HcoBrunette06
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Dramadramadrama
Posted: 12-18-07 20:54pm
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Okay, I have a problem ladies & I'd
like for you to help me figure out what to
do!
Alright, 3 friends, Becky, Scott, and
Shannon.
Becky & Scott dated for about a year
& then broke up.
A few months later Scott and Shannon
started "talking" (Becky didn't care, her
and Scott were still good friends and
she'd moved on) so they were talking, and
the night before Scott and Shannon
officially started dating, him and Becky
had sex. 
I was not happy about that.
Shannon doesn't know this. She's a virgin
and she's never done anything sexual
before, so Scott is getting fed up because
he thinks he "needs" it, since all of his
past girlfriends have had sex with him. He
told Becky a few weeks ago that if Shannon
doesn't have sex with him soon that he's
breaking up with her, and he asked if him
and becky could "hook up" again.
UGH THAT MADE ME SO MAD. Shannon is my
best friend! But I didn't tell her because
Becky told me she would. Becky told me a
few days ago that he didn't feel that way
anymore and that it was just a phase but
that she was still going to tell her. Well
last night Scott said the same thing.
& Becky said she doesn't plan on
telling her.
WHAT THE HELL, she said she doesn't want
to hurt her, but HELLO she's gonna be even
more hurt if we don't tell her! I'm so
tempted to tell her myself, but I don't
want to step on any toes. I love Shannon
& she deserves so much more 
Im sorry, this sounds like a bunch of
teenage drama. I'm not in the drama, and
I'm trying to stay away from it, but this
is my best friend and I'm just trying to
figure out what to do. Thanks.
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Posted: 12-18-07 20:58pm
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I, personally, would tell Shannon. That
way she can beat him to the punch and dump
him if that's what she wants to do. I
think she has a right to know though. I'd
want to.
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 12-18-07 20:58pm
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i would probably tell her because he is
definitly not boyfriend material. Shannon
wants a relationship that he cant give her
so theyd both be better off doing what
make them happy.
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OctoberBaby06
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Posted: 12-18-07 21:00pm
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As hard as it might be to do, I'd
definitely tell Shannon
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 12-18-07 21:01pm
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me too.
if you're as good of a friend as you think
you are, you wont allow your friend to get
hurt.
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-Tanya-
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Posted: 12-18-07 21:01pm
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This is what you do.
Never talk to anyone at your school ever
again. Avoid teen culture like it's a
STD.
: )
Becky and Scott are lame, so tell Shannon.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 12-18-07 21:04pm
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I'm gonna give becky one more chance to
tell her, I'm gonna sit her down and tell
her either she tells shannon or IM going
to, I will kill anyone who hurts shannon
lol
I HATE DRAMA
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 12-18-07 21:05pm
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welcome to being a teenager, how can i
help you?
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 12-18-07 21:09pm
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| -Tanya-
wrote: | This is what you do.
Never talk to anyone at your school ever
again. Avoid teen culture like it's a
STD.
: )
Becky and Scott are lame, so tell
Shannon. |
lol remember that next time u think being
an adult suck and missing your old friend
is in your brain
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-Tanya-
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Posted: 12-18-07 21:12pm
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| ~dani~
wrote: | | -Tanya-
wrote: | This is what you do.
Never talk to anyone at your school ever
again. Avoid teen culture like it's a
STD.
: )
Becky and Scott are lame, so tell
Shannon. |
lol remember that next time u think being
an adult suck and missing your old friend
is in your
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-18-07 21:17pm
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tell her terra
thats your best friend and she needs to
know
its not fair that she is getting hurt like
this
dont even give becky the chance to tell
her.
and tell scott i hope his penis falls off
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 12-18-07 21:20pm
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and drops into a meat grinder.
and goats eat it, and crap it out on his
shoes.. so he has penis shoes.
or
ground up penis burger.
with ketchup.
seriously tho.. im sure you would want to
know if it were you.. you're her best
friend, its your responsibility to make
sure she doesn't get hurt.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 12-18-07 23:32pm
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I seriously HATE scott. & yes, I would
want to know. That's exactly what I've
said to Becky "wouldn't you want us to
tell you if your boyfriend said that?"
I'm going to tell her.
aaaah I'm just so frustrated with this,
that's why I posted about it. I feel silly
now, I don't want you all to think I'm
super into drama at school lol because I
have none. I just don't want my friend to
get hurt.
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moldedbymercy88
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Posted: 12-18-07 23:56pm
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| HcoBrunette06
wrote: | I seriously HATE scott.
& yes, I would want to know. That's
exactly what I've said to Becky "wouldn't
you want us to tell you if your boyfriend
said that?"
I'm going to tell her.
aaaah I'm just so frustrated with this,
that's why I posted about it. I feel silly
now, I don't want you all to think I'm
super into drama at school lol because I
have none. I just don't want my friend to
get hurt. |
I didn't think that you were super into
drama from this post. I thought you were
(are) a person in a difficult situation of
knowing something important and not
knowing if you should be the one to tell
it. And, I agree with everyone else. I
would be heart broken if I were Shannon
and I found out about Scott and Becky.
But, I would be even more crushed if I
knew my best friend knew about it and
didn't tell me.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 12-18-07 23:58pm
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You're right! Thanks so much!
It's nerve wrecking, I'm supposed to be
moving to Omaha in 6 months with Becky, I
dont want her to make me rethink my
decision lol just hopefully she stays away
from my boyfriends. 
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-19-07 00:00am
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eww id stay away from becky
cant trust her
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moldedbymercy88
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Posted: 12-19-07 01:28am
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| the_girlfriend
wrote: | eww id stay away from becky
cant trust
her |
Absolutely ditto, times ten. I have dealt
with some of the worst backstabbers and
deceivers you will ever meet (seriously),
so I have experience in the matter. Stay
away from that girl. She will start with
guys and then slow take over other things
that matter to you. Just in what you have
typed so far, she has already shown that
she can't be trusted. If you are going to
start a new life somewhere else, start it
without drama.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 12-19-07 09:15am
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You're right, I guess I just have to hope
that her plans for Omaha don't work out?
Yuck, I'm gonna tell her today that if she
doesn't tell Shannon then I am. I just
hate to do it right before Christmas, but
I guess I have to remember that I'M not
the one doing this, HE is.
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moldedbymercy88
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Posted: 12-19-07 10:48am
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| HcoBrunette06
wrote: | | but I guess I have to
remember that I'M not the one doing this,
HE is. |
EXACTLY! You're doing the RIGHT thing, HE
is doing the *wrong* thing. Don't feel
guilty for his behaviour.
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