Feels Like Friction Burn after sex, tried lubrication...advice? Posted: 12-10-07 19:19pm
Hi ya, i'm pretty new to this so go easy
on me lol.
I've recently noticed that after my blokes
been fingering me or after sex i've been
feelin pretty sore dwn there, inside kinda
along the path of where his man bit's
been.....kinda like friction burn but not
as intense but its making me feel para
about lettin him in there. To start with
we thought it cud be his nails or
something but we've ruled that out now
he's practically chewed them off lol.(poor
thing)
A friend suggested maybe it actually was
friction and suggested i try lube but i
reallt feel quite embarressed about using
this. I've never had any probs producing
my own lube and dnt think i do now and nor
does he but something's got to be
wrong....pls help this is really stressing
me out.
oh also, he thinks it could be to do with
stress - ive been really deppressed for a
long while now, i know it can affect your
abillity to orgasm and has given me mild
acne on my face but cud it really be
causing this too?
oh and
breath.....soz bout the essay xxx
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Georgia59
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Posted: 12-10-07 22:57pm
Why are you embarrassed to use lube?
I have to use it all the time. My natural
lube just isn't enough, and if I don't use
store-bought lube, I get the same burning
feeling you described.
Depression could cause lack of sex drive
and lubrication, stress could as well.
Medication for depression could too, and
birth control.
If you're embarrassed buying it you can
find it online and they'll ship it very
privately.
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half-pickled-turnip
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Joined: 06 Dec 2007 Posts: 15
Cheers Mate! Posted: 12-11-07 19:12pm
Wow so its quite common for people to use
lube, I guess its because i've never had
to think about it before and jus felt
kinda like something's wrong with me all
of a sudden. I'll be ok buying it now I
know i'm not alone lol.
I did think maybe the pill could be
causing it, i've had a few funny symptoms
since ive been on it, tender breasts like
two weeks after by period, tonns of
spots/mild acne which are now scaring,
headaches, my hair's gone really dry n
limp...ummmm the list could go on! lol!
thanks for your reply hun x
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Georgia59
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Posted: 12-13-07 15:55pm
If it wasn't so common, why would they
sell it in grocery stores?
If you've been on the pill for more than 3
months, you might want to think about
talking to your doctor about switching to
something that might have less side
effects. If you have been on it for only a
short time, you might want to wait a while
and see if it clears up. That doesn't
sound fun.
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Georgia59
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Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 5321 Location: Along the Mississippi, USA
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Posted: 12-13-07 15:55pm
If it wasn't so common, why would they
sell it in grocery stores?
If you've been on the pill for more than 3
months, you might want to think about
talking to your doctor about switching to
something that might have less side
effects. If you have been on it for only a
short time, you might want to wait a while
and see if it clears up. That doesn't
sound fun.
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half-pickled-turnip
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Dec 2007 Posts: 15
Posted: 12-18-07 18:24pm
LOL now that's very true!
Cheers for your advice, i think i'll stick
it out for a couple more months and see if
things change, like u say.
My skin is starting to clear up a bit =0)
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oh and
breath.....soz bout the essay xxx
