I have a huge problem right this very
moment! Yesterday my girlfriend hit me, i
dont mean just punch or slap but attacked
me. She held me down and kicked me hit me
scratched me. It has happend before but i
hoped it would stop, i threatend her that
i will hit her back if she doesnt stop.
So after it happend last night i couldnt
stop thinking about it after she had gone
to bed. Then i did something terrible! I
went to confront her. I asked her if she
can see the scar on my face and to
apologise, she said that she cant see it
and said "Those are just pimples" Geez i
did something bad. I Grabbed her violently
and gave her a hard shake that hurt her
alot! And said: "You never hit me again!"
She started to cry uncontrollably like i
had punched her in the face or something
although i didnt. She threw a plate at me,
a cooldrink bottle hit me with a gholfclub
and sprayed me with pepperspray. Smsed
someone that i was abuse and hitting her
and broke of our engagement, although she
asked me to sleep next to her in bed?! i
did,we sleep in the same bed every night.
We've been together for 5years are engaged
love each other to death, she was my first
and only and i was hers! we've never made
love to anyone else. We bought an
expensive home together that we will not
be able to affort if we split. This
happend yesterday what do i do? She
already said that we are over forever and
regrets that she met me. I feel like an
abuser! I feel really messed up and
confused. What do i do??
If you want to make this work then you
need to let her know that. Couples
counseling can be a very productive way to
get things back on the right foot. But
control your temper at all times, no
physical harm should come out of a loving
relationship
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whatnow?
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Dec 2007 Posts: 2
Posted: 12-05-07 03:43am
Geez this is really starting to become
weird.. last night she rolled over naked
and we made the most intense love! Felt
like we were going to burn up! I dont
understand her? After all that? After the
fights after breaking the engagement, why
is she doing this?
She still wears the diamond engagement
ring!!
Am i going crazy? I made an appointment
with a Psychologist for later today....
She of cause refuses to go! Calling me a
woman-beater!
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whitetiger22
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Dec 2007 Posts: 59
Posted: 01-21-08 18:10pm
Hey, If she refuses to go to councelling
then she is not a good person to be with.
You need to ask her if she is willing to
make this work if not then ask her what
she would want.
Hope all is well
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Raene
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2007 Posts: 37 Location: ON, Canada
Posted: 03-15-08 06:34am
Wow, be careful with this one... She's a
skilled abuser. She can go from violent
aggressor to abused victim within seconds
by the sounds of it. That signifies that
she's a good manipulator... I'm not
reflecting on her personality, she may not
even realize she does it. It's even
possible that she has split personality or
bi-polar... Or she could just be mean. :S
It's up to you to decide which it is and
if it can be figured out... Good luck.
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