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speedy80a

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Sex With the Same Sex
Posted: 12-08-07 00:18am

most guys i ask say its ok for two girls to have sex together, if they do it just because it feels good. and most say they like to watch it. if this is ok for girls is it ok for guys too , if they do it just cause it feels good and (NO other reason) NO attraction involved. My mom says sex is just sex if there is no attaction, and its ok.
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Posted: 12-08-07 01:40am

so is sex between two people of the same sex ok if they're attracted to each other?
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greenboy

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Posted: 12-12-07 18:39pm

I think you are wasting your time. the same with the same. But is your time, you may use it the way you wanted but dont think is trouble free tho...
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Posted: 12-13-07 01:20am

Finding out what makes you feel good is not a waste of time.
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JacobRyan

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Posted: 12-13-07 01:59am

Same sex anything is ok. Try to have some understanding of how someone of the same sex feels when they are attracted to another member of the same sex. They feel, well, probably the exact same way you do when you are attracted to a woman. All humans are kind of the same, just with different wiring. As marvel said, it is a matter of finding what makes you feel good. Same sex, with or without attraction, is OK, even if it isn't ok for you.

Don't listen to greenboy in this instance because that would be a waste of your time.
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Posted: 12-13-07 02:14am

"all humans are kind of the same, just with different wiring"

I kind'o like that!!
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speedy80a

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Posted: 12-14-07 13:30pm

so you guys say its ok ? It dont make me gay or anything ?
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Posted: 12-14-07 14:46pm

The only person who can determine whether or not you're gay is you.

If you don't think you're gay... you're not. Easy as that.

Besides, as someone who likes pleasure, why bother categorizing yourself?
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speedy80a

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Posted: 12-15-07 11:04am

It seems as if, you give advise we can get from our parents. if you havent walked in someone elses shoes, i think you should keep your advice to yourself. dont knock it if you havent tried it .
of course im just using my freedom of speech when i say that. So talk all you want I dont think anyone wants to listen.
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speedy80a

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Posted: 12-15-07 11:17am

oh yeah !! and that was from reading the post that you give to other people not just me . your just a stereotype of old times and have a closed mind to everything but your own opion. wake up !!! put youself in other people place. try to feel what they feel.
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Posted: 12-16-07 01:20am

two thumbs up, speedy!
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Posted: 12-31-07 23:16pm

i have put the vagina on the pedestal and i like it.
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Posted: 01-06-08 18:48pm

People are people....gay, straight, bisexual...it is the same all over the world and in all primates and all kinds of other animals there are varied forms of sexuality. That is a good think. From Kinsey 1 to Kinsey 6. There is nothing wrong with being true to who you are and any real man who is comfortable with his sexuality wont care what the other guys are doing.
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Posted: 01-23-08 19:45pm

i think it is okay becaus it is the same but their gay
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sdrre

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Posted: 01-24-08 05:28am

I don't think it's ok
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johng1970

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Re: Sex With the Same Sex
Posted: 02-11-08 19:40pm

speedy80a wrote:
most guys i ask say its ok for two girls to have sex together, if they do it just because it feels good. and most say they like to watch it. if this is ok for girls is it ok for guys too , if they do it just cause it feels good and (NO other reason) NO attraction involved. My mom says sex is just sex if there is no attaction, and its ok.


What's with the Girl Questions in the Mens Forums?
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marvel

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Posted: 02-14-08 19:13pm

Huh? Define a "girl question".


He was pointing out the taboo associated with male homosexuals as opposed to female homosexuals (pertaining specifically to sex).
If two women have sex together just because it feels good, why can't men do the same (without having to deal with the taboo associated with it)?
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johng1970

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Posted: 02-14-08 19:50pm

O.k. Mis-understood the original post, though on those lines, is there really any "Taboo" any more? As a matter of fact, I think if you get really honest, you'll find more guys are having sex with guys than women having sex with women. Likewise, truthfully, more men are in a serious relationship with another men, while most women who proclaim to be "Bi Sexual" claim to be so only because they think it "Turns their boyfriends on", which is just putting up a front, and its never right to pretend to be someone you aren't.
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Posted: 02-14-08 20:01pm

Queen Victoria did not believe that lesbianism existed and that, I believe, is why there is no taboo about it. It has never been considered a crime in most countries. Male homosexuality on the other hand was only decriminalised in recent years and I note that in some countries it is still a crime.
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Posted: 02-14-08 20:20pm

A lot of things in other countries are a crime...hell, women cant show there faces or legs or arms in Iran and Iraq, etc...I think johny1970 makes a very good point. I think lesbian sex is considered OK because a lot of guys think its hot and women can do each other and still be considered straight...thats kind of hypocritical if you ask me. Also, if a guy is comfortable with himself he isn't going to care if 2 guys are in love and having sex or whatever...real men don't give a s*it and aren't threatened by it.
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