Husband not supportive after surgery - help? Posted: 11-28-07 01:35am
well ive been married for just over 2
years but been together just over 6 years
this year has been a really bad year for
me due to not being to well with a bad
back that was so bad i couldnt walk for 9
weeks and then in april i ened up haveing
an emergency operation which i still
havent recovered from but while it was so
bad my husband was awfull to me he would
go out and not come home for 2 /3 days at
a times i couldnt even get to the bathroom
on my own he was out with his mate and his
mates daughter and the rest of there
freinds yes i did/do think something was
going on i was so angry at times i would
nearly crawl to get to the house where he
was which is a pigsty people call it the
dog pit i couldnt understand why he would
leave me and to go there the morning of
the day i got rushed in hospital i crawled
to that house to get him has i was so ill
i needed help i didnt want to ask my
family to help me has they didnt know what
was going on he did come home with me
stright away couple of hours later a
doctor came out to see me i was that ill i
didnt even know when i needed to use the
bathroom that same day i had an emergency
operation i had the op begged them to let
me come home 5 days after has i was so
worried he might not get to the hospital
with it being weekend and my family would
of known something was going on i came
home friday day i couldnt walk and my nice
husband went to work but instead of coming
home he went to that house yet again this
went on for weeks i couldnt do anything
all i wanted was to get myself right but
with him acting the way he was i wasnt
getting any better infact i was getting
more depressed by the day well things have
have changed now he dosnt bother with them
people but im finding it hard to forgive
him some days i feel like telling him to
get lost but i love him im still haveing
problems and went to see my surgeon on
monday hopeing for some good news but
theres nothing more they can do has my
spine is badley damged i just felt i
needed to get this off my chest im glad i
found this site
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nightangel73
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Posted: 11-28-07 21:22pm
how can you love such a jerk? I would have
run to my parents tell them everything and
go refuge with them. That man doesn't show
he loves you and my guess is that sooner
or later he will leave you so you need to
think about what the future holds for you.
Your family particulary is important they
know because those will stay with you.
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