boyfriend couldn't get orgasm....why? Posted: 12-12-07 00:40am
i was just reading the previous posts and
it sounds almost to what is going on with
me and my bf.me and bf have not been
together for a long time at all..about 3
and a half weeks to be exact but we felt
we were ready to have sex.but when we had
sex he could get an orgasm which
frustrates me incuding him...i have tried
oral and everything buy nothing i dont
know what to do for him i do know he slept
with only one other so what do you think
please help
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marvel
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Posted: 12-12-07 01:13am
He's nervous. A lot of guys have
performance anxiety... especially when
they're not that experienced. give him
time to be comfortable with you, and he'll
be fine in no time! Just don't make him
feel bad that he can't perform right now.
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Tango27
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Joined: 11 Dec 2007 Posts: 13
Posted: 12-13-07 04:25am
It is tricky as its a case of relaxing and
performing, almost a contradiction!
It takes time and trust. Build up that
trust and maybe save full sex for a few
months. Have fun doing other things,
enjoy foreplay but hold back from full-on
sex. Make this clear before you start and
that will take the pressure off him a
little and hopefully you can both relax,
trust and enjoy each other.
