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I Just Don't Know What to Do........please Help!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 12-04-07 11:19am
Hey everyone!! Ok, I have been in an
off/on relationship for 2 1/2 yrs. now.
About a month ago my bf moved to Florida,
and we decided that we would still talk,
write eachother and just see what happens.
I am 17 and he is 6 yrs. oldler then me.
We have been planning for me to move down
there with him when I graduate. Well last
night, I talked to him 1 time, and usually
we talked 3 or 4 times a night. I had
feel asleep in my living room, and my
phone was in my room on charge, so when he
called me I didn't hear my phone ring.
When I got up this morning i had seen he
called me 8 times, and left 5 voicemails.
I got ready for school, and when I go to
school, I called him before I checked my
voicemails. The first thing he said was,
"I don't even want to talk to you
anymore". Then he told me to check my
messages, so I did. Well to make a long
story short. Something happen to him last
night,, (What I don't know, cause he won't
talk to me) and he really needed to talk
to me and like I said, I was sleep. So he
said that I wasn't there for him, when he
needed me, so right off the bat, he broke
up with me.............. The bad thing
it, I was at school all day crying about
it, and I have a choral concert tonight,
that I have to perform in, but I can't
even think straight right now.
So What I need help with is, should I try
to talk to him about it, or just let him
call me when he wants, or just let him
go?????? Any advise would help. Thanks
in advance.
P.S.- sorry so long
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Rosie H
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Posted: 12-04-07 11:41am
Well I would wait to see what happens. He
had no right to just cut you off like that
and its not your fault that you were
sleeping. He cant expect you to be
waiting by the phone all the time. Maybe
try to talk to him one last time. IF he
still doesnt open up then wait for him to
call you. Either way you do not deserve
this kind of treatment
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Aunt WeeWee
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Posted: 12-04-07 14:11pm
Thanks Rosie. This whole thing has just
got me so confused. I don't understand
that he says he loves me so much, but 1
little thing like this happens and he acts
like he don't ever want to talk to me
again.
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Maddie34
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Posted: 12-04-07 14:17pm
Does he do this often? Because if this is
completely out of character for him I
would just wait until you find out what
happened to him. Obviously this isn't your
fault, but he might not be thinking
straight if something bad really did
happen.
I'm in a long distance relationship too
and although nothing has ever happened to
this extent, I can relate. Give him a
call, if he's still angry then wait awhile
longer and either try again or just wait
for him.
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Aunt WeeWee
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Posted: 12-04-07 14:25pm
Hey Maddie. No, nothing like this has
ever really happen. This is really the
first time I wasn't avaliable for him to
talk to. Through out our relationship, we
have broken up about 4 or 5 times, and
they were all on me, cause of family
problems with us being together. I have
to put up with a lot of B-S, cause he is
Cuban-American, and he is older then me.
Most of my family has a problem with it.
I really do love him, and I don't know
what I would do if he really wants our
relationship to be over. Hopefully we can
work this whole thing out. Thanks
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Maddie34
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Posted: 12-04-07 14:39pm
No problem, whether he wants to talk or
not just make sure you find out what
happened.
Let us know how everything goes and good
luck!
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Aunt WeeWee
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Posted: 12-05-07 08:51am
Hey Guys!! Well, he called me last night
and apologized for how he had acted, and i
asked him what happen. He still wouldn't
tell me. I told him I was sorry for not
being there when he needed me. I don't
know what is going to happen between us.
I still feel very confused about this
whole thing. I will keep you all up
dated. Thanks
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