Split condom,gf not know. Posted: 12-03-07 23:52pm
dec. 2nd me and my girlfriend had sex. IT
was her first time. I wore a condom but it
broke. I ejaculated and im not sure if it
was inside of her or not. I really have no
ideal cause i like felt some sort of wet
ness on her stumic but i still think i
didnt pull out fast anough. There was lots
of blood inside and around her but i
expected that since she was a virgin. She
has no ideal the condom broke, well at
least to my knowledge. I figured if i got
her on birth control like the next day it
would stop a pregnancy. I talked to my 2
best friends about it and one of them said
that doesn't matter. He said that the pill
only prevents the sperm from reaching the
egg and that giving her birth control
wouldnt help but harm. My plan origanaly
was to ask my mom about geting birth
control tonight and get some and have my
girlfriend take it tomorrow, problem
solved. Now that i know that wont help, i
dont know what to do. One of my friends
said he would get his parents or brother
to take us to a clinic. Honistaly i dont
care if my mom knows but her mom cant
know. I dont want a baby and she doesnt
ether. Is there any pregnancy tests out
there that can tell after like 5 days? how
sould i tell her the condom broke? Is
there anything she can take that will stop
the baby from developing, like a pill? Is
there a way we can stop it easier since
its only been 2 days? If she is pregnant
and we go to the doctor how soon will the
doctor be able to tell? If abortion is the
way we have to go then when should we get
it done, like i said its been 1 day. Whats
the safest, easies and most problem free
way to get it done? I know we should get
it done befor the 2nd trimester is that
true? What method should we use? How
should i get her to take the test? What
test should i buy? I think im gonna ask my
mom about birth control tonight anyways
just in case the next time something like
this wont happen, and my mom and i will
feel more open about taking about sex.
Please help me, im really confused and i
dont know what i should do!
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-03-07 23:57pm
no for goodness sakes no test will be able
to tell until; about 3-4 weeks or
untilAFTER her missed period
he can get the plan B pill
but how does she not know the condom broke
and YOU do? did you net tell her>?!!!!
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doiwku
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Joined: 03 Dec 2007 Posts: 11
Posted: 12-04-07 00:08am
how am i supost to get the plan B pill...
im a guy and im 15. I know it broke cause
i saw it broken, she probly doesnt
know...
i pulled out and it was broken
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 12-04-07 00:10am
you didnt tell her? so she doesnt know it
broke
oh wow
im shocked
you really should have told her if you
knew. thats really screwed up
talkto your mom asap
tell her what happened and that you need
to get the plan b pill ASAP
but you should hurry because she doesnt
have much time to take it
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doiwku
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Posted: 12-04-07 00:12am
will it harm her?
shes almost 15!
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-04-07 00:16am
no it will prevent her from getting
pregnant
but i think she has to take it before 72
hours
please help her get on birth control and
stop haveing sex. you dont want kids
right?
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doiwku
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Joined: 03 Dec 2007 Posts: 11
Posted: 12-04-07 00:17am
we both want birth control! i was gonna
ask my mom about it tonight. but i think
ill ask her about plan b instead, like
right now!
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doiwku
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Joined: 03 Dec 2007 Posts: 11
Posted: 12-04-07 01:39am
great...
so i asked my mom about birth control and
she said she wouldnt help me get it
because shes not gonna put meds into my
girlfriends body and go behind her back.
I dont think i can ask her about the plan
b thing...
Im just gonna hope that shes not
pregnant.
ill probly talk to my girlfriend tomarrow
about the whole ordeal
and i guess we will just have to wait till
she has her period. or take a test...
then go from there.
I dont see how i can get my hands on the
plan b pill
id need it by tomarrow and i dont have a
prescription or a parent to get it
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Maddie34
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Posted: 12-04-07 09:40am
Do you have a planned parenthood in your
town that you could go to? They've got it
there and you don't need a prescription
for Plan B.
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 12-04-07 10:25am
How would helping your girlfriend get
birth control be going behind her back?
Your girlfriend would have to know about
that, since she'd be the one taking the
pill, right?
Planned parenthood gives out Plan B to
anyone of any age if you have one near
you. Also, if you have any friends that
are over 18, they can get it from any
pharmacy. You don't need a prescription
to get it at a pharmacy, but you do have
to be 18.
You definitely have to talk to her. To
have sex, you should trust each other
enough to be able to talk about things
like this when they happen. It is not
good to hide them.
As for your questions about pregnancy
tests, you shouldn't take one until 14
days after you had the unprotected sex if
you want an accurate result.
If you do get plan B, get it ASAP because
the longer you wait, the less effective it
is.
Good luck
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 12-09-07 15:17pm
iI cannot believe his mother did not RUSH
OUT to get Plan B. Unreal.
It is really a crime that teens cannot get
Plan B like people over 18 can. There is
no medical reason for the age limit, it is
because "people" are afraid it will make
teens "promiscuous".
Plan B is safely used in women of all ages
all over the world, and has been for
decades.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 12-09-07 15:46pm
It's too late today...
The fact that you didn't tell your
girlfriend doesn't show me a lot of
maturity... what on earth are you going to
do now!? Well actually I know what you
need to do.
You MUST tell your girlfriend the condom
broke. You should have told her the moment
you pulled out that it was broken. She's
going to be PISSED you didn't tell her
sooner because now, you've made it too
late for her to go get Plan-B. If she
becomes pregnant from this I wouldn't be
surprised if she dumps you. I personally
would. It's all your fault at this point.
Does that sound harsh? Well it is. Now,
SHE has to wait two agonizing weeks until
she can pee on a test and see for sure if
you impregnated her. Then if SHE is
pregnant, SHE will have to make the
hardest decision of her life: Keep the
baby, abort it, or give it up to adoption.
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anniek
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Posted: 12-09-07 22:22pm
I agree with girlfriend. Tell her and stop
having sex! Your only 15 you said
yourself. Yeah you want bc but guess what
bc is not 100% either so you still run a
chance. I have a son that was conceived
while being on bc, luckly I was married
and it wasn't the end of the world. You
HAVE to tell her!!
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