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jv13

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She Cant Lie to Her Parents No More
Posted: 12-28-07 03:17am

ok, so i've been with her for a year and a month. we both have been caught by a friends mom doing some bad things after school in the park, touching places where we are no supposed to. so this year around september she had told her mom we are not together no more, and the dad did not know anything about us. so on thanksgiving day, her mom told her "you know, im proud that you are not doing anything stupid like you did with him" and at that point, she felt bad, cause we where going out behind her parents back. so around december 10 she told me that she cant be doing this no more, that she cant be lieing to her parents. cause if she gets caught from one more stupid thing she will be moved from schools to an all girls school. we both go to the same school and all, and her parents are OVER PROTECTIVE. i respect her and her parents, and i will wait for her cause i really love her. but it hurts cause me and her are not BF and GF no more. the thing is that i have to wait till october 24 which she will be 17, and she will be able to have me. but im afraid that when the time comes she will be telling me that she sees me better as a friend. im also afraid she will find someone else, but she gets mad at me when i think that anything like that is gonna happen. i trust her and all and she trusts me also. but it hurts, but im willing to wait for her

what do you guys think???
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young Girl

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Posted: 12-28-07 03:18am

you will both most likely move on
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jv13

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Posted: 12-28-07 03:22am

what do you mean? like our own way or together? cause this girl means alot to me, we both promise that no one will cross our way, that we will get back together
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young Girl

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Posted: 12-28-07 03:25am

your so young
who knows what could happen? from expierience i can say that you will go your seperate ways for the best.
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jv13

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Posted: 12-28-07 03:27am

but its still the same we kiss and tell each other how much we love each other and all
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Flurries in the air

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Posted: 12-28-07 03:51am

u two will most likely move on....waiting a year.....ull prolly meet someone else and will love her too
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ladyT02

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Posted: 12-28-07 05:34am

Sorry hunny but its true. Most likely you both will move on. At your age we go through people like a bag of candy. It sounds horrible but that's our nature as kids and teenagers.

Although you guys tell each other you love each other etc. It doesn't mean that either you or she will find someone else, once your in your late 20,s you.ll look back and feel a whole lot different about the situation. You guys have to mature first befor you can say your gonna be with one person for the rest of your lives
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Jv13
Posted: 12-28-07 05:56am

You know this reminds me about me being about 17, at first we are okay meaning both families are okay with us seeing each other, soon after somethings happend that made both parties families disagree that we see each other, we were sneaking around our families back after sometime it got really bad his family were deadly against me seeing him and my grandma hates seeing him around me one because of his family dislike me the other because of his posessiveness. Finally we broke up. Till today I know that he still think of me sometimes - I was his 1st love but deep down we know that we can't be together. To me it's just a 'puppy love'. Life have to move on.
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Posted: 12-28-07 07:54am

Oh to be 17 and knoow what I know about life as it is now.. Remember how we thought we where all grown up at 17?

I think you will go your separeate ways too. You are very young and a year for someone your age will seem like A LONG TIME
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ndi99

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Posted: 12-29-07 16:12pm

I think you are way to young to be worrying about this let your life roll out as it does these days
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