Joined: 16 Jan 2004 Posts: 1222 Location: illinois
Feel So Bad... Posted: 04-14-04 00:31am
Hey, i'm usually not on this part of the
board....I'm usually on the teen pregnancy
part. But anyway, im 16 and have a two
month old boy. My boyfriend and I had
almost been together for two years until
about three/four weeks ago he and I broke
up. I broke up with him because I was
tired of him telling me who and what I
could do/hang outwith. Also, I was tired
of he and my mom getting in fights all of
the time. Well he cried a lot and begged
and begged for me to take him back and I
cried and cried a lot and told him I can't
take that anymore....Then he started to
like..Harass me and call me all the time
then he tried to commit suicide twice.
Well I told his mom and she took him to
the emergency room and they got him into
counsulling and stuff like that. He
like....Really doesnt hang out with his
son anymore and he is constantly
threatening to turn in my new boyfriend
cause he's 19. My new boyfriend is so
awesome, and even though I still love
stephen still....I really really like my
new boyfriend.....But I still find myself
getting depressed all the time because I
feel like its my fault that stephen was
going to commit suicide. Errr....I gotta
go my son is crying...I will post more
later.....But tell me....Whats going on so
far....What should I do to get rid of my
depression.
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Kerrie-Ann
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Apr 2004 Posts: 1 Location: Lancashire
Hey There Posted: 04-15-04 03:51am
Hi mommabear16, well im new and have only
just joined. Im kerrie, im 21yrs and from
england.
I know the feeling of why you cant get rid
of this awful thing and I always wonder
how I got so bad.
With your feelins about stephen dont blame
yourself, he seems like he was so wrapped
up in his own feelins and thoughts that he
forgot about you, he was selfish and
attention seeking if you ask me, he wasnt
taking any of your feelins into account
and thought about him self and that he
would get you back. He wasnt right for u,
and he should grow up and learn that.
You've got a gorgeous baby boy now to have
so many happy times with and this new
boyfriend will help you though things. I
know sometimes the people closest to us
are the ones we find it hardest to talk
too, but if your open about ur feelins
you'll get through it so much better. If
I cant possibly talk to the people closest
then I talk to someone I dont know, a
counseller, then I can just leave the room
get it off my chest and then go back when
im ready to deal with it again.
Kerrie
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 04-15-04 06:17am
Quit worrying so much about guys! At 16
and already having a two month old baby it
would seem to me that you need to start
getting your life together and I am not
judging nor am I trying to sound like your
mother, I am just stating my opinion
before you get this 19 year old guy into a
heck of a lot of trouble!
I hope this has helped!
Sincerely,
sandy
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 04-15-04 08:03am
I some-what agree with the above post. I
say screw it. Don't worry about guys
right now. The only guy you should worry
about right now is alexander. And sandy,
please don't talk about teenage mothers
like that. Just because she is still
worried about guys doesn't necessarily
mean her life isn't in order. I am 15 and
my son will be 3 weeks old tomorrow. And
I still worry about my man to some extent.
Just in a different way. But hun I say
just take a breather from both of them and
spend all the time u can with ur son while
u clear ur head and think long and hard
about it. Is your new b/f gonna stick
around for sure??? Is he gonna be a daddy
to alex? If not, then why bother keeping
him around? I'm here if u wanna talk.
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Kissybai Posted: 04-15-04 08:37am
Don't tell me what to do or say! After
all you just about said the same thing I
did but just in a different way.
Sincerely,
sandy
Last edited by sandyallen on 04-15-04 08:54am; edited 1 time in total
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 04-15-04 08:50am
Excuse me but I was nothing but polite to
u. Now I dont know what ur prblem is, but
u need to take it up with me privately or
take it elsewhere. You've no right to
tell ppl what they should n shouldnt be
doing ne more than I do.
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Haley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Feb 2004 Posts: 122
Posted: 04-16-04 15:24pm
Not sure I wanna jump into this one other
than to say its not your fault he's
depressed. Take care of yourself, you owe
it to your little boy
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hippiegrl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Apr 2004 Posts: 3 Location: Indiana
Posted: 04-24-04 14:02pm
You have your son and yourself to worry
about so quit worrying about guys. If
your son's father is too wrapped up in his
own life to worry about his child than it
is definately good that you are trying to
move on.
Let me just say that his suicide attempts
are not your fault. Whatever he does too
himself is his fault and never yours. I
know that can be hard to see but I hope
that you will not blame yourself if
something happens to him.
I do hope that he gets the help that he
needs though. Then he can be who he
needs to be for his child.
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BbyBlu0602
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2004 Posts: 822 Location: Virginia
Posted: 05-09-04 12:20pm
I hate it when people go talking crap on
teen mothers. I bet if they had to live
a day in our shoes, then they'd watch what
they say and who they say it to. Like
the song says, "god, forbid you ever had
to walk a mile in his shoes, then you
really might know what it's like....."
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