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marta12
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My Pregnancy Continues
Posted: 12-18-07 17:19pm
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can you giveme advices to go to highschool
with the belly? i terrible for me
thanks girls you helped me thanks!!!
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Katrinadoodle
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Posted: 12-18-07 17:22pm
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How do you already have a belly? Aren't
you only a few weeks along?
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marta12
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Posted: 12-18-07 17:23pm
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yes, but when ill have the belly grew
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Ingi
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Posted: 12-18-07 17:31pm
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Life with your belly is pretty much the
same as without it.
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Altari
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Posted: 12-18-07 17:34pm
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Unless the kids at your school suck, then
life is hard. I wore a lot of big
sweaters.
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Ingi
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Posted: 12-18-07 17:52pm
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Well, kids these days see pregnant girls
their age all the time. It probably can't
be any worse than being sent away to a
home for unwed mothers, to give birth and
give your baby away - all the while
keeping it a secret.
You'd think this would deter young girls
from having babies so young... but no, it
does not.
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anniek
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Posted: 12-18-07 18:27pm
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I was a junior when I was pregnant. I
guess I wore overalls, sweatshirts,
athletic pants, you know that kind of
thing. I didn't have to worry about people
being mean thank goodness. I went to a
smaller school I think there was around 60
in my class, and I was pretty well liked.
I never did wear anything that different
from normally just stopped wearing jeans
for awhil  But there are some
really cute clothes out there for when
your pregnant now, so just keep your eyes
out for some good deals!
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Katrinadoodle
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Posted: 12-18-07 18:40pm
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She doesn't live in the US. I wouldn't
assume things would be like they are here.
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-18-07 21:24pm
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| marta12
wrote: | | yes, but when ill have the
belly grew |
 your
belly wouldnt be getting bigger yet
your only a few weeks
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Katrinadoodle
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Posted: 12-18-07 22:13pm
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I think she's trying to ask what to do
when it grows, it's just not coming across
well in translation.
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 12-18-07 23:31pm
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Did she tell us why she wants to go
through all of this to give it up for
adoption at the end, instead of medically
(as in with medication) aborting it while
it's still early?
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-18-07 23:32pm
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| futureshock
wrote: | | Did she tell us why she
wants to go through all of this to give it
up for adoption at the end, instead of
medically (as in with medication) aborting
it while it's still
early? |
ive been waiting for that explination
myself
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RebelCats
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Posted: 12-19-07 05:51am
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| the_girlfriend
wrote: | | futureshock
wrote: | | Did she tell us why she
wants to go through all of this to give it
up for adoption at the end, instead of
medically (as in with medication) aborting
it while it's still
early? |
ive been waiting for that explination
myself |
I have been following this girl's story
since her first thread and refrained from
posting till now. Does she really need to
give anyone here an explanation on why she
made this choice for herself. I mean from
what I gather a lot of people that have
been responding to this girl asking her
why she choose adoption are pro-choice
people. Well this girl was given a choice
by her parents adoption or abortion. She
made the choice to go through with the
pregnancy and place the child for adoption
instead of having an abortion. Thats her
choice something she thought was best to
do.
And let me say if I was in her shoes I
would have a difficult time choosing
abortion even if I was 14. As a whole I am
not against abortion but I could not go
through with it under these circumstances.
I just couldn't have an abortion. Yes
adoption is hard. Yes emotionally it can
rip your heart out for a long time. But
with time it does get better.
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-19-07 06:40am
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| RebelCats
wrote: |
. Yes adoption is hard. Yes emotionally it
can rip your heart out for a long time.
But with time it does get
better. |
yeah...so does abortion. 
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RebelCats
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Posted: 12-19-07 07:00am
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| the_girlfriend
wrote: | | RebelCats
wrote: |
. Yes adoption is hard. Yes emotionally it
can rip your heart out for a long time.
But with time it does get
better. |
yeah...so does abortion. |
Well I have never had one so I can not
speak of something I know nothing about.
