How Often Do You Masturbate?

well according to what some cultures say yes. Personally I think that masturbation is wrong.

yes if you use tampons, you're not a 'girl' anymore, thats why theres period pads for girls.

you think masturbation is wrong? why?

and lol if you use a tampon your not a girl? what are you a man when you use a tampon?

oh and exersize can break the hymen too
so if you exersize and your hymen breaks are you still a girl?

Dang it, my bf's gunna be dissapointed when he finds out im a guy lol
(for using tampons)

Miss Maria...

Im sorry to say this but you are wrong.
You need to become more educated in sexual health, and this would be the perfect place to do so.. as well as talking to your guardians (mom and dad, whomever raises and supports you.)
Having sexual intercourse, which is defined as "Sexual activity during which the erect penis is inserted into the vagina where ejaculation takes place" is the one and ONLY thing that makes you no longer a virgin. Not riding a bike, exercizing, using a tampon, masturbating, or watching people or animals have sex. A virgin is a person who has never had sex.. LOSING that means you have HAD SEX. Nothing less, nothing more.

Make sense?

Any other questions you have dont be embarrassed to ask.. thats what we are here for!

~Sandy

edited to add...

masturbation is NOT wrong.. self gratification has been going on for centuries, including in the *bible* days. Theres no shame in it and you shouldnt be embarrassed to talk about it or admit doing it.

Virginity has nothing to do with the hymen. What about guys? They don't suddenly lose their virginity when they masturbate so why on earth would women? It's tht old left over double standard and it's very harmful.

Having or not having a hymen doesn't affect your "virginity". Some women are born without hymens at all; would that mean the baby isn't a virgin? Of course not! Hymens are often broken during normal strenuous activities like soccer, horseback riding, swimming, gymnastics, inserting tampons, bike riding etc.

So even if you did break your hymen during masturbation, so what? To loose your virginity in MY book, you have to voluntarily let a penis go all the way inside of your vagina AND have sex. I don't think a penis going in once counts, nor does rape count. Many girls DO break their hymen during masturbation.

If you think about it, isn't it a lot more convenient and less painful to break it during masturbation? Who wants to bleed all over their lover their first time? Ick!! I didn't, but my hymen was unusual.

in some cultures it does, personally i think that its wrong

Sorry but I dont know anything about this topic or sexual stuff and maybe later I will find out. From my cultural background, these stuff before marriage has been considered as wrong and so I obay.
But I do appreciate your repplies, thankyou , its very helpful.

hi im a guy and i just need to rectify this on behalf of my gul friend. we do phone sex each night and we have a great orgasm. then we feel like tired speacilly my GF and she tels me that she dont even want me to come near her or touch her. i also feel the same but since we are lovers though we have come i love to hug her n sleep if we are together. does my gf's feelings are unusual or u guls also feel the same...

also must say we had some load of probs in our reltionship though we continue it still.

Pls Help

do u feel really tired after an orgasm. and don even wanna be touched by ur partner after doing it

yes

thanks for your response i really feel good.. otherwise i thought our relationship will b worst in the future.. it means this feeling is normal for a woman rright... some times she used to cry cos of this feeling... it was a real mess... ill show this conversation to her n make up her mind.. thanks again..