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j_seals08
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Boyfriend not lasting as long - why?
Posted: 12-19-07 21:57pm
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me n my boyfriend have been together for
about 3 years n we have been having sex
for about one year. when we first started
having sex it was good n it lasted for
about 2 ta 3 hour but know he get off hard
quick is it me?? is i'm doing sumthing
wrong?? please help me any info will be
really appreciated thank u
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-19-07 22:23pm
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2-3 hrs? 
thats a really long time
how long does he last now?
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j_seals08
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young Girl
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j_seals08
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Posted: 12-19-07 22:58pm
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but sumtimes not even dat long
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j_seals08
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Posted: 12-19-07 23:00pm
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is it because he is getting tired of the
samething. i'm scared because if thats the
case he may cheat on me with someone else
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j_seals08
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Posted: 12-19-07 23:01pm
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i forgot to tell this part he get off hard
before he nut
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-19-07 23:05pm
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nah i think 2-3 hurs is just a really long
time lol
but i dunno
he mightbe getting tired of it  do you have sex
alot?
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j_seals08
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Posted: 12-19-07 23:08pm
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we have sex like twice a week
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j_seals08
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Posted: 12-19-07 23:09pm
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so do u think he is getting tired of
having sex with me or just sex period
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-19-07 23:56pm
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i dunno it could be either
why not ask him?
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winterman
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Ejaculation Makes Exhausted Too Much
Posted: 12-20-07 01:37am
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| j_seals08
wrote: | | is it because he is getting
tired of the samething. i'm scared because
if thats the case he may cheat on me with
someone else |
No. don't have that idea. If i restrain my
ejaculation, I always last as long as i
would like. But if let ejaculate, I would
feel so tired, and can not have more times
any longer. even still get in my gf's
vagina, it won't last as long.
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Posted: 12-20-07 07:01am
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| j_seals08
wrote: | | is it because he is getting
tired of the samething. i'm scared because
if thats the case he may cheat on me with
someone else |
If the guy loves you he won't cheat on
you. Having a ejeculation sooner rather
than 2 hours later is not going to make
him decide to cheat on you. If it does
then that guy is a jerk and not worth your
time.
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Posted: 12-20-07 10:12am
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Does he have any new stress in his life?
Hows work for him? What about family
issues? Have you two been fighting?
I think 30 min is normal. Hell 30 min of
straight vaginal sex would wear me out!!!!
I dont think I can last that long.
Anyways....My boyfriend last 10 min
sometimes and others 1 hr. It just
depends on our mood, the last time we had
sex, and whether or not he stops himself
from coming. I dont think you should be
too worried unless there are issues in
your relationship. And just ask him
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j_seals08
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Posted: 12-21-07 22:29pm
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naw we are good we don't have any problems
but it is like sometimes we have sex for
an hour n other for like 10 to 30 min n
some for a hour
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Posted: 12-22-07 16:40pm
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Did he say its a problem?
My boyfriend can last a really long time
but if we don't switch positions then it
will be over sooner.
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Posted: 12-26-07 15:02pm
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I think the longer you are with your
partner the shorter it gets. I don't
think he'll cheat. Why don't you try
different things, like oral sex until he
ejaculates or rub off on him and talk
dirty to him. My boyfriend don't last a
long time but when I really want him I
just start telling him how wet I get when
he's touching me and I perform oral sex
and touch myself then I get on top,
backwards, sideways anything just to make
different moves... don't freak out
remember you still have a lot to
discover..
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Lico
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Posted: 12-29-07 17:12pm
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Guy's perspective:
When a guy doesn't last as long as he used
to, then I recommend that you foreplay
alittle more. Guys usually get a pre
ejactulation when foreplaying that helps
them last longer during sex. As well, the
10 to 30 mins times you guys had sex, are
you both going super fast or taking your
time? If your going super fast, then I
recommend slow down more. Remember, a guys
penis before ejactulation is a pump, by
having sex more and more, your building up
the pump. The faster the sex, the faster
the penis gets pumped up if you know what
I mean.
Your problem can also mean that your doing
a good job with him. For example, you know
his sweet spots or positions that are
making him go quicker.
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jaynemae
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Posted: 01-02-08 01:51am
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| Lico
wrote: | Guy's perspective:
Your problem can also mean that your doing
a good job with him. For example, you know
his sweet spots or positions that are
making him go
quicker. |
i think you probably just know what he
likes and you focus on it. it's not a bad
thing, but it can def. make a difference
in how long he lasts. i can make my guy
finish in 2 minutes, or a half an hour.
it all depends on what "buttons" i push.
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