Well, achieveing orgasm is kind of a
personal thing ... so how can that be
wrong? If you want to use the pillow
technique, just be sure that you've got
enough pressure or indirect pressure to
your clitoris and rhythm is kind of key
for me, too. What are you doing in the
bathtub?
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Bibaya
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Posted: 07-09-08 08:39am
thanks for your reply and about the
bathtube well..water stream is the only
way howa u can reach orgasm!!
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Bibaya
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Posted: 07-09-08 08:42am
i the only way how I**** can reach orgasm
sry 4 the mistake
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furrytail
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I have been humping pillows for many years Posted: 07-14-08 14:09pm
Oh my gosh - of course I use a pillow many
times to masturbate and orgasm. I usually
lie face down and rub the pillow between
my legs. Some times I have augmented this
by using a dildo either vaginally or
anally depending on how I feel - this
simply heighens the experiene.
Wendy
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latbd18
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Posted: 07-17-08 13:25pm
Wow. I didn't know so many people used
this tecniqe. To be honest, I've never
even thought about it. Call me weird or
anythin, but I've never masturbated
myself, except for maybe 4 or 5 times in
my whole life. Now don't get me wrong, I
love being with my man, but I haven't
really concentrated in me:(....
I guess were all different!
Wow I laughed myself. I used to think I
was oversexed or had been molested or
something. I had a favorite tiger when I
was 7. Thats scary almost at the number
of people that do that. I have grandkids
and think they see too much sex and stuff
on t.v. I didn't see that much back in my
younger days but there was always this
feeling going on in my loins!
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mbcgrl
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Nice to know others do it this way! Posted: 08-05-08 09:55am
I have also done it this way since I was a
little girl (I am 26 now). Of course, I
didn’t know what I was doing back then.
It just felt really good. I usually lay on
my stomach when I do it and put the pillow
between my legs and under me and then just
kind of rock/rotate/thrust/grind my hips
into the pillow until I orgasm. Sometimes
instead of using a pillow, I will bunch up
a blanket and do the same thing. I am
curious if everybody else wears underwear
when they do it this way. I usually do
because it helps keep the pillow or
blankets clean. Thanks for starting this
topic. It is nice to know that I am not
the only woman who masturbates this way. I
probably do it like this 85 to 90 percent
of the time I masturbate. I have another
way that I do it sometimes that is kind of
unusual (I lean over the edge of
furniture), but I will maybe start a
separate thread about that.
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motherofhighspiritedones
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Posted: 08-05-08 15:00pm
To Bibaya: Different strokes for
different...well you get my point. If
humping your pillow and fingering yourself
only gets you there halfway and the
bathtub ices the cake, that's just you.
You are fine. I personally cannot get off
by myself. I'm one of those people that
has to have someone else do it to make it
feel good. So, yes you are perfectly
normal. No, you are not doing anything
wrong.
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cutie333
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pillow humping Posted: 08-05-08 15:07pm
omg i'm glad that i'm not the only one who
does this...i thought it was wrong...i'm
17 now and i'm a virgin and i find myself
doing this quite often...i've been
actually doing this since i was 8 years
old and i haven't stopped since then...i
want to but it's so hard
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byancagale99
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WoW! Posted: 08-16-08 11:34am
Thanks for technology, that people will be
able to share insights about this.
I thought I was abnormal, I started
masturbating with pillows when I was 5,
though i was not certain about it, but it
feels so good doing it. Then when I was in
college there I have realized that I am
masturbating, now I am 28, almost 6 months
pregnant for my 3rd child. I still am
enjoying my own moment of masturbating.
But I was kinda scared, since after I
masturbate my tummy contract and my heart
beats louder for 30 seconds, then after I
go to sleep. Since I go to work at night,
I always make sure I have enough sleep, so
I masturbate. I usually do it 3-5 times,
depending on the mood. Does anybody knows
if its safe, to masturbate when pregnant?
Hope someone will post a reply about my
concern. Again, thank you all for sharing
your experiences about this topic.
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Re: WoW! Posted: 08-16-08 20:28pm
byancagale99
wrote:
Thanks for technology, that people will be
able to share insights about this.
I thought I was abnormal, I started
masturbating with pillows when I was 5,
though i was not certain about it, but it
feels so good doing it. Then when I was in
college there I have realized that I am
masturbating, now I am 28, almost 6 months
pregnant for my 3rd child. I still am
enjoying my own moment of masturbating.
But I was kinda scared, since after I
masturbate my tummy contract and my heart
beats louder for 30 seconds, then after I
go to sleep. Since I go to work at night,
I always make sure I have enough sleep, so
I masturbate. I usually do it 3-5 times,
depending on the mood. Does anybody knows
if its safe, to masturbate when pregnant?
Hope someone will post a reply about my
concern. Again, thank you all for sharing
your experiences about this
topic.
Yes, it is safe to masturbate when
pregnant. Sex is safe during pregnancy
during all stages (unless notified by a
doctor that it is not which will mean you
have some kind of problem).
Do you masturbate 3-5 times a day in one
sit or 3-5 times at different times of the
day? Sorry for the dumb question just
curious I mean wow 5 times a day..but
trust me your sexual appetite will begin
to decline when you reach your 30's.
