Strange Jealousy and Feelings Posted: 11-22-07 03:40am
Hey, Ive always thought about this since i
started being interested in girls and
learning all the birds and bees things. I
dont know where it comes from but Im
really confused. Ive always kind of been a
jealous boyfriend, not to the point of
danger or obsession just generally more
jealous then i probably need to be, it
sucks but i deal with it fine mostly, i
may throw a temper tantrum here and there
but thats it. Anyway moving on to my
question/problem. Ive been seeing a girl
now for over a year and love her very
much, now i get jealous of other guys she
knows and stuff like that and when she
goes out and has fun with the girls and
stuff but im used to it so its not a big
deal. she and i also have a good sexual
life. but i find myself getting irritated
when its "that time of the month" for her,
theres no way i can talk to her about this
so im asking anyone who will give me
input. I find myself being almost jealous
of her minstrel cycle or i dont really
know how to say it, its like, i get angry
and frustrated because of it, not because
our sex life gets put on hold because she
is still up for making me happy, but i
would almost rather not even do it if i
cant do it for her, i think of her
minstrel cycle and become very irritated
and just confused, i shouldnt fell like
this should i ? is it extremely
inappropriate for me to feel this way
towards her pms ? im not sure if i got my
point across any input is appreciated?
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ladyT02
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Posted: 11-23-07 22:32pm
Hunny its not pms its just her getting her
period I don't think you
should be getting irritated when she gets
it. Its something natural that happens to
women. I never get my period cause I'm on
the shot so my boyfriend is happy there
lol you can try talking to her about it,
but I don't thinks its cool that you get
angry over it, it could make her feel bad
and hurt that your acting like that.
Instead of getting angry why don't you
think of it as while she's on her period
and you guys aren't having sex its a way
of building the anticipation.
It worked wit my man when I used to get it
cause it made us want each other even
more.
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Maddie34
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Posted: 11-23-07 22:54pm
lol its not jealousy either-- because I
KNOW she's not enjoying her period! XD
I think during times like that you need to
strengthen your relationship with things
other than sex. I know your relationship
isn't based off sex but if she's not into
getting physical while on her period then
spend time with each other doing things
that don't involve sex.
And you need to learn to be a little
better apart every once in awhile. I think
being independent and comfortable away
from your partner for small periods of
time is very important for people.
Do you ever talk with her about this? Not
the part about her cycle but anything
else?
I don't think you
should be getting irritated when she gets
it. Its something natural that happens to
women. I never get my period cause I'm on
the shot so my boyfriend is happy there
lol you can try talking to her about it,
but I don't thinks its cool that you get
angry over it, it could make her feel bad
and hurt that your acting like that.
Instead of getting angry why don't you
think of it as while she's on her period
and you guys aren't having sex its a way
of building the anticipation.
