 Location: New York, NY United States
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Posted: 11-19-07 10:42am
First of all, you shouldn't just have sex
with him anyways or go down on him just to
shut him up. Sexual acts should be
loving, caring, mutual things.
I'd say trying new positions. Also, if he
gets jealous of you needing a vibrator for
your clit, maybe you should sit down and
talk to him. If you explain to him that
having that extra stimulation would make
you want to be sexual a lot more, he may
change his opinion about how he feels
about it. Try using it while you're
having sex so you can possibly both get
off, or maybe see if he would be willing
to give you oral or something of the sort
beforehand to get you in the mood
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lightweight
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Joined: 19 Nov 2007 Posts: 25 Location: ,
Posted: 11-20-07 14:18pm
So u never have enjoyed sex? To tell you
the truth, I didn't enjoy sex at first
either, but it was because me and my bf
weren't in sync yet with what we liked yet
and i was nervous. I think that you just
haven't had satisfying sex, so of course
ur desire for it is low to none.
Is your bf not satisfying your desires?
If you love him and want to be intimate,
tell him what you like, how u want to be
touched, etc. But if he's not attractive
to u and u don't love him, that's probably
why you're not horny for him
Also, don't ever do stuff to "shut him
up". Tell him he's not sexy enough and to
back off! lol J/k But never feel forced to
do anything. But realize that you need to
show him affection in some way to make the
relationship work
Good Luck!
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Rosie H
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Joined: 11 Jun 2007 Posts: 1118 Location: Phoenix, AZ, USA
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Posted: 11-20-07 14:26pm
Thats a tough spot. Maybe you should try
and see if this has anything to do with
love or emotional issues. Is there
something making you shy away from sex,
are you afraid of something? Do you even
love him anymore? Are you constantly
forcing yourself to show affection as well
as sex? if so then there are probably
more issues other than sex.
