My Dads Evil Gf She Is a Total Phsyco Wat Can I Do Posted: 12-18-07 20:38pm
my dad has been dating his gf for about
1.5 yrs and she is evil. she gets mad at
every little thing if my dad makes a bad
joke she'll totaly get super mad. when she
has vodka she goes NUTS! or any beer once
she tried to beat me up and im only 16 yrs
old. she didn't beat me up my dad was
interveening and pushed her when she tried
to advance on me. that night when my dad
had a couple of friends over and she likes
to be dramatic she started this delema
they were both drinking. but when she
tried to advance on me to beat me my dad
interveened and it was quickly escalating
so my dad told me to call the cops. so i
did. she left screaming and cussing me
out.
But then 2 weeks after that my dad
started dating her again i was totaly
pissed off by that and told my dad if she
were to come over again i will call the
police. Me and my dad were fighting for a
while after that we were screaming at each
other constantly. he threatened to beat me
a couple of times but it never went past
the threat.
will post more later.
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mominashoe
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Posted: 12-18-07 21:57pm
I will tell you what you should do:
If your dad is beating you...call child
services. They will help you out. No kid
should ever be beaten. EVER. A threat is
almost just as bad as doing it. It makes
you live in fear when he should be the one
that is supposed to be providing a safe
and comfortable shelter for you.
If he wants to put you in a situation
where you are coming to physical harm:
call child services. Bringing someone
into the house that makes advances on you,
gets drunk with her friends/ your
father....is not a healthy environment for
a child/teen.
It seems like you've tried to talk to your
dad about this unhealthy relationship with
this woman, so maybe reasoning with him is
not the answer. You can tell him one more
time that if anything else goes wrong, you
will make the call on him.
Or, you can just safely call child
services and tell nothing about it to him,
and explain the situation to them. I
don't think that's out of order.
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amanda1691
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Posted: 12-20-07 20:52pm
yeah i have tried to talk to him about it
but he doesn't listen. i have told child
services about it but they can't do
anything unless i have been physically
beaten or have any marks on me. i have
talked to the social worker about this.
she was my dads ex gf. and we spent the
night that day when i told her about my
dads crazy gf. she said my dads current
gf( cheryl) has chracteristics of an
antisocial personality disorder where she
won't care about who she hurts wen she
wants to get something. and also that she
can be totally convincing when she says
shes sorry. so in other words shes a
phsycopath. shes just in our house for my
dads money. i dont get why my dad likes
her shes a little dumb. when she gets in a
fight with my dad she yells about me i can
hear her and she knows it. she yells about
my little sister and brother also. so they
and me can hear it. my dad is a good
person when he wants to be but he gets
angry sometimes he doesn't hit so hard but
a long time ago he did and he was reported
and the whole child services came. that
happened twice and the third one and were
gone.
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mominashoe
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Posted: 12-22-07 22:45pm
It's too bad that child services aren't
being very helpful, considering the
history your father has with violence.
Maybe there is a relative that you have
that might be able to help you out. You
could stay with them temporarily or even
permanently if the situation doesn't get
any better when your father realizes how
much this situation is hurting you and
your siblings.
It may even be possible that this relative
could press for custody, seeing that your
father is obviously not providing for you.
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-22-07 22:46pm
hun can you go stay with any relative or
something? seriously you need to get out
of there
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amanda1691
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Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 30 Location: alaska
Thnx For Responding Posted: 12-27-07 19:33pm
yes i do think there is someone i could go
to.
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womaninpain
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Joined: 10 Jul 2007 Posts: 179
Posted: 01-01-08 02:06am
Amanda,
You and your siblings need to get out of
there and fast because it is not healthy
for any of you. Is your mother around to
stay with? If not I would call the police
next time it escalates and explain it all
to them and tell them that you fear her
and the situation as well as you fear for
your siblings. If you can't stay with
family then they should be able to help
you in some way. I will keep you in my
prayers
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amanda1691
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Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 30 Location: alaska
Posted: 01-10-08 02:24am
we have had a family delemma last spring.
so we are dissconeccted with them. i did
tell him if a fight ever escalates i will
call the police. i told him i will leave.
i get really mad at him when he takes her
back he says he can't be happy with out
her i get mad at him. i just dont
understand it when he acts so childish he
doesnt see anything bad about her but he
just acts like an fool and im just getting
to my wits end i just want him to stop
acting like such a baby. i really dont
know what to do to stop him i know we
could always leave when it gets bad.
