Joined: 21 Nov 2007 Posts: 49 Location: Southern, United States
If You Are a Mom, Read. Posted: 12-20-07 02:11am
This is for the moms, just a little issue,
maybe some help from someone? I'm an only
child, I'm close to 20 and Ive been home
for the holidays. for the past id say year
and half or so ive had spells of absolutly
not being able to stand even being in the
same room with my mom. She seems so
desperate to hang out with me that i find
her desperatness just infuriating. Does
this make me a bad person? I wish i could
sand her but i ant help it. sometimes its
not bad and i like to be with her but most
of the other times i just want to put her
in closet for a week. If there are any
moms out there than can give me some input
Im all ears, just thought it was an
interesting and bit sad topic.
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Hart74
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Posted: 02-13-08 11:59am
Okay first you find out what is the actual
reason for you not to be able to stand
her? After that you try to work out from
there go slow don't expect thing to change
over night though take 'baby step'
aftwerwards if you have tried and still
the same leave it to fate, at least
you've tried and you won't feel as bad,
it's better to try then to surrender even
before trying. Good luck.
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samba88
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Joined: 21 Nov 2007 Posts: 49 Location: Southern, United States
Posted: 02-13-08 13:06pm
It's been a while since I posted this one,
and over this time I'm pretty sure I've
figured it out. Life. I'm an only child,
so me about to leave for college had her
on "I want my baby to stay i nthe nest"
overdrive. I've bee away from home for
about 6 months now and it's gotten way
better. She really just needed to let me
grow up on my own, it was a rough little
while with her but I think we both figured
it out. Plu my dad and I got her a puppy
before I left haha.
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 02-14-08 23:10pm
I'm glad you worked things out. I am a
mom to an only child, she is 10 now. I am
already dreading going through the ordeal
you've been through. We can't help it if
we love you kids to pieces, lol!
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