Joined: 12 Feb 2004 Posts: 44 Location: Washington
Dating??? Posted: 04-21-04 09:17am
When did you guys start dating after you
had your baby? Me and the father broke up
and I feel so lonely now. I miss him so
much but he doesnt want to be with me. I
feel lost now, and I want to be with him
but what can I do? I am having the baby
next month and I want to be with him when
I have the baby. He's telling me that he
misses me, but he tells his friends
another and that we arent getting back
together and he's not going to be there.
Should I start dating again, and who would
want to be with me when I have a baby? I
am going to be lonely for the rest of my
life... I hate this so much.
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Scarf
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Feb 2004 Posts: 1062 Location: Ontario, Canada
Posted: 04-21-04 09:24am
You shouldnt start dating just to get over
a guy..It just messes things up. Wait
until you're ready. There are so many
guys out there who would date a girl with
a baby! Dont worry about that hun.
You'll be fine
shannon xoxox
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KariM18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2004 Posts: 1436 Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
Posted: 04-21-04 10:39am
Lots of guys dont mind datin girls with a
kid! As long as ur not just out to find
a 'daddy' ya know? (although u do have
to look for people u can see being a good
father figure or good influence) and u
can date as soon as u want.. Just be
careful who you choose for your babys
sake.. And u dont want to confuse the
baby by gettin him used to alot of people
so just be picky.. .But I mean if u wanna
be with the father and only wanna date
because your not with him, then I dont
think ur ready to date yet. Theres no
reason to rush. I mean maybe at least
wait til lthe babys here and see what
happens. Goodluck!
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JillMarie
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Dec 2003 Posts: 3022 Location: Iowa
Posted: 04-21-04 13:01pm
Whenever you feel you are ready but I
wouldnt jump into a serious relationship
just cause you feel lonely! Get to know
your baby and that will be good company
for you!
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 04-22-04 01:12am
Yeah just wait it out, you dont need a
guy. They are really good for nothing!
Lol just getting us pregnant! Alot of
guys love dating girls with babies so dont
worry about it at all. They will surround
you like crazy when you go out. Just dont
rush it
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 04-22-04 01:34am
All I am gonna say is be very choosy!
Lots of guys will want to date you but a
lot of them only want to date you because
they know for a fact you *put out* because
you have a kid......So just be careful!
