I'm having soo many problems and I really
don't have anyone to talk to about
them..so bear with me
Last night I asked Shawn a simple
question. When we were going to his
parents on Christmas. He has only
Christmas day off and his parents are in
Maryland and we're in Ohio. He said he
didn't know. Ok, so I say he can go on
Christmas day and Dallas & I will stay
here and he says that I'm trying to keep
Dallas away from his family. Uhm did I say
that? They expect us to bring Dallas to
THEM all the time, why can't they come see
their son and grandson? We don't have all
kinds of money to throw out. So we argue
foreverrr and he call's me immature and
all kinds of other things. Says he isn't
happy here and this place sucks to raise a
baby. First of all this is my hometown,
sorry, and I REFUSE to move away from
here. He CHOSE to come here for college
and I ended up pregnant. My fault? No. But
him and his family blame everything on me.
They say I need to get a job. Shawn wants
me to stay at home with Dallas. I'm still
in high school which I do at home, take
care of Dallas all day, make sure the
house is nice and clean, have his dinner
ready EVERY NIGHT omg what else am I
supposed to do? So he tells me to pack his
things up today while he was at work and
he was leaving tonight when he got home.
Broke my freaking heart. I come cry to my
mom for like a hour and I go back and he
tries sucking my a$$ and I ask him if he
truly wants to be with me and he says yes.
I don't know what to do seriously it feels
like his family is breaking up our
relationship and I can't take it. I have
full custody of Dallas and if he left he
would have visitation with him. So I'm
asking myself if his PARENTS or SON is
more important...I'm a wreck and I really
need someone to talk to Give me some phone
numbers so we can talk LOL!!!
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Emma21
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Nov 2007 Posts: 183
Posted: 11-26-07 15:31pm
I am sorry. Did he say how long he would
be gone or is this a permanent move or
just anger?
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Mommy35
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 3165 Location: Vacationland, USA,
Posted: 11-26-07 15:37pm
I think you are very smart to stay in your
hometown close to your family.
I'm sure your man is just calling your
bluff. He thinks if he threatens you with
leaving that you will bow down and do
whatever he wants. Stay strong. If he
leaves you than that is his problem. It
sounds like he is the one being immature.
Stick to your guns!
If I were you I would ask that his family
come to Ohio to see Dallas. It sucks to
travel, but it sucks to travel with a
little one even worse.
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mommy_2_dallas0813
Supporter
Joined: 26 Oct 2007 Posts: 412 Location: Ohio,
Posted: 11-26-07 16:30pm
I've asked him and his family if they
could come here and they always say they
can't afford it. And we can? We have a 3
month old son and bills.
Emma, if he did leave I know he would come
crawling back and I wouldn't take it.
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Give me some phone
numbers so we can talk LOL!!! 
