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Birch

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Posted: 12-11-07 22:16pm

lonestarguy wrote:


Good one, mi ami. I just watched the fourth Pirates yesterday and fell asleep. Not a real Jack Squiddly recommendation for a franchise dragged out until every cent in our pockets is gone.

Oh, well, Johnny Depp gets rich, Disney gets rich and the country's collective IQ goes down a couple of points.

Not much to do with mental health and I agree with your question about the mother's choice in all this. Did she want an abortion and just couldn't afford it? Or........? And I never pray, so I guess I'm stuck with my mental condition, which we needn't discuss here.


I really dug the bizarre scene of multiple Johnny Depps, and not just b/c I like Mr. Depp, but because I thought it was just really...well, bizarre and out of 'style' for the flick. I thought there was LSD sprinkled in my popcorn. That's kinda how I felt when I watched "The Fountain" but I digress...

Eiri wrote:
Birch wrote:
I'm sorry, I didn't get that. I read "love, attention...whack upside the head... therapy" and thought that other folks who read the forums might not really know much about mental illness (based on what I've seen in the mental health boards) and I wanted to say some stuff about it.

I didn't want to include medication and have people think I feel that medication is the answer to everything because I don't. It's a hard line to walk.


I agree, except in regards to mental illness. Unfortunately, right now the best intervention for severe mental illness is medication. Crying
or Very sad

sillyakchick wrote:
OK for the sake of the situation posted above, had the state been willing to give her an abortion she would have had one.


Ah, thanks for the clarification.
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sociable_recluse

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Posted: 12-12-07 06:20am

Eiri wrote:
Birch wrote:
What did the mother want, though? Why is that being overlooked? The scenario only reads that she could not afford abortion, not that she wanted an abortion. It's a small point, probably just a semantic one, but in my book a biggie.

I personally read between the lines that she would have gotten one if she could have afforded one.


My take on it is that if she didn't want an abortion then why was her lack of funds for one mentioned? If you don't want an abortion then you're not going to care if you can afford one or not.
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Birch

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Posted: 12-12-07 10:25am

I would never assume anything if I was working with such a client in such a situation.
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yodavater

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Posted: 12-12-07 15:29pm

Eiri wrote:

No one should have to suffer like that baby does.

Human suffering is an awful thing, isn't it?

Of course, there are a lot of babies already born into "miserable" lives, so wouldn't the compassionate thing (disregarding legality) be to kill all of them? Like the baby in the story, wouldn't that be the "compassionate" thing to do?

After all, if it is compassionate to kill someone who might live a terrible life someday in the future, surely it is even more compassionate to kill someone who is living a terrible life right now, right?
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diamond splinter

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Posted: 12-12-07 15:36pm

So do you advocate euthanasia then?
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yodavater

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Posted: 12-12-07 15:48pm

diamond splinter wrote:
So do you advocate euthanasia then?

No, not really. I think both elective abortion and involuntary euthanasia are morally wrong, I was just using that example to make a point.
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diamond splinter

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Posted: 12-12-07 15:49pm

what about voluntary euthanasia what are your veiws on that?
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yodavater

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Posted: 12-12-07 16:22pm

diamond splinter wrote:
what about voluntary euthanasia what are your veiws on that?

Well, as an agnostic I have no objections to someone ending their own life to put an end to extreme pain and suffering, when there is no reasonable hope of any other relief. But I really don't like the idea of someone else "pulling the plug".
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diamond splinter

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Posted: 12-12-07 16:26pm

then you are in fact anti abortion not pro life the premature taking of life is wrongand not very pro life all life is sacred not just the unborn
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Posted: 12-12-07 23:42pm

yodavater wrote:
Eiri wrote:

No one should have to suffer like that baby does.

Human suffering is an awful thing, isn't it?

Of course, there are a lot of babies already born into "miserable" lives, so wouldn't the compassionate thing (disregarding legality) be to kill all of them? Like the baby in the story, wouldn't that be the "compassionate" thing to do?