But I do know what it feels like to give a
child to someone else to raise via
adoption or signing away guardianship.
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-19-07 07:06am
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| RebelCats
wrote: | | the_girlfriend
wrote: | | RebelCats
wrote: |
. Yes adoption is hard. Yes emotionally it
can rip your heart out for a long time.
But with time it does get
better. |
yeah...so does abortion. |
Well I have never had one so I can not
speak of something I know nothing about.
But I do know what it feels like to give a
child to someone else to raise via
adoption or signing away
guardianship. |
wel every person is different and of
course we can only speak of our opinions
and expieriences
abortion and adoption can both be as
equally hard and not hard depending on the
person.
however this girl is 14 yrs old. i think
thats the biggest play factor in all of
this
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RebelCats
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Posted: 12-19-07 07:20am
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| the_girlfriend
wrote: | | RebelCats
wrote: | | the_girlfriend
wrote: | | RebelCats
wrote: |
. Yes adoption is hard. Yes emotionally it
can rip your heart out for a long time.
But with time it does get
better. |
yeah...so does abortion. |
Well I have never had one so I can not
speak of something I know nothing about.
But I do know what it feels like to give a
child to someone else to raise via
adoption or signing away
guardianship. |
however this girl is 14 yrs old. i think
thats the biggest play factor in all of
this |
Even so there are only 3 people that
really need to have an explanation for her
choice:
herself: she has to live with whatever she
decides to do
her parents: so they can stand beside her
and guide her through
this tough time.
her doctor: for obvious reasons I am
sure.
No one else really needs an explanation
for why she made this choice. I am sure
this decision was not made lightly. For
whatever reason this is the path she has
decided to make. I am sure her doctors
will watch her very closely through this
pregnancy because of her age.
And also on the note of her age and the
pregnancy. This girl may not have any
complications with the pregnancy. My niece
(who is pregnant currently) found out she
was pregnant right when she turned 15. So
not much older than the OP probably just
months in difference. She is 7mths
pregnant I think. She is due in March. She
has no problems healthy wise with the
pregnancy because of her age. Only issue
thus far has been a lot of weight gain
since the start of her pregnancy. Lets put
it this way she looked a lot further along
in her pregnancy by 12wks because of the
weight gain. But other than that nothing
different then anything I ever went
through when pregnant. I am sure labor
will be difficult but then again when is
it not.
i guess what I am saying is she may not
have any issues with this pregnancy and
delivery because of her age. Sure she
probably has a slightly higher risk than
if she was older but may be not. Pregnancy
does not wreck everyones body no matter
the age. I have had 4 kids starting when I
was 17 and you could not look at me and
tell I have had that many kids.
ETA:
Way off topic but I just noticed this. Why
does it say this under my name "Moderator
& Protectress of Pigeons"?
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rosejackson
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Posted: 12-19-07 07:29am
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[quote="RebelCats"][quote="the_girlfriend"
][quote="RebelCats"]| the_girlfriend
wrote: | | RebelCats
wrote: |
. Yes adoption is hard. Yes emotionally it
can rip your heart out for a long time.
But with time it does get
better. |
ETA:
Way off topic but I just noticed this. Why
does it say this under my name "Moderator
& Protectress of
Pigeons"? |
i don't know why this is. a few people are
having the same problem, always with
'moderator & protectress of pigeons'.
hopefully we'll get an explanation soon
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 12-19-07 10:09am
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Of course she doesn't have to give an
explanation for anything. I. personally,
am just curious as to why a person would
pick the much, much harder and riskier
choice from a physical perspective, and
maybe from an emotional perspective as
well.
The most common emotion women have after
an abortion is relief. I'm pretty sure
that's not the case with adoption.
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-19-07 16:18pm
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| futureshock
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The most common emotion women have after
an abortion is relief. I'm pretty sure
that's not the case with
adoption. |
again every woman is different
i think someone could feel relieved after
giving a child up for adoption.(personally
i wouldnt but thats just me.) same thing
goes for abortion.
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