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Strange Pain During Sex Posted: 12-23-07 11:08am
For the last few months, I've been getting
a sharp stabbing pain on one or both sides
(near my ovaries, I'm assuming) during sex
with my husband. We use plenty of lube, so
that's not the issue. It only really
happens when he goes hard/deep - it feels
fine when he's taking his time and going
slow. Problem: I can't get off when he
takes his time. I like it hard and deep.
It's just so strange that I don't feel
pain inside my vagina... it literally
feels like someone is stabbing me in the
ovary and twisting the knife.
*frustrated sigh*
Any thoughts?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 12-23-07 11:14am
He's hitting your cervix, and it's going
to hurt no matter what... There's really
no fix for that.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 12-23-07 11:17am
My... cervix? Wow.
I wouldn't have guessed that. Is it normal
to feel cervix pain on the sides instead
of in the middle? Also, I don't remember
feeling this before I had my daughter...
is it possible that childbirth had some
kind of effect on my cervix?
(If these are stupid questions please let
me know. )
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Tylanas
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Posted: 12-23-07 11:23am
Yes, childbirth can change the placement
of your uterus and cervix slightly. It
also descends during your normal menstrual
cycle to be lower during ovulation. Of
course they're not dumb questions!
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Becky
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Posted: 12-23-07 14:13pm
i get the same pain sometimes when he hits
too deep. i don't think it's anything to
worry about
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-23-07 15:17pm
yeah laura it sounds like hes hitting your
cervix maybe even bruising it during sex
that happens sometimes during deep
penetration.
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Flurries in the air
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Posted: 12-23-07 15:29pm
the same thing happens to me! When he goes
fast and deep he sometimes hurts me sooo
bad that i start crying. not fun =[
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womaninpain
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Posted: 12-23-07 22:19pm
I have had the same issue as well....if
not the other thing is that you could have
a kidney issue might not be something big
but I would definitely bring this up to a
doctor and have them check it out to make
sure. I found out that it was not only my
cervix yes...after childbirth but that I
had a kidney infection as well. I had no
symptoms of the kidney infection and did
not know until I went and had it all
checked out. You should definitely talk to
the doctor and make sure that it isnt
something bigger than just him hitting
your cervix.
Wow.
I wouldn't have guessed that. Is it normal
to feel cervix pain on the sides instead
of in the middle? Also, I don't remember
feeling this before I had my daughter...
is it possible that childbirth had some
kind of effect on my cervix?
)