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young Girl
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Posted: 11-21-07 22:34pm
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hey amy i told her that if she needed it
you offerend to come get her and let her
stay with you for a little bit
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soldierswifey
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Posted: 11-21-07 22:55pm
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aww thanks i totally will too
if you want give her my number
actually my phones dead and for some
reason i cant find it
but still give it to her
thanks soooooo much suzy
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-21-07 22:57pm
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your welcome lol
ill give her ur number when she calls or
if she calls me
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Magical Logic
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Posted: 11-21-07 22:58pm
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sorry she is going through all this but
guys she is not gonna leave unless she is
good and ready for it to be over no matter
how many times you offer to come get here
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-21-07 22:59pm
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| chase4
wrote: | | sorry she is going through
all this but guys she is not gonna leave
unless she is good and ready for it to be
over no matter how many times you offer to
come get here |
she wants to get help and shes trying to
she just needs a place to go 
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Magical Logic
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Posted: 11-21-07 23:02pm
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if she really wanted to get out and it was
really bad she would have took someone up
on there offer.
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-21-07 23:04pm
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shes not online
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shelley27ky
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Posted: 11-21-07 23:14pm
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| chase4
wrote: | | if she really wanted to get
out and it was really bad she would have
took someone up on there
offer. |
she is trying to leave shes also scared
(sp) if she had posted this a long time
ago and had time to see someone would go
and get her she would of had her bags
packed and ready to meet them somewere so
she could get out of there.
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-21-07 23:19pm
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ok everyone katie is okay for tonight shes going to bed.
goodnight katie!!!!!! we <3 u!
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Magical Logic
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Posted: 11-21-07 23:20pm
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| shelley27ky
wrote: | | chase4
wrote: | | if she really wanted to get
out and it was really bad she would have
took someone up on there
offer. |
she is trying to leave shes also scared
(sp) if she had posted this a long time
ago and had time to see someone would go
and get her she would of had her bags
packed and ready to meet them somewere so
she could get out of
there. |
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soldierswifey
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 11-21-07 23:21pm
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| chase4
wrote: | | if she really wanted to get
out and it was really bad she would have
took someone up on there
offer. |
its gonna be hard at first...plus shes not
online atm
and how do you know she hasnt taken
someone up on thier offer
people dont only talk on here...i have
girls cell numbers and often talk
to them on that...just thought id throw it
out there.
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soldierswifey
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Posted: 11-21-07 23:23pm
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good nite katie
you know you can always ask for anything
your friends will help
we love you lots!!
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-21-07 23:26pm
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| chase4
wrote: | | shelley27ky
wrote: | | chase4
wrote: | | if she really wanted to get
out and it was really bad she would have
took someone up on there
offer. |
she is trying to leave shes also scared
(sp) if she had posted this a long time
ago and had time to see someone would go
and get her she would of had her bags
packed and ready to meet them somewere so
she could get out of
there. |
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she is scared chase
shes also in a tough spot and she doesnt
need any added stress
shes stuck
its easier said than done when we arent in
her position. so we dont know how she
feels. you went through it but you are not
her
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shelley27ky
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Posted: 11-21-07 23:26pm
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good night katie we are all here for you
and always will be. we all love you and
are thinking of you and ur baby. you
will be in all our thoughts and prayers.
we know this is hard on you and no one is
looking at you as a bad person we are
going to help the best we can.
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amethyst eyes
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Posted: 11-21-07 23:29pm
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Chase, stop being negative. These girls
are trying to help her and if nothing else
at least she has the chance to reach out
for it. Do not make it out like everyone
is just like you and will do exactly as
you did
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soldierswifey
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 11-21-07 23:29pm
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| the_girlfriend
wrote: | | chase4
wrote: | | shelley27ky
wrote: | | chase4
wrote: | | if she really wanted to get
out and it was really bad she would have
took someone up on there
offer. |
she is trying to leave shes also scared
(sp) if she had posted this a long time
ago and had time to see someone would go
and get her she would of had her bags
packed and ready to meet them somewere so
she could get out of
there. |
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she is scared chase
shes also in a tough spot and she doesnt
need any added stress
shes stuck
its easier said than done when we arent in
her position. so we dont know how she
feels. you went through it but you are not
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good point
no one knows exactly what postion she's
in
doesnt matter if youve been there or not
im just glad that most everyone is pulling
together and trying to
help....that makes me happy and im sure it
makes
the people running this forum happy too
my goodness its late and im soo not tired
geesh,my hubbys been passed out since like
6
which means when he gets up hes gonna
wanna play xbox360 or wii for the rest of
the night lol
bleh this forum is addicting
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ShiningShannon
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Posted: 11-22-07 00:30am
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Usually I try and stay out of topics like
this, because they are just that..drama. I
am sorry you are in bad situation Katie
and I hope things get better for you.
