Joined: 13 Jan 2004 Posts: 1436 Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
About Bellaxofemmina...u Read This Too!! Posted: 04-16-04 11:40am
Ok everyone.. Im sorry, I am angry right
now and I know ive always been one to say
not to post to a particular person but
this is too ridiculous. I just spoke to
her online.. She says now if shes preg
she's decided to get an abortion.....
Shes been posting this whole time and as
uve prolly picked up, its not like she
wasnt trying or trying to prevent the
pregnancy. Shes been tellin me for
months she wanted to be pregnant and was
having unprotected sex, 'forgetting' and
sometimes stopping her birth control pills
etc etc.. Shes 14.. Well now shes
'decided' that it would be best to abort
the baby if she is preg?!?! She is
saying its her right to her body etc etc..
Well I just think that is ridiculous!
She was trying, and when she wasnt trying,
she wasnt trying to prevent it..She is
also saying adoption isnt good cuz they
end up in foster homes (another not trrue
thing) . . U can pick ur own family
now and adopt it straight out to them, and
theres not a shortage of familys
what-so-ever. . . I knew she was
pathetic right from the start, and a liar,
when she told me she felt the babyy moving
already etc etc at like a week pregnnat,
and I tried to give her the benefit of the
doubt. .But now after all this she says
she deicided on abortion if shes preg cuz
her and her boyfriend are not ready????
I mean, maybe under some circumstances
abortion should be acceptable but not this
one when she admitted she wanted to get
preg etc....Shes clearly not ready to be
a good mom anyhow but god. .Theres so
many people that are! Sorry had to vent,
it just angers me off so much cuz ive been
talking to her about this for months
straight and shes been havin unprotected
sex throughout the whole time, and
skipping and stopping pills. And even tho
its only a small chance shes preg.. If
she is I feel terrible for the baby.
Bella x0 femmina (10:24:55 pm): I just
dont think having the baby would be right
at all anymore bc my boyfriend would be
kicked out of his house, and he wuldnt be
able to go to college bc his parents
wouldnt pay for it.. And we'd wind up
how his parents were when they had him
young
skeaxryi629 (10:27:51 pm): so if ur preg
now u would get an abortion?
Bella x0 femmina (10:27:58 pm): yeah
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Scarf
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Feb 2004 Posts: 1062 Location: Ontario, Canada
Posted: 04-16-04 11:45am
Meh..I doubt shes pregnant..Nothing is
consistent with what she posts. But wtv,
the thought of getting an abortion when
she clearly did nothing to prevent it is
disgusting. No one should get an abortion
under these circumstances.. its not
right. Bella, if you are pregnant..Its
your fault..Deal with it. There is
nothing wrong with adoption! There are so
many good families out there that cannot
have kids. Grrr..And if you're not
pregnant, stop with these stupid posts.
Meh..Wtv..
Shannon xoxox
Thus the reason teen mothers get bad names
and reps.....Insted of focusing on good
teen mothers, they see these "children"
who are acting like this freak.....She
needs to go play barbies and watch dora
the explorer.
Sick freaks like this....Oooo that makes
me angry! I don't have time for
this.....Ya see why I don't reply to many
of her posts......
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KariM18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2004 Posts: 1436 Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
Posted: 04-16-04 11:51am
Yea I know. . I knew she was like this
tho anyhow so I guess I shouldnt be
shocked.. But im just hopin the test
stays neg.. I think it will . .But god
if it didnt that would be awful. But
yes, that is what gives teen moms a good
rep. But truly she shouldnt be included
even in these statistics, just a messed up
attention seeking young girl..
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gypy04
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Mar 2004 Posts: 398 Location: florida
Posted: 04-16-04 12:22pm
Abortion is not a form of birth control...
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lee25
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Dec 2003 Posts: 1018 Location: new york
Posted: 04-16-04 13:10pm
I thought her post were kind of strange.
I think she wants one and wants us to
convince her to keep. She sounds like
she needs {wants} attention. If you read
this don't do anything stupid, like get
pregnant on purpose just to prove us
wrong.
Brenda
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little_woman
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2004 Posts: 765
Posted: 04-16-04 16:18pm
I hope on everythng holy she is a bored
kid playing around, how dumb can somene
get? Shes (supposedly) 14 and trying to
get pregnant? Doesnt she know that once
she is she cannot change her mind? Gah!!!
Stupid people! Wasnt she the one who
bragged that her b.F was going to get her
a promise ring? I'm adopted damnit and
even though I went through 1 foster home
when I was a few months old I have been
with the greatest family for 21 years now.
This girl needs to get her math equations
straight and learn how to count her pills
meg
sorry i'm in a health forum.Y mood and
feel like clothes lining all stupid
selfish people right now
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bellax0femmina
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Apr 2004 Posts: 823 Location: New Jersey
Posted: 04-16-04 19:51pm
I have been saying for the longest time
now that I have never tried to get
pregnant, I dont know why kari cant seem
to get past that! I would deff. Want to
keep the baby if I were pregnant, I am
probobly the most pro life person there
is. But I was never thinking about my
boyfriend! He would be kicked out, and
not able to go to college, what life would
that give him! Even if I were pregnant
and decided to carry the baby and then
give it up for adoption they would kick
him out of the hose.
