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Electriceyes
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Posted: 12-29-07 23:11pm
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yeah BH do suck  I can't really tell
but every once in a while there is one
that's like OMGosh lol
And the sitting on a nerve sucks.. When
i'm with my bf some times i'll squeez his
hand and hurt him 'cuz I get a real good
pain.. I feel so bad but he doesn't care.
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 12-29-07 23:16pm
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Tell the kid to move over!
Princess, I was over an hour away from the
hospital when I went in to labor. More
often than not you'll have time to travel
the 30-40 minutes. Labor starts off
slowly (usually).
Anyway, what I'm trying to say is, don't
worry. 
I think Altari's idea about you calling
your doc before getting your mother
involved is excellent advice. You can get
his phone number from calling 411.
P.S. It's not a good idea to NOT know
that number, anyway. You should keep the
phone number with you, like in your purse
or wallet, for emergencies.
Last edited by Verizon-y on 12-29-07 23:17pm; edited 1 time in total
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-29-07 23:16pm
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yeah
it sucks
and its not going to get any better lol
trust me and get the epidural
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Electriceyes
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Joined: 18 Nov 2007
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Location: Monroe, Michigan United States
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Posted: 12-29-07 23:26pm
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| futureshock
wrote: | Tell the kid to move over!
Princess, I was over an hour away from the
hospital when I went in to labor. More
often than not you'll have time to travel
the 30-40 minutes. Labor starts off
slowly (usually).
Anyway, what I'm trying to say is, don't
worry.
I think Altari's idea about you calling
your doc before getting your mother
involved is excellent advice. You can get
his phone number from calling 411.
P.S. It's not a good idea to NOT know
that number, anyway. You should keep the
phone number with you, like in your purse
or wallet, for
emergencies. |
*says in a funny voice* Move over Kaleb!!
lol
Yeah , well so far so good today, my great
aunt got like $220 worth of stuff for the
baby today. I felt so bad...
I will deff. be putting my dr.'s number in
my phone tomorrow when I get home... and
i'll talk to him at my next appt. on the
3rd about the pain and stuff since he's
unreachable until then.
| the_girlfriend
wrote: | yeah
it sucks
and its not going to get any better lol
trust me and get the
epidural |
I so planned on it. My bf told me i'm not
alloud to have one and I just laughd and
was like you're funny.. I don't care what
you say i'm getting one
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anniek
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Posted: 12-30-07 13:28pm
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Yeah I would! I didn't have time with
either babies. Once a go I go. Those
babies come too fast for me! That's why I
was enduced with my 2nd because we only
live 10 min away and my dr was worried we
wouldn't make it. And yet I still didn't
get meds!
I had BH from about 30 weeks on.
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Electriceyes
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Location: Monroe, Michigan United States
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Posted: 12-30-07 13:34pm
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geez... That sucks. It's like is this
FINALLY it? Then it turns out not to be
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 12-30-07 13:41pm
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| princess6591
wrote: |
I so planned on it. My bf told me i'm not
alloud to have one and I just laughd and
was like you're funny.. I don't care what
you say i'm getting
one |
WHAT? Oh please tell me about this whole
conversation. I have to hear it.
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Electriceyes
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Location: Monroe, Michigan United States
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Posted: 12-30-07 13:48pm
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well, I was talking to him on AIM and some
how the baby came up and me having him. I
told him how I hate pain but that's what
meds are for and he's just like nope you
gotta have him natural no meds aloud. I
was like haha.. haha you're funny. If you
think i'm gonna do this without them
you're INSANE. He just laughed. I HOPE he
was just kidding. Knowing him though, I
think he was...
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 12-30-07 18:50pm
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He was just trying to throw one more
obstacle at you, to convince you to not
have the baby.
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Electriceyes
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Location: Monroe, Michigan United States
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Posted: 12-30-07 20:17pm
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mm..not my ex. my current bf. He wants me
to have the baby...he's more excited than
me.