After all, if it is compassionate to kill someone who might live a terrible life someday in the future, surely it is even more compassionate to kill someone who is living a terrible life right now, right?


I'd prefer it happen with abortion actually, I do not approve normally of killing born people.

Can you guess what I'd rather see above even that? I'd love to have seen that woman having access to free birth control, thus preventing the pregnancy, the abortion she wanted but couldn't afford, and the suffering of the child once it is born.

But you'd just rather make abortion illegal. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure, but the cure is so much more dramatic!!! Baby slaughter!!
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yodavater

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Posted: 12-13-07 16:20pm

diamond splinter wrote:
then you are in fact anti abortion not pro life the premature taking of life is wrongand not very pro life all life is sacred not just the unborn

Well vespa711, as you call yourself on PLA, you can take your made up definition of prolife and file it in the round file.

Here's what the term means, for all the literate posters here:

pro-life adjective against open access to abortion: in favor of bringing the human fetus to full term, especially by campaigning against open access to abortion and against experimentation on embryos http://encarta.m sn.com/encnet/features/dictionary/Dictiona ryResults.aspx?refid=1861736610

pro-life adjective
opposed to the belief that a pregnant woman should have the freedom to choose an abortion if she does not want to have a baby
http://dictionary.cambridge.org/define. asp?key=63328&dict=CALD

pro-life —adj.
opposed to legalized abortion; right-to-life http://www.infople ase.com/dictionary/pro-life

pro-life –adjective opposed to legalized abortion; right-to-life. http: //dictionary.reference.com/search?q=pro-li fe&r=66

pro-life adjective supporting the belief that it is immoral for a pregnant woman to have the freedom to choose to have an abortion (= an operation to end a pregnancy) if she does not want to have a baby http://dictionary.cambridge.org/defi ne.asp?key=prolife*1+0&dict=A
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yodavater

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Posted: 12-13-07 16:25pm

Eiri wrote:

I'd prefer it happen with abortion actually, I do not approve normally of killing born people.

"It"? What is "it"? You mean killing humans? You dodged the question, you know..... if abortion is "compassionate" because the baby "might" live a miserable life, why isn't it more compassionate to kill those kids who ARE living a miserable life right now?

Eiri wrote:

An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure, but the cure is so much more dramatic!!! Baby slaughter!!

What? You want to blame me for the slaughter of unborn babies? That's kind of like blaming Carry Nation for the curse of alcohol.
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Posted: 12-14-07 01:16am

I WOULD PREFER THE LIKKLE ITTY BITTY somewhat developed innocent tiny "baby" to be torn to shreds by a suction abortion betwen the weeks of 6-12 weeks (when 90% of all abortions take place) before the wittle bitty "baby" can feel pain, INSTEAD OF A BORN CHILD being killed. I think most sane people would prefer that.
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Posted: 12-14-07 01:19am

And yes, I AM blaming you for the deaths of the unborn. You should spend your time and money promoting free birth control AND proper birth control education.

Instead of trying and often failing to save people from fatal car crashes, why not just invent the seatbelt? It decreased auto accidents incredibly.

Instead of crying because your child has brain damage, why not stop drinking alcohol during pregnancy?

Instead of scraping your child's skull off the pavement, why not make them wear a helmet when they go biking?

Prevention. Do it.
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diamond splinter

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Posted: 12-14-07 07:16am

yodavater wrote:
diamond splinter wrote:
then you are in fact anti abortion not pro life the premature taking of life is wrongand not very pro life all life is sacred not just the unborn

Well vespa711, as you call yourself on PLA, you can take your made up definition of prolife and file it in the round file.

