Virgin- want to find someone - also have small penis - worried. Posted: 12-12-07 01:51am
Hello, I am 18 years old and I am a
virgin. I have never had a girlfriend and
I have never kissed a girl, and I have
always viewed this as a problem. I am
beggining to feel very depressed about my
situation, and I am often harassed by
classmates because it is very obvious that
I am a virgin. I don't find myself
entirely unattractive, slightly overweight
and not entirely handsome, I look normal
at least, but I am very unsocial. I go
days without speaking to people my age and
my best friends are my teachers. I am
afraid to speak to females I feel
attraction to because they would probably
see me as a pathetic person just trying to
hit on them.
I believe strongly in love, but there
seems to be no one else who does. I am not
the type of person who patronizes other
people for their sexual conquests: a
prostitute is a prostitute, male or
female. However,by this time in my life I
was hoping to reach a strong enough
connection with another person that I
could at least hold them. Sometimes it
seems unfair to me that other people take
this sort of thing for granted.
I'm sorry I'm whining, but I kindbof want
to just let out how I feel.
But I also have other concerns. If I ever
became close enogh with a person to have
sexual contact with them, what would they
expect? Would they care if I was a virgin
at 18, 21, 25, 30? I also have...something
else. I have a very small penis. It
measures somewhere between 2.5 and 3.5
inches. I have never taken a ruler to
measure because I am afraid to confirm
what I already know is true. Will my
potential partner refuse to have sex with
me because I will not be able to pleasure
her? I know this may sound like just some
male pride issue, but I am honestly quite
concerned.
Sorry to bother, and thanks.
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Posted: 12-12-07 02:42am
welcome, jacobryan.
For the questions you asked at the end: I
don't think you should date/have sex with
a woman who will think lowly of you if
you're a virgin. she won't be worth your
time.
As for penis size. Is that your size
erect? It's below average, but
seriously... the woman's vagina doesn't
require a large penis to cause it to
orgasm. Two reasons: A: the back two
thirds of the vagina has no orgasm causing
nerve endings. B: Many, many women can't
orgasm through vaginal intercourse and
need clitoral stimulation. As long as you
pay attention to your woman and multitask
a little bit, you'll be fine!
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