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bellax0femmina
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Location: New Jersey
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Convincing Your Parents
Posted: 04-11-04 12:28pm
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When you told your parents you were
pregnant.. Did they want you to keep the
baby from the very beggining or did you
have to prove to them that you can do it..
If so, what did you tell them or what did
you do that made them change their minds?
If im prego my mom wants me to have an
abortion, but I wouldt and need advice on
what I could tell her and my dad so that I
can keep my baby.
<3
gaby
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JillMarie
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Location: Iowa
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Posted: 04-11-04 12:31pm
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My mom wanted me to have an abortion but I
said I didnt believe in it and she
eventually just had to get used to it.
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bellax0femmina
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Location: New Jersey
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Posted: 04-11-04 21:24pm
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Somebody else plz gimie whatever advice
you have! =/
<3
gaby
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PregnaJordan
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Posted: 04-11-04 21:59pm
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My mom is soo excited, she never would
have even thought to tell me to have an
abortion...She can't wait...She loves it
jordan and jaydyn
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bellax0femmina
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Location: New Jersey
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Posted: 04-11-04 22:39pm
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Aw! Thats really good, im happy for you..
Its also a lot better for the baby
because you wont be stressed so much
during the pregnancy.
If I know my parents they'll come around,
and I doubt they'll kick me out.
<3
gaby
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noodleandshorty
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Location: burlington
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Posted: 04-11-04 22:57pm
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My mom was excited it was ryans mom....She
wanted me to get an abortion but I said I
didnt believe in it and it took her awhile
to get used to that fact.
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 04-12-04 23:28pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-18-04 09:58am; edited 1 time in total
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 04-13-04 03:57am
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Yeah I say stick to it and say im having
this baby and there is nothing you can do
about it. I was old enough when I was
pregnant so when me and jose told her, she
was shocked, she cried and she was very
happy. So maybe you might get the same
reaction later, just stick to your guns
and tell them your keeping it.
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bellax0femmina
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Location: New Jersey
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Posted: 04-13-04 05:05am
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Ok, ill stick to my own thoughts no matter
what.. And I have many friends taht told
me taht if I do wind up pregnant they will
open there house to me (one of which mom
owns a day care right in the house! So I
would get free day care!)
<3
gaby
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SkItLesSooN2Bm0MMy
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Location: miami florida reppin -305-
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Hmm ..
Posted: 04-13-04 05:25am
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I told my mom from the beginning that I
was probubly pregnant, well, wen I went to
walgreens to by the ept after I was 2 days
late , I ended up taking the test in the
bathroom of walgreens and it was positive
, I called my mom over and told her the
test was on the sink, she took a look at
the test looked at me and said " baby,
your fuc*ed " I never forgot that , and I
never will . But she got excited after
wards and wanted me and the daddy to get
married , so we did and here I am . Its
all good .. So far .. Good luck with ure
peeps . Lol . 1 luv
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lilmama2b_oct04
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Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 04-13-04 09:22am
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My mom is really excited and she has been
from the begining... She cant wait to get
her hands on her first grandbaby to spoil!
The only person out of my family, and
from what I know, kevins family that was
mad about it was my stepdad, but f*ck him,
hes mad about everything lol... But
anyways, just stand your ground, and
hopefuly your parents will come around and
realize its fun bein a grandparent... The
joys of having a baby, but being able to
give them back when your sick of them
thats what my mom told me.. For the
longest time she wanted to have another
baby but she decided she was too old for
that and didnt want to be tied down with
another kid when her other two are almost
old enough to get out of her hair and
leave... She said it a good thing to have
kids when you are young cuz then by the
time your 40 you can just live your life
without kids to be lookin after, then plus
you will have more time to live with
grandbabys, and possibly great
grandbabys.... I dont know, its my moms
point of view
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bellax0femmina
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Posts: 823
Location: New Jersey
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Posted: 04-13-04 09:33am
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Yeah.. You guys are very lucky to have
such supportive parents.. The other night
when we were out to dinner my mom was like
why dont you like abortion and I told her,
and im like adoption is always better then
that and shes like well what about all
tthe kids that are stuck in foster care
blah blah blah.. So when I tell her him
not getting an abortion and she says well
then have an adoption ill just remind her
of that =).. But when I tell her im
pregnant I have 2 sites im going to show
her on why you should support your
pregnant teen, and ill also show her a
pro-life report I just did .. And stuff
like that.. I hope that they'll work =/,
theyre going to have to! Lol
<3
gaby
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Darling
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Posted: 04-13-04 10:41am
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Bellax I have a better idea...How about
not becoming a pregnant teen? You said
your not trying to get pregnant yet you
seem like your pretty sure that you are in
fact going to become pregnant at a young
age. At 14 a baby really should be the
last thing on your mind and i'm not trying
to be rude but I don't believe any 14 year
old is ready for a child.
Tanya
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KariM18
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Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
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Posted: 04-14-04 07:40am
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I agree!!!
Now im confused too. . Uve been sayin in
urposts ur mom suspects ur preg and u been
talkin about it and she wanted u to get an
abortion. .But just now on aim u said ur
mom doesnt know and ur thinkin of how u
would tell her. .But if ur mom was a good
mom and 'suspected' ur pregnant wouldnt
she be the one makin u test when ur
14?!?!?! U just told me ur mom doesnt
know ure testing and ur not telling her
unless ur preg....
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bellax0femmina
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Posts: 823
Location: New Jersey
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Posted: 04-14-04 07:49am
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My mom did suspect I was pregnant, but
didn't make me take I test. Dont know
why..
Im deff not trying to get pregnant bc my
bf and I decided not to have sex for a
while now, cuz we're sick of worrying
about it. Also, I know im always asking
questions and stuff, but in an earlier
post I stated taht I just like to think
ahead and be sure of what im going to
do.
<3
gaby
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KissyBai912
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Posted: 04-15-04 03:01am
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Tanya I resent that remark! Lol j/k
believe me.....No 14 y/o is ready.......I
was 14 when I got pregnant n now im 15 w/
a 3 week old baby tomoorow.....And im
still not ready!!! Lol......But im doin
it......And with minimal help I might
add.......Since im always home
alone......But I have a supportive mom who
helps me out w/e I ask......Trust
me......Dont go gettin preggo......I love
my son and wouldnt trade him 4 ne
thing......But I wish I had
waited.......And I got lucky......Easy
pregnancy and easy labor and easy
baby......But not every1 is so
lucky.......Just wait.
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Darling
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Posted: 04-15-04 03:05am
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Chrissy I didn't mean to offend you at
all! I in no way meant that you were a
bad mother at all simply that being 14 is
so incredibly young and if its possible to
prevent a pregnancy then it should be
done. How are you and josh doing????
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KissyBai912
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Posted: 04-15-04 03:08am
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Lol tanya its ok.....We r doing great!!!
Sorry to make this short but he smells
like pee so im goona give him a
bath......Lol. How r you doing???
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Darling
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Posted: 04-15-04 03:10am
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Lmao you crack me up. That was hilarious!
Go wash that poor child! Is motherhood
as difficult as you thought it would be??
I'm doing ok lol and the only one that
smells like pee here is my cat....And he
doesnt like baths
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bellax0femmina
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Location: New Jersey
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Posted: 04-15-04 03:15am
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I am in no way trying to get pregnant..
If im not pregnant right now then my
boyfriend and I are going to stop having
sex for a few months and im going to go on
the shot instead of the pill! =)
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