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 12-30-07 20:47pm
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Oh, sorry! I thought you meant the baby's
father said that to you, lol! OK, I agree
the new bf was just kidding when he
said/wrote that.
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Electriceyes
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Location: Monroe, Michigan United States
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Posted: 12-30-07 20:59pm
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yeah lol. If my ex said anything like that
i'd just slap him lol. Dallas is always
ragging on me like that and saying as soon
as this one is born we can work on having
one together... I'm just like i'm not
having another one for at least 5 years
lol
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young Girl
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Posted: 12-30-07 23:10pm
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yeah i didnt want another for atleast 5
years either
but...lol i already want another one. but
im not even going there anytime soon or in
the near future because that would be
stupid and unrealistic. i couldnt have 2
kids this young. its not practical.
in the event that i got pregnant again
anytime soon i would get an abortion hands
down no questions asked
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Electriceyes
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Joined: 18 Nov 2007
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Location: Monroe, Michigan United States
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Posted: 12-31-07 00:08am
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oh yeah. me too. I don't see how my mom
could handle 2 at 19. geez. I told my bf
that if we happen to last that long i'd be
very happy to have one in about 5-ish
years. He's like i'll be to old then! lol
(he's quite a bit older than me) I told
him as long as you use it you can have
kids lol. But he wants kids older but
still young enough that he can play around
with them and stuff. Good he can take mine
and practice with him :p
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 12-31-07 02:57am
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How old is he? I think it's sick that
he's talking about you having his child
before he talks about marrying you.
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Altari
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Joined: 29 Nov 2007
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Location: Chicago, IL USA
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Posted: 12-31-07 10:05am
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| the_girlfriend
wrote: | yeah i didnt want another
for atleast 5 years either
but...lol i already want another one. but
im not even going there anytime soon or in
the near future because that would be
stupid and unrealistic. i couldnt have 2
kids this young. its not
practical. |
LoL, I had three by the time I was 20.
First one we used condoms, second one I
was on the patch. O_o Some of us are just
too fertile. I also am jonesing for
another baby...hubby and I are finally in
a position where it would be doable, lol.
I don't think we're going there, though.
We had a scare this month, and it made us
both realize how that while another baby
sounds good, it would really SUCK right
now. =)
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 12-31-07 11:12am
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Maybe baby-jonesing is one of the reasons
it's so hard to go back and finish your
education when you are a teen parent.
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Altari
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Location: Chicago, IL USA
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Posted: 12-31-07 11:31am
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| futureshock
wrote: | | Maybe baby-jonesing is one
of the reasons it's so hard to go back and
finish your education when you are a teen
parent. |
Could be, although I'd put that more in
the category of "not being able to".
We have some good family friends who
routinely take in 1 or 2 pregnant girls.
Our area has the double edged sword of
teen pregnancy being fairly common, but a
ridiculously skewed public opinion
tainting reactions to it. The girls stay
with her until they finish high school,
and some until they finish college. She's
been doing this for 30 years, and has said
that some of the mother/child combos live
with them until the child is 5 or 6. Very
inspirational, dedicated woman - luckily,
she's a social worker, so her circle of
influence is much greater as well. Our
next house is going to have an extra room
or two for this purpose.
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 12-31-07 11:36am
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What kind of things do the public say
about teen pregnancy, and why do you think
there is so much of it in spite of the
public reaction?
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Altari
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Location: Chicago, IL USA
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Posted: 12-31-07 11:40am
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We're a relatively low-income,
low-education, and very rural area.
Starting families young is common,
considering most people don't have
educations past high school (and many past
sophomore year).
As I said in another post, it's due to an
outdated idea of sexuality. Most parents
don't particularly want "something better"
for their kids - there's more of an
attitude of "I did fine with just my GED
you will too". It's a far right-wing idea
that sex outside of marriage is dirty, and
teenage mothers must be sluts.
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