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Q: Boyfriend Problems....
asked by: isanchez on November 29th, 2007
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Well first of all.. my boyfriend has myspace and he has 3 girls that i dont LIKE...!!! He wanted to get with these chicks right before he got with me... He actually went out with one and got to 2 base with her... Ive told him so many times to take them off his friends... he doesnot care about wat i feel or think... he gets mad starts to argue with me and we end up fighting... i wrote one girl a message and told aSked her why she is her friend.. and she told me that he friend requested her... he found out got pissed off and took off to work early... if he says that he does not care about them why does he argue with me... why does he care about wat i say to them... wat should i do about this should i give our relationship time... our relationship is going down.. wat should i do.. I really need HELP...!!!!
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Rosie H replied on November 29th, 2007
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I am not sure honestly. Him having friends that happen to be girls isnt a crime. Maybe he is really upset because you dont trust him. But, did he go to second base with that girl while you were together? If he did then that tells you all you need to know. Without more information is kinda hard to tell.

How old are you guys? How long have you been together?
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Maddie34 replied on November 29th, 2007
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Eh, I don't think myspace is anything to base someone's feelings off of. I have friends on myspace that I really don't even like-- including ex boyfriends! It certainly doesn't mean I have feelings for them(even the ones I've been to seond base with) And my boyfriend has his ex girlfriend on his myspace too. I guess I don't think it's a big deal.

I don't think its something for you to worry about. The reason he's not taking them off could be as simple as him not wanting you to tell him what to do in terms of friends. Is there some other reason you're not ok with hm being a friend on myspace?
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Whaturmuva replied on November 29th, 2007
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Well the past is the past, I have plenty of people on that lovely invention called myspace... that I don't talk to at all. And honestly, being friends with past partners and/or people he wanted to get with *before* you... isn't a crime. I'm sure you have friends he does not personally like himself. Does he drag you around these people? Does he talk about them a lot? He was probably friends with these girls before he attempted to *get* with them, or in the process of trying he struck a friendship.

It seems that you may be a little insecure about him being friends with someone he previously had feelings for. If you really care about him you need to trust him and not beat a dead rat. His feelings for them are in his past, and his feelings for you are now. The green eye of jealousy can cause serious problems, if you want the relationship to work you just need to trust him.
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chubsizmybabydaddy replied on November 30th, 2007
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i think u should sit down look at him and ask him is it worth argueing over? and if he says no then tell him to delete them and if he says no then ask who is more important to him mysapce and his ex or u?
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nissy replied on December 2nd, 2007
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i agree with the above post, i could not have said it better. Nothing is wrong with having girlFRIENDS. But if u feel that u can't trust him or THEM , maybe u should talk to him. If he loves u then he should at least consider what u have said and how u feel. How woud he feel if u did the same?
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californchick replied on August 18th, 2008
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I have a friend with a similar problem
The chicks call his cell phone and two of them are friends with him on myspace but he doesnt cheat but however he was just recently caught sending a pic if you want to read more check out my post psycho ex girlfriend. Im sorry to hear this but you def. need to talk to him about these issues but its in the way you ask him have a heart to heart with him and find out the stuff you want to know tell him it makes you feel uneasy about it and tell him why and but its not a crime to have friends that are girls. You have to have trust in a relationship.
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worrywart01 replied on August 18th, 2008
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myspace problems again..stupid myspace...i mean..my whole thing is he was dating the 3 of you...and you two ended up together..he clearly had a choice..and he made it...the end...though if you find out later that they're messaging inappropriate things then I could see why you'd be upset...but as for now I wouldn't worry about it really
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californchick replied on August 19th, 2008
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I agree
I agree myspace isnt good . However it is great for homewreckers and boy/girl friend stealer and players, I tell you how many times have i heard about fights or arguemenrts about as as worrywart01 put well stupid myspace. I Have had my own problems with the sight.
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worrywart01 replied on August 19th, 2008
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yes..my friend sort of caught her boyfriend cheating on her with myspace...she had this whole problem with a certain girl..found out they were msging and what not so she decided to create a fake account and flirt with her boyfriend to see if he'd respond..he did..she confronted him about it and he said "i knew it was you all along" ..anyway..they didn't last much longer..the girl he was chatting with on myspace and him kept hanging out, shed randomly show up at his work on his lunch break and finally my friend called it quits with him..he then BEGGED her to take him back, said he was sorry for everything yadda yadda..she decided to take him back(who the heck knows why) and then he ends up dumping her like..a week later to be with some high school chick...(hes 23..my friend is 22)...and he wants a "serious relationship" with a 16 year old girl...RIGHT thats HILARIOUS...what a jerk
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californchick replied on August 19th, 2008
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That is a jerk wow, I know someone who is married and they were in Iraq talking to other chicks and the sad part is he is married with a newborn son talk about jerks maybe they are related lol,
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