I do agree that she will leave when she is
ready and not many people can have a
influence on that except him and
her..she's been threatened and hurt by
someone she thought she could trust, yes I
dont know her or the situation and I am
not judging. I just don't think the best
thing for anybody to be doing is bickering
over someone else's situation, it sure
doesn't help her out any!
I am sure she is thankful for all the
girls that are sticking up for her and
lending a hand to help out someone they
don't really even know off the internet. I
know that a lot of you have exchanged
numbers and talked, so I don't doubt that
there are some real and true friends on
here.
People are going to do what they will,
even if they are getting hurt...he's
remorseful when he's sober, and she loves
him, she doesn't want to be alone and he's
the only thing thats close to family to
her...her own dad wont even help, so what
do you think she is going to do? Stay
where it's familiar and keep hoping he'll
change....sad, I know, and I hope she
makes the right choice to get somewhere
safe instead of waiting for the next bad
thing to happen, cause the next bad thing
could be really really bad, just hope
she's not going to take that chance.
Nobody will really know or understand what
going on in her situation except her, no
matter how much she confides in some of
you girls. We can all keep her in our
positive thoughts and hope for the best
for her. What do any of you guys get out
of arguing about what you think other
people should do in their lives? Whether
or not you are being positive and trying
to help out or not...sigh.
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Magical Logic
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Posted: 11-22-07 00:32am
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| ShiningShannon
wrote: | Usually I try and stay out
of topics like this, because they are just
that..drama. I am sorry you are in bad
situation Katie and I hope things get
better for you.
I do agree that she will leave when she is
ready and not many people can have a
influence on that except him and
her..she's been threatened and hurt by
someone she thought she could trust, yes I
dont know her or the situation and I am
not judging. I just don't think the best
thing for anybody to be doing is bickering
over someone else's situation, it sure
doesn't help her out any!
I am sure she is thankful for all the
girls that are sticking up for her and
lending a hand to help out someone they
don't really even know off the internet. I
know that a lot of you have exchanged
numbers and talked, so I don't doubt that
there are some real and true friends on
here.
People are going to do what they will,
even if they are getting hurt...he's
remorseful when he's sober, and she loves
him, she doesn't want to be alone and he's
the only thing thats close to family to
her...her own dad wont even help, so what
do you think she is going to do? Stay
where it's familiar and keep hoping he'll
change....sad, I know, and I hope she
makes the right choice to get somewhere
safe instead of waiting for the next bad
thing to happen, cause the next bad thing
could be really really bad, just hope
she's not going to take that chance.
Nobody will really know or understand what
going on in her situation except her, no
matter how much she confides in some of
you girls. We can all keep her in our
positive thoughts and hope for the best
for her. What do any of you guys get out
of arguing about what you think other
people should do in their lives? Whether
or not you are being positive and trying
to help out or
not...sigh. |
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soldierswifey
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posts: 225
Location: , ny usa
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Posted: 11-22-07 00:37am
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| ShiningShannon
wrote: | Usually I try and stay out
of topics like this, because they are just
that..drama. I am sorry you are in bad
situation Katie and I hope things get
better for you.
I do agree that she will leave when she is
ready and not many people can have a
influence on that except him and
her..she's been threatened and hurt by
someone she thought she could trust, yes I
dont know her or the situation and I am
not judging. I just don't think the best
thing for anybody to be doing is bickering
over someone else's situation, it sure
doesn't help her out any!
I am sure she is thankful for all the
girls that are sticking up for her and
lending a hand to help out someone they
don't really even know off the internet. I
know that a lot of you have exchanged
numbers and talked, so I don't doubt that
there are some real and true friends on
here.
People are going to do what they will,
even if they are getting hurt...he's
remorseful when he's sober, and she loves
him, she doesn't want to be alone and he's
the only thing thats close to family to
her...her own dad wont even help, so what
do you think she is going to do? Stay
where it's familiar and keep hoping he'll
change....sad, I know, and I hope she
makes the right choice to get somewhere
safe instead of waiting for the next bad
thing to happen, cause the next bad thing
could be really really bad, just hope
she's not going to take that chance.
Nobody will really know or understand what
going on in her situation except her, no
matter how much she confides in some of
you girls. We can all keep her in our
positive thoughts and hope for the best
for her. What do any of you guys get out
of arguing about what you think other
people should do in their lives? Whether
or not you are being positive and trying
to help out or
not...sigh. |
at least you said it nicely
thank you for that
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ShiningShannon
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
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Posted: 11-22-07 00:50am
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| soldierswifey
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at least you said it nicely
thank you for
that |
Well she does need nice, positive people
and thoughts right now( we all
do!)...doesn't matter if she 's online to
read it or not. Some things I could have
re worded, but overall and a whole 3
paragraphs later, what I was really trying
to say, was....stop fighting people,
doesn't do anyone any good! Especially in
someone else's thread who is trying to
reach out, the best way they know how to
at the moment.
Hope you all have a great night and can
find some nice things to say to each
other!
You know the saying... " If you can't say
anything nice, don't say anything at all"
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