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Mikolas

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Posted: 02-17-08 03:48am

the_girlfriend wrote:
lol thats ok i suck compared to travis

i think the most ppl i killed in a match was like 6 LOL

when someone starts shooting at me from behind i freeze up and just start jumping Laughing


Loserrrrrrrrrrrrssssssssssssssssssssssssss ssssssssssss

Halo party at my house, you two ladies wanna come =P

What a dirty boy, that Mikolas.

Anyway, I don't understand dudes sometimes. If they have a low sex drive ok, but I think if I had a girlfriend, I don't think I would have time to even consider "Halo 3 with my gf... or sex wtih my gf... hmm....". So it seems you are going to break up with him, but did you try talking to him yet, I want to know what is his freakin reason, what a waste of a male! Good luck!

I never liked Halo much, then again, my gaming days are mostly over. Ugh, my roommates and friends have halo nights at my place sometimes, I just end up cooking for them and talking crap about how bad they are.

If anything, slip a viagra pill in his drink =P
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PixieKat

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Posted: 02-18-08 14:22pm

LOL a viagra pill Razz

Well I talked to him about everything, said i was unhappy in the relationship, i think he thought i was breaking up with him because he got really upset and left.
So yesterday he wrote me, and i explaned everything to him, that i didnt want to break up with him, i was just very unhappy and wanted to talk about everything.

Turns out him not letting me touch/flirt with him, was his way of playing hard to get and flirting.. so i explaned to him that i took that as a dont touch me.. or go away type thing

So we talked about everything, and were gunna try it again.. so as long as he wants to work on the relationship theres still hope.
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Little Miss Oops

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Posted: 02-18-08 14:23pm

CONGRADULATIONS!!!!!! i'm glad you got it figured out!!!!
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PixieKat

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Posted: 02-18-08 14:25pm

Thanks Very
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Pocahontas101

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Posted: 03-12-08 10:59am

Im going to keep it short & simple, and please don't take this the wrong way what so ever. Sweetie he's cheatin on you. He got in your panties got the cookie and doesn't want it any more. So he's probable doing the same to some other chick out there and is sayin he has a sleepin disorder which is bullsh**t. That is the oldest trick in the book. Leave him the hell alone. Go find a MAN, only a really man will treat you with respect and give you what you want, and if he can't he would tell you and keep it movein. One more thing every man is always in the mood for sex, no matter what. Well good luck. XOXO
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Maddie34

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Posted: 03-12-08 14:12pm

Why is it that when a guy doesn't want to constantly have sex it translates to cheating? Sometimes men aren't in the mood just as sometimes women aren't in the mood. It doesn't always point straight to cheating.
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PixieKat

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Posted: 03-12-08 14:19pm

I agree i really dont think he's cheating on me, i just think he doesnt have the earge for sex as much as most guys do. Im sure he will find a girl that is okay with that.

Just an update, Im moving to St George next month, I was talking to him about it and he was saying how sad its going to be when i move and we break up... I couldnt talk him into moving with me, so our relationship is almost over. Everything happens for a reasion so ill just keep hope that i will eventualy meet the guy for me. And who knows, maybe after im gone Aj wil see how much he misses me and will be willing to move in with me so we can try it again. if not ill just move on to the next guy.

Thanks for all you guy's help
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musicdiva1331

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Posted: 03-18-08 23:26pm

well if he's working graveyard shift then that explains his tiredness! give to poor guy a break about sleeping and TALK to him, say flat out that the no sex is hurting your relationship and you don't want that to be the thing that ends it!
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PixieKat

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Posted: 03-19-08 23:07pm

I have talked to him many times about everything, he just doenst seem to care about it as much as i do. If he doesnt want to fix the problem than there isnt much else i can do.
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