I'm 26 with a serious girlfriend, but
sometimes I cum incredibly quickly
(sometimes upon entering her vagina). I
don't seem to have this problem when she
masturbates me with hand or mouth.
I think it's down to one particularly
sensitive area at the top of shaft, where
it joins the head. A couple of years ago,
I slightly ripped my foreskin during sex,
and I'm wondering whether this has
contributed to this problem.
I have read about creams and sprays but
worried they will prevent condoms from
working and/or numb her vagina too.
Any thoughts or similar experiences? I am
fed up with constantly disappointing her
or having o have a few drinks or wanks to
make sure it doesn't happen!
Andy, UK
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MikeH90
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Mar 2007 Posts: 328 Location: , Illinois USA
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Posted: 12-26-07 11:46am
Andy, I know the frustration! I use a
spray called Stud Spray. Not sure if you
can get it in the UK though. It works
pretty well and doesn't seem to effect my
wife's vagina at all. As long as we wait
till it drys she is fine. Not sure how it
effects the effectiveness of condoms, as
she is on birth control and we don't use
them. Check out the sticky post regarding
PE, there are pages and pages of posts
where you may find something else helpful
as well.
There are condoms that have special
dulling lubricant already put inside of
them. so you know the condoms will be safe
if you go that route. I think Durex makes
one called performax or something to that
sort. Go to your local pharmacy and look
for them.
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Andy2481
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Dec 2007 Posts: 2
Posted: 12-29-07 10:24am
Thanks guys...I have tried those Durex
Performa condoms and I must admit they
were pretty good. I have ordered some
Durex PlayLonger cream too so hopefully
the combintion will work.