And btw a pillow never did it for me,
however I discovered the most delicious
way to masturbate with the shower
massager. Works everytime in no time lol!
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mbcgrl
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Follow Up to WoW! Posted: 08-19-08 15:24pm
In response to byancagale99, nightangel73
is right about it being safe to masturbate
when pregnant. I have to admit that I have
never been pregnant (I am 26 and currently
single), but I have read that a lot of
women do masturbate when pregnant. Also, I
think a lot of OB/Gyns recommend that
women who are near their due date or past
it have orgasms (either through sex or
through masturbation) because orgasms can
apparently help speed up the onset of
labor. Has anyone else heard this?
Obviously, if a lot of pregnant women do
it and if OBs recommend it, then I don’t
think you have anything to worry about.
You could also ask your OB, but you may be
too embarrassed to ask. I know that I
personally could never talk about this
sort of thing with anyone face to face.
Like you said, “thanks for technology”
in letting us discuss what we normally
would not.
Nightangel73 said that sexual appetites
begin to decline when you reach your
30’s. I really wonder if that is true
for everyone? I know that when I was in my
teens, I had a really strong sexual
appetite (I didn’t sleep around, but I
masturbated pretty frequently). When I was
in college, I got to the point where I was
only masturbating about once every three
to five days. From the age of 22 or 23
though until now, I have been doing it
almost as much as when I was a teenager.
While I sometimes go as long as three or
four days in between, I will be honest in
saying that I usually do it at least once
a day, sometimes more. Not only does it
satisfy my sexual needs (at least
physically), but it helps me sleep as
well. I don’t know if this is average or
not for women my age, or even if there is
such a thing as average. Does anyone else
have any thoughts about this?
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Re: Follow Up to WoW! Posted: 08-19-08 20:40pm
mbcgrl
wrote:
In response to byancagale99,
nightangel73 is right about it being safe
to masturbate when pregnant. I have to
admit that I have never been pregnant (I
am 26 and currently single), but I have
read that a lot of women do masturbate
when pregnant. Also, I think a lot of
OB/Gyns recommend that women who are near
their due date or past it have orgasms
(either through sex or through
masturbation) because orgasms can
apparently help speed up the onset of
labor. Has anyone else heard this?
Obviously, if a lot of pregnant women do
it and if OBs recommend it, then I don’t
think you have anything to worry about.
You could also ask your OB, but you may be
too embarrassed to ask. I know that I
personally could never talk about this
sort of thing with anyone face to face.
Like you said, “thanks for technology”
in letting us discuss what we normally
would not.
Nightangel73 said that sexual appetites
begin to decline when you reach your
30’s. I really wonder if that is true
for everyone? I know that when I was in my
teens, I had a really strong sexual
appetite (I didn’t sleep around, but I
masturbated pretty frequently). When I was
in college, I got to the point where I was
only masturbating about once every three
to five days. From the age of 22 or 23
though until now, I have been doing it
almost as much as when I was a teenager.
While I sometimes go as long as three or
four days in between, I will be honest in
saying that I usually do it at least once
a day, sometimes more. Not only does it
satisfy my sexual needs (at least
physically), but it helps me sleep as
well. I don’t know if this is average or
not for women my age, or even if there is
such a thing as average. Does anyone else
have any thoughts about
this?
They say sex near due date is good because
it will help the cervix to release the
mucuous plug which helps to prepare for
labor.
Regarding sexual appetitte well that has
been my experience and of my friends but I
could believe on some women to not observe
a decline as hormone levels vary. As you
get older also the sexual appetite will
depend more on external factors like
physical health, stress levels and how
good the relationship is. I can tell you
after reaching the 30's well I don't get
wet as much as when I was 25 or 26. My
best friend one time told she used to even
squirt in her 20's now in her 30's she
says she can't do anymore and has observed
the same decline in cervical fluids. At 26
your age yes I can recall masterbating
once a day. So things just change a little
bit. I couldn't have sex everyday as of
now, I think masterbation is different
than to sex. Too much sex for me would
make my vagina numb to the feeling lol.
Men experience decline too. My husband has
told me how it has changed for him as
well. (One reason why I think couples
should be close aged). But it is all good.
Your sexual life will still be fantastic.
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steph7985
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Weird. Posted: 08-22-08 23:28pm
WOW, tha's kind of weird. All I have to do
is masturbate with my hand to acheive
orgasm. Humping a pillow seems like it
would be irritating to the vagina...oww.
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furrytail
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Posted: 08-23-08 13:18pm
Not at all. I've never had irritation to
my vagina and I had been using a pillow
for masturbation for a long time.
Wendy
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Pillow humping Posted: 09-04-08 10:07am
lol i thought i was the onlii one that did
that 2.. i have been doing it since i was
6 or 7 and i still do it occasionallybut
unlike lori007 i can cum other ways..
even other ways of masturbation.. mostly
waterplay
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Pillow Humping Posted: 10-06-08 15:07pm
Gosh we had a lady who stayed with us for
a while&she would use her stuffed
animals!
As they where life like in size they sure
got a workout!&as our room was
adjacent 11.oclock was a popular
time&4.30 in the morning as i would
get woken up with the bed thumping
away!(& she sure had stamina!)
It didn't worry me as it normall really.