<3
gaby
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KariM18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2004 Posts: 1436 Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
Posted: 04-16-04 20:06pm
No no dont even try it, uve told me
different times u wanted to be preg.
And even when u had a neg test u ssaid u
werent happy.. . And regardless, u
werent trying to prevent it and everyone
knows that. And if u were one of 'the
most pro-life' people their were then u
wouldnt have wrote in the other post about
roe vs. Wade etc and u said 'we'
decided, including you. . So why
dont u stop trying to blame other people
when its your decisision too? I believe
ur old enough to make a choice r u not?
O wow ur boyfriend would get kicked out of
the house, not good, but worth a childs
life who was created by you being
negligent? And u say he wouldnt be able
to go to college? Bullsh*t.. Wether
someone gets kicked out or not (which, if
hes not even 17 which hes not, he most
likely cant, its just something parents
threaten) but either way, dont try to pull
that, if someone wants to go to college
they will find a way wether their kicked
out or not!! Poor people have gone to
college too.. Eh whatever u try to make
excuses for urself but im sure everyone
can tell.
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bellax0femmina
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Apr 2004 Posts: 823 Location: New Jersey
Posted: 04-16-04 20:10pm
How is it worth a childs life??? We would
wind up living in a caca house with no
money to buy the things we need, and this
child would appreciate that?? Jason says
that he wishes he were aborted because he
messed up his parents life and now they
are divorced. I know it is my choice
too, so why are you jumping down my throat
for making it?!
I know ive said I wanted a baby but I have
never purposly tried to get pregnant. I
have missed pills, yes, but then I would
tell my boyfriend and we wouldnt have sex,
except for last week.. That was the only
time, bc I didnt know!
I'm sorry you all hate me but I really
dont know what to say anymore.
<3
gaby
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KariM18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2004 Posts: 1436 Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
Posted: 04-16-04 20:13pm
Cuz u lie ridiculously.. U said u
wanted to get preg. .And u were
havin unprotected sex on several occasions
and u even told me but u lie on here..
Thats not trying? Either way,
I wasnt tryin to convince u to keep it, I
dont think u would be a good mom, but
theres adoption like one of the girls
said, she was adopted! But ur
tryin to make it seem like u'd be way
worse off then u are. Ur 14, u
cant get kicked out either and u know u
wouldnt. But I wouldnt want u to
keep it anyhow. Ur just so
immature, and 14, u made a wrong choice,
and if a baby is involved, he/she will
suffer, not u. Im done talking
about, just feel strongly about it in
situations like this. Especially
when u keep tryin to lie and make excuses
to sound better for it~
once again u lie in ur next post.. U
told me u wanted to be preg several times.
But everyone knows u werent tryin to
prevent it. And open adoption hapens
thousands of times in yr. .If I went
right now to 'pick a family' I would have
huge books to go through! But theres
no pt in tryin to lie and defend urself
anyhow anymore.. I dont think ur
provin anything. Also, u'd 'miss ur
baby'? . . Wouldnt u miss it if
he/she were dead because you aborted it?
*contradicting* and another lame excuse.
O well I doubt ur preg anyhow but its just
the point. Ok . .Now I think im done..
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bellax0femmina
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Apr 2004 Posts: 823 Location: New Jersey
Posted: 04-16-04 20:20pm
I'm very happy that it worked out with her
adoption, but I just dont like it. The
kid could wind up in foster homes, and i'd
just miss my baby! I know I know, open
adoption.. But 3 times or somthing a year
is really not enough. Yes, i've had sex
without condoms before(5 times at the
most), but last week was the only tme i've
had real unprotected sex. I dont know
where youre coming up with this stuff, I
dont, didnt, and never will want to become
pregnant at this age!
<3
gaby
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
Posted: 04-16-04 22:16pm
My aunt did an open adoption and its not
just 3 times a year, the child is now 13
and she visits her real mom whenever she
wants (even tho shes made it clear shes
very happy in my aunts family) but with
adoptions nowadays, there are so mnay
differeent ways. My friend also had a
baby at 14 and her mom takes care of it
but the baby still knows my friend is her
mom and they visit it often, thats a type
of adoption too. There are many types.
And I can tell u now from experience...
If u were to have an abortion, u
will(caps) have to live with it the rest
of ur life and trust me, not a day goes by
when u dont think about it. It will scar
you. I had mine for certain reasons but
still to this day, it bothers me to know
what I have done. And u will never ever
be able to take it back. Even if u happen
to get preggy again afterwards u'll always
wonder about that child and its not worth
the pain and depression u have to go thru
for months after it. It's been 3 years
and it still hurts to think about it. I
know many other girls who've had abortions
and every single one regrets it. I know u
would. So plz, if u are trying to get
preggy (even tho u shouldnt cuz ur only
14) never even consider abortion and
research more into the topic of teen
pregnancy, cuz there is a lot more to
learn about teen pregnancy and parenting
then any other type of education out
there.
