Maybe It's Just My Hormones Acting Up... Posted: 12-27-07 18:22pm
My b/f is a union insulator and works with
this girl named Melissa. I met her once at
his company Christmas dinner, she seemed
pretty nice. Anyways my b/f has been
leaving our house early to meet her at a
gas station 5 mins away from where we live
to give her a ride to work. He says they
do this to save money and that her truck
is a piece of caca. Okay so I have been
allright with it because at least he let
me know about it to begin with. Lately she
has been calling our house at about 5am
and asking for him when I answer. She
dosnt even say hi to me or tell me good
morning and she often calls again the same
morning to make sure hes left our house. I
just feel like shes being rude to not even
say hi to me, she dosnt use any common
curtesy to me at all and her keeping tabs
on him makes me feel a little odd. Maybe
I'm making a big deal out of this because
I'm 9 months prego and about to pop and my
hormones are wacko but I just dont find it
normal. My b/f says she always asks about
me tho. Well I'm done with my rant lol.
Just needed to vent I guess. I guess I
find the whole thing odd because if I was
her and catching a ride with her man and
calling her house at 5am to keep tabs on
her man then I'd at least have the common
decentcy to say hi to her and ask her how
she is feeling. This girl Melissa also
always brags about how sweet and wonderful
my man is to other mutual ties and she has
been divorced twice and single at the
moment. I guess I may just be working
myself up, I just don't trust women very
well in general. Thanks for letting me
rant and vent lol.
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acruz
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Posted: 12-27-07 19:27pm
I understand the frustration, hun! Have
you told your bf how you feel? She is
being rude. Also, she should tell you who
she is, and not make it seem like a
personal call, it should be a
"business/carpool call". I am sure
everything is honest and she probably just
doesn't have manners, but telling bf how
you feel may make you feel better! pm me
anytime!
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Bridget
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Posted: 12-27-07 19:32pm
has he forgotten to pick her up or been
late many times? i don't get why she's
calling at 5am to see if he's left. who
calls anyone at 5am? i don't get a
suspicious vibe and i don't think there's
anything to be jealous of, but i would be
so annoyed if someone was calling me that
early. he needs to tell her to stop
calling.
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O0o0h_baby
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Joined: 12 Dec 2007 Posts: 674 Location: Northern California,
Posted: 12-27-07 19:36pm
Woo that makes me mad just reading it lol
(i've also got quite a temper). Next time
she calls tell her not to call your house
again till she learns some manners
>.> then turn the ringer off lol ^^
I understand the
frustration, hun! Have you told your bf
how you feel? She is being rude. Also, she
should tell you who she is, and not make
it seem like a personal call, it should be
a "business/carpool call". I am sure
everything is honest and she probably just
doesn't have manners, but telling bf how
you feel may make you feel better! pm me
anytime!
Thankyou so much for listening and
replying, I thought I was going insane.
These last few weeks I've been sobbing a
lot and feeling so blue but I think thats
normal considering I'm 40 weeks expecting
my first.
has he forgotten to pick her
up or been late many times? i don't get
why she's calling at 5am to see if he's
left. who calls anyone at 5am? i don't get
a suspicious vibe and i don't think
there's anything to be jealous of, but i
would be so annoyed if someone was calling
me that early. he needs to tell her to
stop calling.
No he has never been late on picking her
up which is why I was getting upset on her
calling at 5am to see if he had left. Just
makes me think "why is she doing this? Is
she keeping tabs on him or what?" idk I
was driving myself insane about it lol. 40
weeks prego now and I'm so hormonal.