Here's what the term means, for all the literate posters here:

pro-life adjective against open access to abortion: in favor of bringing the human fetus to full term, especially by campaigning against open access to abortion and against experimentation on embryos http://encarta.m sn.com/encnet/features/dictionary/Dictiona ryResults.aspx?refid=1861736610

pro-life adjective
opposed to the belief that a pregnant woman should have the freedom to choose an abortion if she does not want to have a baby
http://dictionary.cambridge.org/define. asp?key=63328&dict=CALD

pro-life —adj.
opposed to legalized abortion; right-to-life http://www.infople ase.com/dictionary/pro-life

pro-life –adjective opposed to legalized abortion; right-to-life. http: //dictionary.reference.com/search?q=pro-li fe&r=66

pro-life adjective supporting the belief that it is immoral for a pregnant woman to have the freedom to choose to have an abortion (= an operation to end a pregnancy) if she does not want to have a baby http://dictionary.cambridge.org/defi ne.asp?key=prolife*1+0&dict=A



Once a fool always a fool it is not my definition of pro life it is the meaning and the actions behind pro life not the meaning behind anti abortion terrorists that go around blowing up abortion clinics under the guise of pro life people like you make me sick you say you are pro life because the dictionary states pro life oppose abortion yet you won't take your head out of the sand long enough to find out the real meaning of what the stance you attempt to take actualy entails.

what user name i use on other forums is irrelivant here although i make no secret of the fact i have diffrent names for different boards my method of posting doesn't alter there are reasons that regular users will understand why i change username on different board(pcforme ring any bells mods?)

Just for you pro choicers heres a laugh this fool actually classes me as a pro abort now isn't that just the funniest yet scariest thing you have heard on here rofl?
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Posted: 12-14-07 08:34am

I have to agree you being classed as "pro abortion' is simply ridiculous Diamond. We've banged horns to many times over your 'pro abortion' stance.. lol..I now wonder though.. if you are pro-aboriton what does that make me??

Yoda..since you cannot be civil here anymore then you can on PLA I am reporting every post that refers to pro-choice as pro-abortion..
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Birch

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Posted: 12-14-07 11:33am

Jincks013 wrote:
I have to agree you being classed as "pro abortion' is simply ridiculous Diamond. We've banged horns to many times over your 'pro abortion' stance.. lol..I now wonder though.. if you are pro-aboriton what does that make me??



A rabid baby killer.

Wink

Jincks013 wrote:


Yoda..since you cannot be civil here anymore then you can on PLA I am reporting every post that refers to pro-choice as pro-abortion..


For me, it's the blatant dishonesty versus civility. Yodavater could attach labels to me all day, but when it comes down to it, if he's dishonest his words hold no salt regardless of what he was claiming.
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n2r7moopad

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Posted: 12-14-07 11:41am

this baby deserves to live just like anyother person. It's not perfect so what no body is! It will have to go through some struggles which is part of LIFE. There are people who do adopt children with special needs. As mentioned in the OP this child may have mental problems exc. this child may also NOT have mental problems. One can not abort on the fact that "maybe" something will be wrong with it. And ya know so what there are thousands of kids with ADD or mental retardation but does that make it ok to end their lifes?
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yodavater

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Posted: 12-14-07 12:42pm

Eiri wrote:
I WOULD PREFER THE LIKKLE ITTY BITTY somewhat developed innocent tiny "baby" to be torn to shreds by a suction abortion betwen the weeks of 6-12 weeks (when 90% of all abortions take place) before the wittle bitty "baby" can feel pain, INSTEAD OF A BORN CHILD being killed. I think most sane people would prefer that.

No doubt you would, but you still dodged my point.

Since no one can reliably predict the future of an unborn child, isn't it "more compassionate" to kill a born child that is ALREADY living a "miserable life"?
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yodavater

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Posted: 12-14-07 12:47pm

Eiri wrote:
And yes, I AM blaming you for the deaths of the unborn. You should spend your time and money promoting free birth control AND proper birth control education..

Lots of people have an opinion about "how I should spend my time and money", but fortunately none of them have any authority.

I follow my conscience, and I hope others will do the same.

“Morality cannot be legislated, but behavior can be regulated. Judicial decrees may not change the heart, but they can restrain the heartless”.
-Dr. Martin Luther King
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