It sounds like you and your fiancee need a break from each other or have a long chat to work things out quickly. Although it's normal to feel low and depressed about yourself because of the constant pressure he is putting on you, you should know and emphasize the fact to yourself (and him) that it is not your fault. Not at all. Don't think for one minute that it is your fault that you cannot meet his demands, so don't feel bad about yourself.

If there is nothing that can be done about the situation, perhaps there is another place that you could stay, perhaps a visit to your mother's or a sister's where you could be helped a little more than not, and can be relieve of your duties so that you can recover, and until the sickness subsides. The stress that your fiancee is causing you is not healthy emotionally or physically, and could be making your symptoms worse.

He needs to realize that it is his baby too, and part of what partners do is support each other. The baby is his responsibility just as much as it is yours. He doesn't just get off scott free.......what you have to deal with is nothing in comparison to coming home to a little bit of laundry on the floor and a few dirty dishes. You have to deal with looking at the dirty dishes and laundry just as much as he does.

He should be supportive and help you out because part of the baby-making process also belongs to him. And it doesn't end here either. Does he think that once the baby is born, things are going to be better? A child brings so much more to the table...sleepless nights, toys strewn on the floor, much more laundry... If he can't handle it now, how is he going to be mature enough to be a good an supportive father and partner when the time comes?

I understand that he is a hard working person and needs that space of comfort that is what he calls home. Just think of it as yourself as the person who is working all day, and never gets out to go to a place of comfort, and on top of it, there is someone who blames you for not keeping up when you are really doing the best you can.

honey i know were you are coming from but mine is not my feauncee being that way its my mother in law.. she is constatly repremanding me for not cleaning the house the way she wants it cleaned but you know what i am here in her house rasing 5 kids that are not mine i am 7 months pregnant and i am doing the best i can.. i cant sit on the hard wood floor every freaking night and bleach the da mn floor like she does or like she wants it done i cant clean a 5 bed room house with 2 baths a living room kitchen and dinning room in 4 hours hell i am not super woman... but yeah honey i know how you feel..

I just wanted to thank you for you're support and just say we're doing a lot better. I had one of my best friends, Alison, come over and she cleaned up my kitchen and did my laundry! She's an angel! My friend Emma, took me grocery shopping and helped me out too.

Jerry's a lot less stressed now that Christmas is over and is coming to terms with his new responsibilities and I love him more then ever! : )

aweeee! that stinks, hopefully things will cool off a bit. Hopefully soon your morning sickness will ease up and you can do more. All you can do is your best, and your fiance' will just have to deal with it. Is there someone that can come over and help you out a bit or something?