Shauna
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 04-16-04 22:18pm
Bella or whatever the hell your name is-if
you dont want a baby then stop shagging-if
you cant deal with the consequences then
dont do the deed.
There's nothing more patethic then silly
little girls who think theyre pregnant all
the time-if you're going to have sex then
sort out your birth control because its
not something you should mess around with.
And dont even give me that caca about
you're the most pro-life person you
know-whatever. Who says theyre pro life
& then says they want an abortion.I
say im pro-life because I would 100% never
have an abortion even if it'd save my life
but thats my opinion.I dont care what you
think just dont go round saying you're
pro-life when you're blatantly not.
Omg this is so pathetic!!!
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lilmama2b_oct04
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Mar 2004 Posts: 1970 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 04-16-04 23:09pm
Gaby, I really suggest you get on the shot
if you cant remember to take your
birthcontrol pills... Use condoms when
you have sex! Im sorry but this is kinda
pathetic, yea I know I shouldnt be
preachin cuz I am a pregnant teen, but im
in a totaly different situation than you,
I live with my boyfriend, not with
mommy(sorry to all the other girls that
still live at home with your parents, im
not dissin on you, just this girl cuz this
is just pathetic). My boyfriend has a job
to support me and my unborn baby. I have
a very supportive family, that will help
me if im in need.
But still, your 14 years old, and you
think your pregnant every month... I
think that if I had pregnancy scares every
month then I would get myself on some more
reliable birthcontrol, and start using
condoms all the time! Im sorry girl, but
your stories just dont match up. You dont
mind killin a baby, but you wouldnt give
it up for adoption to a nice loving family
that cant have kids of their own... With
open adoption your kid aint gonna be going
from foster home to foster home, it will
have a family... A normal one, just like
everybody elses. You werent tryin to
prevent it too hard if youve had pregnancy
scares before. If you cant handle the
fact of sex leads to pregnancy, then dont
have sex no more...
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PregnaJordan
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2003 Posts: 2908
Posted: 04-16-04 23:40pm
If ur boyfriend wishes he was aborted then
you must not mean that much to
him....Think about it....If he wasnt
here..Yall wouldnt' be together...Im doing
my Dr. Phil caca but oh well...I hope ur
not preg.
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 04-17-04 00:13am
Pro life. If you were really prolife than
no matter what you would no give up that
baby. You were trying to get pregnant.
You were not on birth control you were not
using condoms, you were having sex. I
smell something fishy here. I think that
ou need to get a serious reality check.
You and your boyfriend should have thought
about everything before hand. I dont
think that you are going to learn from
this though, I dont think that when people
have abortions do learn. I think that
they just go and have another. You are a
health forum and I think that you are a
pathetic person. I dont care if I lived
in a crappy house, on the other side of
the tracks. I would keep my baby. I dont
care if I knew that my baby would have a
mental disability, I would get that baby
help and keep my baby. You layed down and
had sex, and if you are pregnant I think
that you should have to deal with what
comes out of it, if not more. I think
that you should have to tell your mother
that you are going to get an abortion, and
tell her what you did. I think that you
are more anti life than anything. Pplease
dont begin to attack the rest of the girls
that are on this site becaues they are
either taking care of there children,
learning, or are pregnant. You on the
other hand should join an abortion site
because that is what ou are thinking about
doing. I am beyond pissed right now..
medical question y o u , y o u health
forum !!
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 04-17-04 00:19am
You girl go! You are so so right
stacie.You were young when you got
pregnant but you never gave up & look
at the joy sean gives you.
If im being truthful I think this girls a
bigger fake then melissa! I mean she
thinks shes pregnant ever day & does
tests & forgets her contraception and
blah blah blah its nonsense
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HomecomingQueen2003
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Dec 2003 Posts: 936 Location: Phoenix, AZ
Posted: 04-17-04 00:20am
I am grately restraining myself right now,
but I just wanted to post and tell you
what a selfish person you are! Chrissy
just turned 15 and is now the mother of a
3 week old baby boy and she loves her son,
has a job and will be returning to school.
You have noooo credible excuse! Girls
like you, who plan babies then abort them
shouldn't be aloud to have children,
.E.V.E.R.!!!!!!
Megan
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 04-17-04 00:39am
Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-19-04 08:56am; edited 1 time in total
its not
right. Bella, if you are pregnant..Its
your fault..Deal with it. There is
nothing wrong with adoption! There are so
many good families out there that cannot
have kids. Grrr..And if you're not
pregnant, stop with these stupid posts.
Meh..Wtv..
