i asked my mom so many times before i ever
even had sex if she would let me go on
birth control and she ignored me. so i
tried to step up before i even got
pregnant and of course it didnt work so i
really think if your child is asking to
put her n birth control that is what needs
to be done.
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Katrinadoodle
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2007 Posts: 1231
Posted: 01-04-08 00:20am
^^ I'm putting Jay on BC as soon as she
starts her period.
As for the question... I don't really
know. My mom and I don't/didn't have an
open relationship, but it wouldn't have
changed anything. I got myself on the pill
and we used a condom, and I still got
pregnant. That would have happened had my
mom been the one to get me on birth
control, too.
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 01-04-08 00:21am
she wants to know why you chose to keep
the baby though..
i made the same mistake when answering lol
thats how i know
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Katrinadoodle
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2007 Posts: 1231
Posted: 01-04-08 00:26am
Because I couldn't go through another
abortion when I could support this child?
I don't know how my parents could have
avoided that, either. My mom is against
abortion, period, so unless she changed
her morals there's no way she could have
avoided it.
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 01-04-08 00:28am
how old were you when you had your ab?
how old were you when you got preg again?
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Katrinadoodle
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2007 Posts: 1231
Posted: 01-04-08 00:49am
13 and 16
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AMomOf3
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2008 Posts: 37 Location: San Diego, CA USA
Posted: 01-05-08 00:13am
I got pregnant at 16. I was the one of
the youngest of 9 kids. My mom NEVER
talked to me about sex. It was almost a
taboo word in our house. My older sister
explained stuff to me. So, when I was
curious about sex, I couldn't ask my
mother anything. I asked my sister, but
she wasn't able to take me to get on birth
control pills. If my mom had been
approachable, I wouldn't have had my first
kid so young. I openly discussed sex with
my oldest daughter and explained things to
her, on her level, at different age
appropriate talks. I begged her to come
to me before she had sex so I could
prevent her following in my footsteps. It
didn't work. She got pregnant at the same
age I did. So, all of my openness and
discussions didn't work. I don't know
what I could have done differently to
avoid the situation.
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 01-05-08 00:26am
did she keep the baby?
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AMomOf3
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2008 Posts: 37 Location: San Diego, CA USA
Posted: 01-05-08 01:07am
Yeah, she kept her.
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manuftw82
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Posted: 01-06-08 15:00pm
bellax0x
wrote:
ahh ok. I must've miss
understood. sorry
hmmm BAM sounds fimiliar hahah i've
belonged to so many
forums
lol well you should come back. because
i'm sure everyone will remember you. or most people at
least.
or most people at
least.