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jodie 16
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Whats Anal Like
Posted: 11-27-07 12:36pm
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Me And My Boyfriend Have A very Good Sex
Life except ....Ive Never really liked the
thought of anal sexy which he wants to do
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i am willing to do it have tried puttin it
in but ythen chickend out
im wonderin if i woll be in great deal if
pain
advice wanted x
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-27-07 13:06pm
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If it hurts then you're doing it wrong.
Anal sex is very different from vagina sex
and must be done with much more
preparation. It is suggested you buy anal
plugs of increasing sizes, starting with a
"beginners" size. Using lube, practice
putting them in and wearing them during
vaginal or oral sex; or just whenever!
This gets your anal muscles used to
stretching out, and prevents pain. Just
like you have to stretch and practice
before you can do the splits in
gymnastics, you need to stretch the
muscles of your anus.
Once you can fit an anal plug the side of
your boyfriend's penis in, then you are
ready for sex! This process can take
several weeks. Once you're ready, again,
use a LOT of lube. Your body should be
well practiced in relaxing properly and
allow the penis in with no pain 
You can also play with anal beads, which
are inserted during foreplay and pulled
out during orgasm.
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-27-07 13:11pm
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it hurt me horribly even with lube 
im just not the anal type of gal i
suppose!
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jodie 16
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Oh Rightg
Posted: 11-27-07 13:17pm
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Alot Of Preparation For Anal Sex LoL !!!
iVE TRIED LUBE ASWELL
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-27-07 13:17pm
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| the_girlfriend
wrote: | it hurt me horribly even
with lube
im just not the anal type of gal i
suppose! |
You probably didn't spend three weeks
stretching with anal plugs though 
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jodie 16
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Haa
Posted: 11-27-07 13:29pm
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Soo Where do i get anal plugs then xx
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Re: Haa
Posted: 11-27-07 13:33pm
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| jodie 16
wrote: | | Soo Where do i get anal
plugs then xx |
Any local sex/porn store will have them in
a multitude of colors and shapes.
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Posted: 11-27-07 13:39pm
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Is it even worth it?! Ah, I've tried, but
I don't think my tiny butt can ever handle
that thing, even with anal plugs... :/
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jodie 16
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Hmmm
Posted: 11-27-07 13:43pm
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But My bf Reallly wants to do it !!
i thinik and i dnt wanna let him down
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anal plugs do they hurt ??
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Posted: 11-27-07 13:53pm
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make sure if you do try it again to start
while your on top of him...that way you
can control the situation ..its less
stressful!!
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Posted: 11-27-07 13:53pm
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If you're not comfortable with anal sex,
don't do it just because he wants it.
Does he let you stick your finger or even
one of your toys into his anus? I've
never done it and don't want to. There's
a lot of bacteria in there. However, if
you do decide to do it, don't let him
penetrate your vagina immediatly after.
I'd recommend using a condom for anal sex
and take it off once your done the anal
part. Like I said, there's lots of
bacteria in your anus and can cause
infections in your vagina if you're not
careful.
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jodie 16
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Eww
Posted: 11-27-07 13:55pm
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Like wha?
He Naggs for It All The Time I make
Excuses Not to !
But What Infections wb
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AMY99
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Posted: 11-27-07 13:59pm
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I take back my last comment ...you
obviously dont REALLY want to do anal sex
...so dont do it!!! if your boyfriend
loves you he will understand ...if not
maybe he is not the one for you!!!...its
your body!!
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Posted: 11-27-07 14:03pm
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Posted: 11-27-07 14:08pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | | the_girlfriend
wrote: | it hurt me horribly even
with lube
im just not the anal type of gal i
suppose! |
You probably didn't spend three weeks
stretching with anal plugs though |
nope we jsut tried it out of
nowhere!!!!!!!!
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Re: Eww
Posted: 11-27-07 15:39pm
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| jodie 16
wrote: | Like wha?
He Naggs for It All The Time I make
Excuses Not to !
But What Infections
wb |
You can get urinary tract infections and
bacterial infections. The bacteria in
your anus is a really bad thing for the
vagina. Never go from your anus to your
vagina or vulva. Always wash before you
touch your vagina. If you do have anal
sex do not go from the anus directly to
your vagina. Always wash. As long as you
are clean nothing bad will happen. Trust
me I have never had a problem with
infection....
Eiri has a very good pint, you need to
practice. It took my hubby and I about 2
months to have full anal sex. We did the
stretching thing. We didnt use plugs
(although that sounds fun) we just
practiced. I found a position that was
comfortable for me (trial and error) and
it was painless when we had anal sex. It
feels great..
But do not do it unless it turns you on.
Nothing will feel good if you dont want
it. Also you have to do it for you
because your muscles in your anus respond
to stress. if you arent relaxed and
completely ready you will be tense and it
will hurt
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-27-07 18:50pm
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wrote: | | Is it even worth it?! Ah,
I've tried, but I don't think my tiny butt
can ever handle that thing, even with anal
plugs... :/ |
The smaller ones are really small!!
Think about it this way: what's the
biggest poo you've ever taken? If
something that wide can come out, then
surely something that wide can fit in.
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Tylanas
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Re: Hmmm
Posted: 11-27-07 18:51pm
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| jodie 16
wrote: | But My bf Reallly wants to
do it !!
i thinik and i dnt wanna let him down
>>>
anal plugs do they hurt
?? |
Absolutely not!! You make poop bigger than
most small anal plugs  The key is to go
slow, RELAX, and use lubrication.
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Posted: 12-01-07 13:47pm
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when your boyfriend is putting his penis
in your ass make sure he goes slow and
uses a condom! use lots of lube because it
WILL hurt if he doesnt. you have to be
relaxed during it and one last important
thing is you have to communicate to him if
it hurts tell him. if it feels good tell
him. some women are wired differently then
others some find vaginal sex satisfying
and some orgasm better with anal. but if
you dont like it dont keep doing it. and
make sure he doesnt go from your anal
straight to vaginal you can get UTI's like
that
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Posted: 12-01-07 14:01pm
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You can orgasim from anal? How does that
work? or is it just from like, cliteral
stimulation at the same time?
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