Pregnant But Need a Bit of Help Posted: 11-23-07 18:39pm
i had my last period on the 1st of july i
was going with my fella the last time i
slept with him was on the 15 we finished
then a few days later then i went out and
met my ex i ended up goin with him on the
23rd now im pregnant im due in the 1st wk
in april im afraid if it not my boyfriends
now we r bk nd he doesnt know i mwt my ex
can some1 help me
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stacey1986
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hope this helps Posted: 02-12-08 10:40am
11th to the 19th i make thats when u would
of concieved you are most fertile 2 weeks
after your period
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Marianne0558
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Re: Pregnant But Need a Bit of Help Posted: 02-12-08 10:47am
miss world
wrote:
i had my last period on the
1st of july i was going with my fella the
last time i slept with him was on the 15
we finished then a few days later then i
went out and met my ex i ended up goin
with him on the 23rd now im pregnant im
due in the 1st wk in april im afraid if it
not my boyfriends now we r bk nd he doesnt
know i mwt my ex can some1 help
me
Well first thing is first, sweetie. Calm
down. Everything can be taken care of once
this beautiful baby is born
You need to come clean with both of the
men in question. It is the right thing to
do. You can't possibly expect either of
them to support this child without them
knowing for sure if they are its father or
not. Let them know that there is a
possibility that both of them could be the
father. The ex will probably cope with the
information better than the boyfriend
because he probably knows you had a
boyfriend when you got with him.
The boyfriend might not want anything to
do with the baby, and that is okay for
now. Don't let that get to you because you
can get him to take a paternity test when
the child is born.
Personally, I would be as grown up as
possible about the situation.
Wait until the baby is born and have both
men tested for paternity. You will know
exactly who the father is without guessing
and you will need a paternity test to get
court ordered child support. Court ordered
child support will ensure that this baby
has the things he/she needs.
Good luck hun, let me know if there is
anything I can do for you.
