ANGELOS MAMA
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Vent!!!
Posted: 11-19-07 15:04pm
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Okay.
I was talking to a guy named Chad before i
had my son.
I ran into him at Jamba Juice
yesterday.And WOW. 
He wants to come back into my life.
Ever since i had my son we really never
got to talk again.
&& everything was just left unsaid
between him and i.
It sucks because i cant do anything.
IM MARRIED.
He wants to help me raise my son.
Im so confused.
&& Angelos daddy is leaving for
the Navy..
BOOOO!!
you ladies i told first.. i need help.
what to do.
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Becky
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Posted: 11-19-07 15:05pm
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are you still with your husband? are
things good between you?
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-19-07 15:08pm
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so wait are you with angelos dad? or no?
lol stay away from guys named chad
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 11-19-07 15:11pm
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i'm confused i thought you were hsppily
married? Did i miss something? He
shouldn't be coming on yo you if he knows
you're married
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ANGELOS MAMA
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Posted: 11-19-07 15:12pm
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| the_girlfriend
wrote: | so wait are you with angelos
dad? or no?
lol stay away from guys named
chad |
yeah we are.
haha.i cant...ahhhh!!!! he makes my melt..
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ANGELOS MAMA
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Posted: 11-19-07 15:13pm
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yeah were together.
BUT.idk if hes the person i want to be
with the rest of my life.
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Becky
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Posted: 11-19-07 15:14pm
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are you guys officially married though?
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ANGELOS MAMA
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Posted: 11-19-07 15:15pm
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yeah we are..
[removed]
thats his myspace
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ANGELOS MAMA
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 11-19-07 15:21pm
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You need to decide if he is who you want
to spend you life with or not. Before you
move on. Period. You can't see this guy to
see how you feel about him while you're
'not sure' how you feel about your
HUSBAND.
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newmommy07
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Re: Vent!!!
Posted: 11-19-07 15:24pm
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| ANGELOS MAMA
wrote: | Okay.
I was talking to a guy named Chad before i
had my son.
I ran into him at Jamba Juice
yesterday.And WOW.
He wants to come back into my life.
Ever since i had my son we really never
got to talk again.
&& everything was just left unsaid
between him and i.
It sucks because i cant do anything.
IM MARRIED.
He wants to help me raise my son.
Im so confused.
&& Angelos daddy is leaving for
the Navy..
BOOOO!!
If your happily married (idk) then you
need to tell this other guy Chad to
respect that. You said you were talking to
Chad at one point before you had your son
and now Chad has re-entered your life...
How does this make you feel? Do you think
he might just be a home wrecker, I mean he
does know your married right? Do you trust
this man named Chad and have you known him
for a while? I have a million ?'s but idk
much about you... Anyways you also mention
that your sons father is leaving for the
navy... which means your going to be
lonely and possibly vounerable. idk what
advice to give you because there are a lot
of aspects to this issue that only you
know about at this point and time but I
would seriously think about all the pros
and cons of this regaurding both parties.
Write them down on paper if you need to...
like here are all Chads pros and
cons:....... and here are all of my sons
daddys pros and cons:.... and here is how
I feel and where I'm at mentally and
emotionally:.... idk if that made much
sense, its hard to type out what I'm
trying to say, but just think over all
possibilities is all I'm saying.
you ladies i told first.. i need help.
what to do. |
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Becky
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Posted: 11-19-07 15:24pm
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no the only reason i asked is cause
sometimes people just call themselves
married because they have a baby
together.
not that marriage means forever. i know
that all too well
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Hollyberries
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Posted: 11-19-07 15:25pm
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Just from personal experience when i had
my child at 18. I don't see an 18 year old
raising a child that's not his. Don't get
me wrong. Maybe he does, but i'm just
saying if i was in your shoes i would stay
with my babys father. It's hard to find
men that like to stick around, and take
care of what they created. I guess i've
just been burned to many times. 
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ANGELOS MAMA
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Posted: 11-19-07 15:26pm
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Hes knows im married.
thing is.he said "hes willing to wait" and
blah blah blah like that
we went out for 2 years before i had a
relationship with my sons father.
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Becky
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Posted: 11-19-07 15:44pm
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| Hollyberries
wrote: | | Just from personal
experience when i had my child at 18. I
don't see an 18 year old raising a child
that's not his. Don't get me wrong. Maybe
he does, but i'm just saying if i was in
your shoes i would stay with my babys
father. It's hard to find men that like to
stick around, and take care of what they
created. I guess i've just been burned to
many times. |
I agree. But you shouldn't just stay with
your baby's dad if you are not happy.
Breaking up with Neil was the hardest
thing that ever happened to me. My world
got torn apart. If you think you are
strong enough to handle the consequences
then go for it. But once you are divorced
there is no going back
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ANGELOS MAMA
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Posted: 11-19-07 15:46pm
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| beckster
wrote: | | Hollyberries
wrote: | | Just from personal
experience when i had my child at 18. I
don't see an 18 year old raising a child
that's not his. Don't get me wrong. Maybe
he does, but i'm just saying if i was in
your shoes i would stay with my babys
father. It's hard to find men that like to
stick around, and take care of what they
created. I guess i've just been burned to
many times. |
I agree. But you shouldn't just stay with
your baby's dad if you are not happy.
Breaking up with Neil was the hardest
thing that ever happened to me. My world
got torn apart. If you think you are
strong enough to handle the consequences
then go for it. But once you are divorced
there is no going
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i know that.
thing is there were problems between
angelos daddy and chad.
idk what to do.
so confused.
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 11-19-07 15:46pm
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| ANGELOS MAMA
wrote: | Hes knows im married.
thing is.he said "hes willing to wait" and
blah blah blah like that
we went out for 2 years before i had a
relationship with my sons
father. |
Willing to wait for what? Did you tell him
you were getting a divorce?
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-19-07 15:48pm
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were you plannning on leaving angelos dad
before you bumped into this chad dude?
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Becky
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Posted: 11-19-07 15:48pm
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Just really think things through. Is Chad
going to marry you? will he support you
financially? will you guys live together?
will he take on Angelos as his own?
if not then it's not worth it
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ANGELOS MAMA
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Posted: 11-19-07 15:55pm
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| beckster
wrote: | Just really think things
through. Is Chad going to marry you? will
he support you financially? will you guys
live together? will he take on Angelos as
his own?
if not then it's not worth
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He wants to.he also wants me to have his
kids.hes crazy over angelo.hes also in the
navy.
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