Womens Conditions Forum - Weird Vagina - lump and can't find clitoris

sarahgb wrote:

I think I have REALLY bad vagina problems
Firstly, I don't think I have a clitoris. Seriously, I've felt around where it's meant to be and can't find any lump there and I know where it's meant to be, but have never managed to feel like anything orgasmy while touching and stuff. I'm a virgin so I dunno what I'd be like during real sex. It is normal to not be able to find it, or have problems with it, or really bad?

You're more likely to be able to get pleasure from masturbation to be 100% honest. Most women cannot orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone. You HAVE a clitoris I'm sure!! Look down there, don't just feel!! Right when you slide your hand down from your stomach you should feel a hard shaft; it feels kind of like your nose or ears; it's cartilage. It's skinny, not fat. This is the clitoral shaft; if you have this, you have a clitoris!!

As the other poster said, please go take a look at some vulvas online (yes, porn will work). I actually suggest http://www.sexylabia.com for its excellent images of vulvas!!

Go find a small mirror and as the other poster said, take a look at yourself. I'm sure you have a clitoris, you just didn't know you found it.

Just touching yourself in general down there isn't going to cause orgasmic feelings!! You're going to have to rub the clitoris or indirectly stimulate it. What I do is rub the clitoral shaft from side to side; this makes the hood of skin over the clitoris rub against it and give me pleasure. I have a very tiny clitoris!!

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And also, I think I have another problem 'down there'. You know up your vagina tube?

That's the actual vagina hun. Everything outside is the vuvla. The tube itself IS the vagina!!

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I have this sort of wobbly lump. And it's not smooth or anything, it's really strange feeling, like it's got sort of mini fat fat tenitcles. It's all knobbly and horrid, and I have no idea what it is. it's been there for as long as I can remember, and I'm worried, but I don't wanna go to a doctor because I'll be so embarrassed. Can someone please help me?

The inside of a vagina is NOT SMOOTH!! It's sandy and bumpy and wrinkly and folded and everything else. Your vagina sounds 100% NORMAL. It may have twists and turns; it may bend backwards. That's all normal.

Inside MY vagina, it feels like I have huge wet slimy blankets covered in worms all bunched up against each other!! Then there's one spot that's less slimy and feels like tiny wrinkles or sand. That's my g-spot (not that it does anything Rolling Eyes

). Oh, and I have this hard cartilage-like rim/shelf in it too that I think is the edge of my cervix. So see? All vaginas are weird!!

You definitely need to grab yourself a mirror! How old are you? You could possibly go in for a gynecological exam and express your worries to the doctor and I know they'd help you.