What Kind of Things Set Off You Depression? Posted: 11-18-07 10:09am
I would be interesting to know what sets
you off. Sometimes it could be little
simple things that would seem like nothing
to someone esle. I will give you a recent
example.
I forgot to give my son the lunch I made
the night before to take to work with him.
As he gathered his things to go to work
that morning, I said " I love you and have
a good day". He worked nine hours that
day. About 2pm I realize I forgot to give
him his lunch to take with him. I
emmediatly when into a slight state of
depression feeling guilty for doing that.
Now, that is something I was able to
overcome but, the fact that it atcually
depressed me is what really sucks.
So you see, even as a supporter, I also go
through it. And have to practice what I
preach.
What makes you depressed and how badly?
How bout some feedback?
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Mike East Texas
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Joined: 15 Nov 2007 Posts: 118 Location: Conroe, TX Montgomery
I Am Always Loosesing Posted: 11-19-07 00:01am
I have lost loved ones, loss of position,
loss of job, loss of carrier, loss of
health, loss of strength, loss of hair,
endangered future.
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yogahoneybunny
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Posted: 11-19-07 15:01pm
Rainy days.
Sometimes I wake up depressed?
And another trigger is coming down after
coffee.
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-19-07 15:04pm
today
and pregnancy all together
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Mike East Texas
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Come On Girl Posted: 11-19-07 20:34pm
Pregnancy is suppose to be a beautiful
time in a womans life. Maybe this will
help. I am a guy. When my wife was
pregnant. The only beautiful women,
besides my wife, was other pregnant women.
So, don't feel ugly or sad. Your are
very, very beautiful right now.
One time I woke up from a very bad
nightmare. I was sooking wet with
perspiration. I went to the bathroom to
wash my face. I realized that I had just
dreamed my life. I needed fantasy after
that.
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meblonde01
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Posted: 11-20-07 15:35pm
I'm not normally a depressed person. But
the holidays get to me at times.. Not
because of the buying of gifts. But the
hassel of all of it.. My family and
co-workers (mostly men) are saying I can't
wait for Thanksgiving. I ask them why and
their answer is all that food and
football. I think. " yeah 5 hours of
cooking for 20 minutes of eating and then
another hour clean up.
And the same thing Christmas Day only
throw in all the wrapping papers to clean
up.. It's just hard when you work 40 hours
a week and have to do it all at home.. My
Hubby will help if I would let him, but he
makes more of a mess then it is worth..
Blammm hummm bug! Not really I like the
hoildays but they really can get
overwelming..
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Georgia59
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Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 5542 Location: Along the Mississippi, USA
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Posted: 11-20-07 18:02pm
Failure- any time I fail to live up to the
goals I've set for myself. And I feel
guilty about it for months, or even years.
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Mike East Texas
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Meblond01, He's Stupid Like a Fox Posted: 11-20-07 19:54pm
That man knows how to help right. If he
really didn't, he would follow your
intructions to the letter. That is the
way guys are. We ignore context, or
intent. We follow to the letter. If you
give him clear instructions he will help
correctly. If he still screws up, tell
him to stop pretending to be stuped. I
don't know how your relationship is. You
will have to be the judge. But, you now
should have his number.
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k8nakis
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Joined: 20 Nov 2007 Posts: 2 Location: ,
Posted: 11-20-07 22:24pm
eveything and anything sets mine off. i
could see a little kid do something nice,
if i feel like i let someone down that i
care about, and generally, whenever i
think too much about my life i get
depressed. you name it and it works. i'm
not even exaggerating. i'm absolutely a
cryer, the tears come way too easily these
days. oh and definitely the holidays,
everything about them. mostly because i
don't really have any family.
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young Girl
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Re: Come On Girl Posted: 11-20-07 22:29pm
Mike East Texas
wrote:
Pregnancy is suppose to be a
beautiful time in a womans life. Maybe
this will help. I am a guy. When my wife
was pregnant. The only beautiful women,
besides my wife, was other pregnant women.
So, don't feel ugly or sad. Your are
very, very beautiful right now.
One time I woke up from a very bad
nightmare. I was sooking wet with
perspiration. I went to the bathroom to
wash my face. I realized that I had just
dreamed my life. I needed fantasy after
that.
your a sweetheart!
thank you
for that!
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Mike East Texas
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Joined: 15 Nov 2007 Posts: 118 Location: Conroe, TX Montgomery
Sweetheart Posted: 11-21-07 00:07am
You probably just helped me more than I
helped you. Just, by saying thanks.
thank you
for that!