I am Seventeen and i am the mother to a
beautiful 15 monthold baby girl named
Ariyana Renee..... but that is not the
problem. I found out last week that i am
pregnant again i have scheduled an
abortion appointment for the 5th of
December... for some reason i feel a tad
bit guilty. I'm doing so good in school, i
plan to go to a good college and another
baby will just dim that dream. Two
children at 17 is hella hard. Am i making
the right decision?
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 11-23-07 18:18pm
I think you are doing the right thing, not
only for yourself but for Ariyana Renee.
Gorgeous name, btw!
I had an abortion in college and felt
great relief after. Now I have a
beautiful little girl.
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dejanee07
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Posted: 11-23-07 18:38pm
thanx, its a relief reading that.
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prettygirlygirl
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Posted: 11-23-07 19:09pm
If an abortion is truly what you want,
then I think you are making the right
decision for you.
Good luck, I wish you and your daughter
all the best.
*just a heads up, there are some girls in
this forum that freak out over any
abortion comments. You may want to move
this over to teh abortion support forum
so.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-23-07 19:25pm
Yes, I'd definitely suggest a Mod on this
forum moves this topic to the Medical
Abortion forum where she'll get unbiased
support!
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dejanee07
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Posted: 11-23-07 20:59pm
oh i didnt know there was an abortion
support forum, thanks .....
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shelley27ky
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Posted: 11-23-07 21:27pm
Eiri
wrote:
Yes, I'd definitely suggest
a Mod on this forum moves this topic to
the Medical Abortion forum where she'll
get unbiased
support!
yes it will be much better there and you
wont have people judge you there
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Becky
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Good luck and I hope all works out well
with you
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Birch
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Posted: 11-28-07 23:30pm
dejanee07, do what is right for you. I
had an abortion and I do not regret it one
bit. It was the best decision for me.
Please let us know how you are doing.
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Carifairy
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Posted: 11-29-07 07:43am
Dejanee-
For some women the abortion decision is
easy, because they already had their mind
made up before they ever became pregnant.
For women like you, this is something you
have never expected, perhaps your pill
failed, a condom broke, maybe you do not
even know why...
Abortion can be the RIGHT decision even if
it is a hard one to make, each woman is
unique, and you are no less special in
your own considerations and thoughts.
I DO recommend finding a clinic that will
either put you to sleep, or get IV
SEDATION, it will make the abortion
virtually painless and anxiety free.
I have had an abortion, no regrets
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n2r7moopad
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Posted: 12-14-07 11:22am
this is not a question you can ask someone
else like birch said d what is best for
you.
However how would you feel is you were to
never had got to meet your beautiful
daughter you have now? you sound like you
are in love with her, do you really not
want to get a chance to meet this child?
I understand with school and being 17 with
big dreams it will be hard, however there
are many couples out there waiting and
dreaming of adopting a baby. Why not give
this baby the same gift of love as Ariyana
has from you?
Some woman have no regrets (as posted) and
others do. This decision has to come from
deep inside you. Opps I now see that your
apt was for 12-5. Hope you are doing well
and are ok.
i have scheduled an
abortion appointment for the 5th of
December... for some reason i feel a tad
bit guilty. I'm doing so good in school, i
plan to go to a good college and another
baby will just dim that dream. Two
children at 17 is hella hard. Am i making
the right decision?
