hi,i have recently been seeing this girl
and she hasnt had sex yet and just
wondering what to do because my mate you
have to go steady is this true because i
of the girls i have been with have had
sex
please help i dont to hurt her
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yellowfestiva
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Posted: 12-10-07 04:37am
i am not too sure of what you are trying
to ask here but it sounds like you want to
have sex with you virgin girlfriend and
dont want to hurt her. if that is the
question your solution is simple. no
matter what you do she will have slight
pain however there are ways to make it
less painful. one thing is to take it
easy. let her get used to the size of your
penis and dont do it as hard as you can.
have sex a few times so that she can get
used to the size and so her vagina can
adjust. another thing you can try is to
use lots of forplay to make sure that she
is good and lubricated. you could also try
a personal lubricant such as idglide or ky
but make sure to use water based so that
you dont wreak the condom. and the last
thing you could do is try other things
such as your fingers first so that again
her vagina can adjust to accept something
bigger. hope this helps and i hope you can
acheive whatever youa re trying for
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Georgia59
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Posted: 12-11-07 13:10pm
That's not true- it doesn't have to hurt.
Sex should never hurt, not the first time,
not ever.
It does hurt many girls, however, because
they think it should, so they tense up, or
they are scared, so they aren't well
lubricated, or for a VERY SMALL percentage
of girls, they have an intact hymen that
will break.
If you make sure she is relaxed and
comfortable, well lubricated (it would be
nice to buy some ahead of time and use it)
and do lots of foreplay before you start.
If you do all these things, it shouldn't
hurt.
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