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Can This Really Happen If You Have Sex At a Younge Age Posted: 12-28-07 01:26am
I'm 17 and i am sexually active. Me and my
bf have been together about a year so its
not that long,and i am hoping he is the
one i will marry and have my kids with.
But i was talking to my mom oneday and she
said if i keep having sex at such a young
age it will be really difficult or
impossible to have a baby when i get older
and get married is that true ?
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Lilly Ivy
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Posted: 12-28-07 01:35am
from what it sounds like she's just trying
to keep you from having sex. I've never
heard of someone becoming infertile just
because they had sex at such a young age.
Honestly, 17 isn't too young in my
opinion. My sister was 14 when she started
and had a nice healthy baby when she was
24. Plus there's people that don't start
their families until they are 40, so
imagine how long they had sex...
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Moo
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Posted: 12-28-07 07:03am
I agree, it sounds as though your mum is
trying to stop you having sex. There's no
reason why you wouldn't be able to have a
baby because you have sex as a teenager!
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 12-28-07 08:06am
lol!
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Altari
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Posted: 12-28-07 11:29am
Unless you contract an STD/STI, there's no
reason it would affect your fertility.
This sounds like fathers who tell sons not
to masturbate, lest they go blind, lol. =)
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Moo
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Posted: 12-28-07 11:45am
Altari
wrote:
Unless you contract an
STD/STI, there's no reason it would affect
your fertility.
Yup, and even then if it's treated early
it may not have any effect on future
fertility
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 12-28-07 12:04pm
Nope, she's just trying to put you off
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mominashoe
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Posted: 12-28-07 12:18pm
Lol, that's a funny argument. Definitely
from a parent's perspective, there are
reasons why you should wait to have sex
until you are living with him actually
ready to have children, but this isn't one
of them and it's too bad that she couldn't
think of a better reason than that.
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 12-28-07 12:44pm
It's funny how now that I am a parent I
can see why they don't want their kids to
have sex.
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jessamyn
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Posted: 12-31-07 17:29pm
hah hun no that is not true... she is
simply trying to keep you from having sex
